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Dating Tips For Women . . . Must Read

Beware! The 3 Devastating Mistakes Women

Make That Scare Off The Men They Desire.


Give me 10 minutes and I’ll help you discover why he doesn’t call you back, why he may be thinking of leaving, and why he doesn’t seem that into you.

Important: There are 3 CRITICAL mistakes you may be making to scare off that man you want to keep. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been dating him for a year, you just met him last week, or you hope to meet him tonight…

…and I plan to share these mistakes with you in just a few moments. First I want to tell you about the man who discovered these mistakes.

Question, what do you get when you combine (1) an attractive guy who is hilariously (but poorly) chased by a never ending supply of women… with (2) someone who’s an expert in a woman’s needs and wants, why you need/want these things, and why you can’t seem to catch them.

I can tell you what you get in two words: Christian Carter.

Christian Carter knows women, and he knows the specific mistakes that keep you from catching and keeping your dream man.

Christian gained this knowledge not just from experiencing girls who try too hard, are clingy, and commit other fatal mistakes…

…he also grew up around a LOT of women. Many who didn’t have much success with men.

He and his older sister were raised by their divorce mother.

And she often invited over other single/divorced women to their home for… she would say dinner… but it often turned out to be a long, emotional discussion about men from a woman’s perspective.

These dinner conversations implanted the way women think in to his mind.

As he matured in to a man that many women would love to be with, he could recognize in the women who chased him the same doomed behaviors his mother and her friends were making.

It made him feel guilty to emotionally disconnect from an otherwise great girl because of these mistakes. But he couldn’t help it!

See, if you come on to a guy too strong, it’s not a conscious decision for him to lose interest. It’s just a natural reaction!

Because Christian has a soft spot for women who need help catching their dream man, he’s decided to explain EXACTLY what you can do to stop pushing men away… and then attract and tame the man of your dreams.

If You Can’t Seem To “Catch Him And Keep Him,”
Christian Carter Is Here To Help.

Christian has now spent years documenting his own experiences with women. Some of these women were successful and many were not.

He also conducted a massive number of interviews with women to get their side of the story. He wanted to talk women who always seem to get the guy to discover their secrets…

…but he also wanted to find the most common mistakes of women who haven’t caught “Mr. Right.”

In the end, Christian ended up with a virtual blueprint of how to catch and keep the man of your dreams. It’s actually called “Catch Him And Keep Him,” and he distributes the book online in a digital format (that means you can read it in just minutes from now).

Tens of thousands of women have now read this book and loved it (in a moment you can check out the link below and read all the success stories). It’s continually getting rave reviews and 5 star ratings from women of all ages in over 37 countries.

Here’s a sample of what’s inside “Catch Him And Keep Him”:

  • The inside scoop on what’s REALLY going on inside a man’s mind, including the private thoughts he doesn’t want you to know.
  • The big mistake women make when having “the talk” and asking a man about the relationship that is guaranteed to make things WORSE than they already are… and what to do about it.
  • What the male brain is like and how attraction works for them.
  • A simple way to get your man to understand your feelings that makes him want to do whatever it takes to take things to the next level (You’ll wish you knew about this with every man you were involved with in the past and you’ll want to use it with every man you meet from now on)
  • A simple 3-step method to understanding how your man is feeling that makes him feel closer and closer to you with each step of the process, AND gives you the information you need to keep things moving forward
  • The BIG SECRET all happy couples share that unhappy couples never realize until it’s already too late (You can use this at any stage in a relationship or even when you’re just dating to keep things going on the right track)
  • How women who are “naturally” good with men handle important situations and conflicts (The answer may surprise you, but it’s something you MUST know in order for YOUR relationship to ever have a chance of moving from casual to committed)
  • How to use powerful emotional “triggers” to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He’ll know you’re “the one” for him from the first day you meet)
  • A way to let a man know that you are “selective” and make him want to do twice as much for you to get your attention (This is the REAL secret to making a man LONG to be with you… and it doesn’t involve any weird “manipulation” or bitchy “tricks”)
  • How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a “casual” partner (Use this early on and he’ll want to see YOU and only you … keep it up and he’ll love you forever )
  • How your emotions can deceive you into thinking a man is right for you when your mind (and all of your friends) KNOW he’s wrong (Use this simple test to know the TRUTH every time)

Bonus: Wouldn’t It Be Great If Men
Came With WARNING Labels!

In “Catch Him And Keep Him” Christian tells you how to play your cards right and get the guy…

But he ALSO helps you decipher if the man really is the great guy he appears to be! Christian knows men, and he knows how to spot jerks of all types.

(Especially after conducting so many interviews with women who had been betrayed.)

Picture this: what if every man’s forehead flashed with these warning signs…

  • Emotionally unavailable.
  • Won’t call you after you sleep with him.
  • Will CHEAT on you!
  • Will run away as soon as you too start getting closer.
  • Or even… THIS ONE! THIS ONE! He’s totally a nice guy.

Armed with this knowledge to avoid the bad guys, and a blueprint for catching and keeping the good guys, finding the man of your dreams could be as simple as reading Christian’s book!

To get Christian’s book, all you need to do is click the link below. You’ll be taken to a page that has a detailed explanation of Christian Carter and what you can expect to find in “Catch Him And Keep Him.”

Success Stories: When you’re reading about the book, I want you to pay extra special attention to all the success stories women have had finding the man of their dreams with Christian’s help. It’s really heartwarming!

Literally thousands of women have been helped with Christian’s advice. And if you’d like to be next, you should click the link below (that says “Yes! Catch Him And Keep Him).

When you click this link you’ll find out ALL ABOUT the 3 devastating mistakes women make that scare off the men they desire.

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Once you’re armed with Christian’s advice, you will feel…

…equiped with effective tools to attract that successful, tall, good looking man who is totally crazy for you (and you for him)…

…capable of finally experiencing that loving relationship you deserve, complete with affection, attention and a deep emotional bond.

…ready to skip all those painful experiences with shallow pin heads.

If that sounds good to you, click the link above now.

Good luck finding your dream man!

Dating Tips For Men.... Must Read

The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes
YOU Probably Make With Women—
And What To Do About It

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of Double Your Dating

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A Nice Guy

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple…

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
"Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her
Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens…

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
How You Feel Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How
Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP


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This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night… right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling… like I don't know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States… and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

I Now Have A FREE, Three-Times-A-Week Email Newsletter…

...But the REALLY GREAT news is that I now publish a free email newsletter three times a week that teaches any guy how to increase his success with women DRAMATICALLY.

And I'd like to invite you to sign up.

It's free, there's no obligation, I'll never share your email address with anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles (and no, I'll never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email when you try to remove yourself).

Of course, it even get's better than that…

In addition to my free email newsletter, I also have a killer downloadable eBook that you can download right now and be reading in literally MINUTES from right now.

It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and easily.

To sign up for my free three-times-a-week newsletter AND download your copy of this online eBook, just go here:

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Oh, And One More Thing…

In this day and age of "instant gratification", I realize that this might just sound like another late-night info-mercial promising to make you rich by next week.

Well, that's not the case.

I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy writing this eBook. I wanted to design and create a program that ANY guy could easily understand and start using IMMEDIATELY to meet and date more women… without having to lie, do dishonest things, or be "manipulative".

I now believe that ANY man can be more successful with women and dating, and I get emails every day with success stories from guys who are using this program to meet and date wonderful women.

I know, I know… an ebook that can teach a regular guy how to be more successful in the dating world? No way.

Well believe me, this program will DRAMATICALLY increase your success with women… I absolutely guarantee it 100%.

If you'd like to take your success with women and dating to the next level, and have the kind of success that you've always wanted, then go sign up for my free newsletter, get all the details, and check out some great free samples of the eBook located here:

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Perfect Kissing
Perfect Kissing

Kissing Tips

Kissing Tips for every situation

“A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.”
Ingrid Bergman

The kiss is a natural part of being human, and has been such throughout history and across cultures. It is used to show respect and affection. Perhaps it is because the kiss is so natural that many people don’t think very hard about good kissing, and as a result join the ranks of the bad kisser. Kissing falls into two distinct types: the social kiss and the romantic kiss.

The social kiss is one between friends or family members, and can extend to complete strangers. The exact details vary from one society to the next, but the essential premise is one of an affectionate greeting. The romantic kiss is far more intimate, displaying strong affection for a particular person, like a boyfriend or lover. We’ll go into a bit more detail on both of these in a moment, but first let’s do a quick run through of the basics of kissing. These instructions will not cover how to french kiss, as that is a separate subject.

Kissing Tips – The Basics

The first, and possibly most important, tip is Pay Attention To Your Breath! Bad breath is one of the biggest turn offs known to man, so make sure that you brush your teeth and carry some breath mints with you at all times. Some people, knowing that they have chronically bad breath, carry around a travel sized toothbrush and toothpaste kit for use after snacks and meals. Take some breath mint or gum shortly after eating, and well before kissing, as you don’t want a mouth full of stuff while you kiss. It will just distract you from the task at hand.

Moisten your lips slightly. This lubricates your lips, letting them slide over your partner’s lips more easily, making for a more pleasant experience for both of you. Additionally, try to avoid excess lip gloss or lipstick, unless you want your partner to wear it as well.

Position yourselves for comfort. Stand close to your partner, and tilt your head slightly to one side. Your partner’s head should be tilted slightly in the opposite direction. This avoids the nose grind, letting the lip lock proceed unimpeded. For romantic kissing, closing the eyes is usually the way to go. A social kiss is usually done with eyes open.
Finally, don’t forget to breath! Breath gently through your nose, letting your mouth do its thing. Most importantly, stay relaxed. A relaxed kiss is a natural and thoroughly enjoyable experience, whereas a stiff or tense kiss is wooden, false, and all sorts of unpleasant.

Now that we have covered the basics, let’s move on to kissing tips for some specific situations, shall we?

Kissing Tips – The Social Kiss

The social kiss can range widely in style and intimacy, from a politicians perfunctory “kiss the baby” routine, to the hugs and kisses we greet family members with. The most common social kiss is bestowed upon the cheek. This kiss is a quick greeting, a token of affection amongst friends and family members. Your relationship with the recipient of one these greetings will dictate exactly how close the kiss is. For strangers, or people we have just met, a little distance between the kissers is best.

Just lean in, and drop a quick one on one or both cheeks, taking the other’s hand briefly. If this is someone you know, or have known for a little while, but aren’t particularly close to, grasp the wrist, forearm or elbow instead. Essentially, the better you know them, the higher up the arm your hand goes. Between close friends and family, taking them by the shoulders, or even hugging them is appropriate, and a lovely way of expressing your joy and affection at seeing them again.

Special Tip - Mistletoe

The holiday kiss is in a special category all its own. Mistletoe is a tradition around Christmas time, and all too often an opportunity for someone to steal a kiss from a person who would not normally welcome such an action from the kisser.
Imagine the following: there is a particular individual who has been crushing on you for some time now, but from your perspective, the chemistry just isn’t there. Come the holiday season, he or she may decide that the fabled powers of Mistletoe are just what the doctor ordered, and approach you, mystical sprig in hand. What do you do?

Just present him or her with a cheek to kiss. Place your hands on the front of their shoulders. This puts you in a good position to better control the action, and gently push them away if necessary. If they try to dodge the cheek and go for the lips instead, just turn your head so that they hit the other cheek instead, and gently push them away, saying something like, “I’m so glad that we’re friends.”

It can happen that they don’t quite get the hint, and come back for more than one kiss. A good strategy to deal with this is to simply ask if you could borrow the Mistletoe, and herb in hand, head for the person you would rather be kissing.

Kissing Tips – The Romantic Kiss

In contrast to the social kiss, which is done with a little distance between the kissers, is the much closer romantic kiss. A romantic kiss is usually done in a more private setting, with the couple standing much closer together, even having their bodies pressed one to the other. Assuming that you’ve read the basics above, the romantic kiss then takes on a life of its own. It is intimate, personal, and private. It is you sharing your space with your partner, and in turn filling their space.

It may seem counter intuitive at first, but the most important aspect of the romantic kiss isn’t breath mints or proper technique, it is respect. You have been invited into another’s personal space, and the extent and duration of that invitation is not up to you. Let me put this another way: an invitation to kiss is not the same as an invitation to grab her butt! Respect the gift you have bee given, and enjoy the garden of delights found there. If things go well, the rest will follow when both of you are ready.

So if butt grabbing is off limits, then what on earth do you do with your hands? Hold your partner. Hugging and kissing is a wonderful combination, and classed classic for a reason. If hugging isn’t quite enough, holding your partner’s face in your hands can help to focus your attentions, and your passions into a kiss to remember. Touching the back of the head, the side of the neck and shoulders, or waist are also wonderful ways of enhancing your kissing. Just keep your hands out of the non-PG zones until you have been given permission, and you will be fine.

Beyond that, the best kissing tip I can give you is this: get into it. Relax, forget all the previous kissing tips, and let the whole of your attention be upon your partner, and the wonderful sensations that you two are enjoying together.

Kiss image courtesy of gimmeahug

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