Let's face it, when it comes to women, most men are clueless. We don't know what to say, how to act, or how to respond to women's powerfully subtle clues. Men tend to wander around in a haze, occasionally stumbling upon a lady that will put up with them for a night, or if they are lucky, a lifetime. I don't know how women deal with men.

For the clueless majority out there, I have assembled a short list of some of the more powerful personality traits that men can exhibit and start attracting more women today!

UN-NEEDY/LAID BACK - Most men meet a woman and immediately are all over her. Since they are generally the pursuers, men think they need to attack like a shark. They chase her around, call or text her constantly, and basically end up messing it all up. This is not a good thing. Try pretending like you don't care. Call her and act like you could be doing something better. When you are talking to her at the bar, sit back in your seat and talk to her like you would anyone else. Show small signs that you are interested, but don't go too far with it. If a woman isn't sure if you like her or want to sleep with her, she will end up trying that much harder to get you to like her. It is a strong move.

CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY - this is very important. Women love a guy who is aggressive and dominant, setting goals, achieving them, and continuing to stay driven. Since women operate very much on emotion, they want a man who remains in control, not letting detours or other outside factors affect him.

FUNNY - Who doesn't like being around somebody that can make them laugh? Everybody likes to laugh. When you can make a girl laugh, she feels safe, happy, and comfortable. Women love this quality in men.

HUMILITY - There might not be a bigger turnoff than an arrogant prick. Even if you are rich or good looking, or have a great personality, it is important to be humble about it. Don't be the idiot who needs to brag about it because that is a major sign of insecurity and women will pick up on it big time.

CHALLENGING - Women want that challenge of getting a guy. This is so important! Guys think they need to give it up immediately or kiss a girl's butt until it's strawberry red. This couldn't be farther from the truth. Women need uncertainty, teasing, and game playing. Make them confused about how you feel about them. Remember, women operate on emotion. The more their emotions go up and down, the more female they feel and the more they will want you.

NOTICE DETAILS - Women smell good, wear nice clothes, and decorate their houses nicely because they want men to notice. If she has on sexy shoes or a sexy dress, compliment her on it. "I like your hair, or I like your earrings" will do just fine. Don't overdue it. This will impress them very much.

CREATIVE - This can cover a wide range of things. You could be a good painter, a musician, a good joke teller, a good writer, or someone with a quick wit. Anything that shows a sign of creativity is super hot to women.

CARING/THOUGHTFUL - Women love to know that you are thinking of them and treating them kindly. Whether you give them a gift, or send them an email just letting them know you care about them, it all means that you are thinking about them. This goes far with women. Jealousy can also make them know that you were thinking about them, although you don't want to be the jealous guy all the time.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE /FUN - Again, who doesn't want to be around someone that is fun, where you can laugh with each other any time you are together? This is one of the more important qualities to possess if you want to attract the ladies. Women love being comfortable and feeling safe, and laughter and happiness will give them this feeling. If a woman is happy, don't bring her down to make her feel bad or to have control over her. Doing this is a huge no-no. Positive attitudes always make people around you feel better.

INTELLIGENT - being an intelligent man is sexy to women. You don't want to bore her with geometry and space travel talk though, unless that is what she is in to. Be interesting and intelligent in a way that she can relate to and feel engaged in. Being charming to her with your ideas and feelings will surely turn her on to you.

WELL GROOMED/DRESSED - Women want men that have style and are well dressed. The clothes don't have to be expensive. You just need to have a good look that fits your personality. You also need to have nice shoes. Women love shoes. If you don't know how to dress, or want the clothes that would look the best on you, have a girl take you shopping. One, they know what they are doing, and two, they love doing it! To them, it's like dressing a grown up doll.

Hygiene is also extremely important guys. This might seem like a no brainer to you, but you would be surprised how many guys overlook this part of attraction. Keep your hair groomed, wear nice cologne (you can also have a woman pick this out for you), always have fresh breath, keep your fingernails clean, and always wear clean clothes.