relationship aspects

life is probably the most amazing and puzzling expression of God! and so r the rules governing it (are there any? one can never know).

i always contemplate over a very interesting aspects of a “true” relationship. is it always important that u know and understand ur partner well before entering into a relationship? is it a must to understand abt each others needs or knowing abt each others likes or dislikes beforehand? i always debate this point with my gf. it goes without saying that she thinks its important. thats the reason i m emptying my heart here. i dont know wat does it mean by all the aspects of a “true” relationship and i guess i shall never know. but atleast wat i understand is the fact that its not entirely necessary to know ur partner beforehand (i mean before entering into a relationship). relationship is all abt understanding and knowing urself and ur partner and enjoying all the ethos of life but it can also b done after one enters into a relationship. wont it make life better and more interesting? there r so many times when v show ppl only wat v want to show.

and wats more, there is always an instinct abt any person u meet. that always governs whether u wud like a person or not. does it not? infact life wud b so much fun when instead of finding a partner that u “know”, u just find a partner and know him. wouldnt it? i guess thats the basic essence of life! and thats the magic of it all!

For another such introsp-ective approach to relationships,please also visit:

http://arnab-2.blogspot.com/2008/05/emotional-intimacy-or-physical-intimacy.html