reporting a sexual abuse to the police
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As a survivor of sexual abuse this has to be the hardest thing to reporting the abuse to the police, and to be totally honest most people don't especially men or like me report the abuse a lot later on in life. It depends on the person or the parents or Guardian's of child victims. As we know court cases for sexual assault can be very horrific and emotional for anyone, lets not kid ourselves. I believe you shouldn't force a person to go through this, they have to do it for the right reasons but what are the right reasons. A lot of victims are angry and hurt and want justice, I know I wanted to punch my attacker in the head but that's just me I'm over that bit now if you want compensation you will have to go to court. I'm afraid its all very daunting I know but believe me I've been through this so it can be done sometimes you have to bite the bullet and face your fears and please you are not alone in this. Your decision may not be to report the abuse to the police or you may decide to do it later in life know this in most countries there is no time limit to reporting the abuse I know it's so in Australia but of course the longer you leave it the harder for the conviction
1. If you are over eighteen it is your choice whether you report a sexual assault or sexual abuse to the police.
2. There is no time limit for when you can make a report it doesn't make a difference if it happened 2 days ago or 20 years ago. However, the sooner you report the better, because it may be harder for the police to get enough evidence to lay charges as time passes.
3. If you decide to report to the police, it is a good idea to talk to people you trust beforehand to get support.
4. You can ask for a female police officer if your a woman if that will make you feel more comfortable.
5. You can take a support person with you, but they cannot speak on your behalf.
6. Making a statement can take several hours. You can ask for a break whenever you need to.
7. Police will take a written statement. They will ask a lot of questions including some which may seem strange to you and some that may be upsetting. The police ask questions to help them gather evidence, they need the information to be very detailed so they can pin the event down to a time and person. You may not be able to remember all of the details. If you don't remember, be honest and tell the police what you can remember.
8. Sexual assault is a crime against the-State: This means that you cannot "press charges". The police will decide if there is enough evidence to press charges. You then become a witness to the crime.
9. It can take a while (up to two years and sometimes more) after you make a statement to the police before charges are laid and the case goes to court.
10. Many cases do not go to court. Criminal charges must be proven "beyond reasonable doubt". That means the court must be convinced that the person is guilty.
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Hi Mulder sorry I forgot to say keep the hubs coming.
Jenny
thank you Jenny for your comments yes these mongrels shouldnt get away with it I hope this hub can help other people like myself as well in fact yes this is a healing time for me its all good .
I will thanks for your support
Dean
Mulder You really are at the forefront when it comes to raising awareness on these painful and shameful criminals. Shame, fear , peer pressure tend to keep such issues under wraps. Not to mention it is often a relative or close family friend who is the abuser. The psychological harm done to victims is incalculable.
Great but painful hub.
thank you Sixtyorso yes I guess I made my mission in life to help other people who though this because I have found not much is said about this and sometimes you have come out and say enough is enough Im here to help people get though it hopefully .
Yes, sexual abuse is a demon that causes too much mental and emotional suffering. I work in the jail and correctional system in Grants Pass, Oregon. I can't tell you how many so called criminals have been abused in their life time. Please also see my new approach to self-help, recovery, and healing. Sincerely: Gary Eby, author and therapist.
Not sure if this happens on bisexuals more. I have a bisexual friend from the site BiLoves. She told me she got that before.
This is never an easy subject to discuss, whether a person is abused or not. To have been the victim, it is much harder an issue to discuss, or even deal with. It takes a special strength to do both, and to be able not only to speak out, but to help others is amazing. You have a strength that few people possess. I applaud you and hope you continue to inform those who need to tap into their own inner strength.
thank you for your comment it must be hard for you qlcoach to work in that kind of enviorment and yes what you see is a snowball of sexual abuse Im afraid .
Cellinda im sure it happens too anyone gay bi straight it dosent matter sexual abuse .rape always rears it ulgy head .
Hi Michelle yes this not easy subject to discuss but I get my inner strengh from my mum who was a brave fighter who died of breast cancer a couple of years ago my mum never quit fighting so will I.















DreamOn says:
15 months ago
Hi Mulder thanks again for being the voice for so many people children and men and women who have been abused in such a terrible way. I know it must be hard for you at time to write the words you do. I hope this is a very healing time in your life. The people who commit these crimes are not only cruel bullies of the worst caliber they are also thieves. The steal the innocence of children the dreams of parents and sometimes the lives of those they abuse. It is a heneous crime and the shock waves are felt deep within the fibres of humanity. Bless you for speaking out. You are a very courageous person.
Jenny