seduction who needs it more - men or women
59Seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person to engage in some sort of behavior, frequently sexual in nature.
In my opinion it's not a matter of who needs it more, it's who does it more?
Women are the ones who invented seduction. To be exact Cleoparta brought it about. There was also Helen of Troy , Hsi Shi and the great marilyn Monroe. They would use their sexuality to get what they want and to get ahead. They would have their make up done right and dress like goddeses. They would show glimpses of flesh, teasing their victims, creating a fantasy figure who'll satisfy his every desire and world in which he feels he can escape to, to relax and forget about his manly duties. Most men fell in love. Even today women would seduce men to get what they want, and men would usually fall for the women charms and sex appeal. In my opinion men make it easy for women because most men have no self controll and most women take advantage of that.
On the other hand men seduce women to get them in bed. They would start out by trying to create a friendship , being polite and being a total gentleman to earn the womans' trust, creating a false sense of identity as to pretend that he's the ultimate ladies man, he's going to give you your space and act like he's not interested in the woman, just so she can make the first move, and when she does he puts on his charm and seductive voice and lures her in: acheiving what he wanted. Sexual Intercourse.
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LOL yes thatz true , but a not so sexy guy can do it too, but it depends on how good he is and the person who he is going after. A ugly person just have to work more harder than the average good looking guy....
Not every man is out to just have sex and not every form of seduction is aimed at that.
I will try to seduce receptionists, seceratries, waitresses. With the only intention of getting things done more easily. Flirting is the most innocent form of seduction and it works quite well to have things run your way smoothly (without harming others, of course)
Ok i like that and i totally agree, Not every one of they are, but most of them are interested in sex only...Times changed... And the more time changes, the more men change and soon there wouldn't be less and less of a decent guy who's not trying to get into your panties.
I think most of us are often interested in sex. But that doesn't necessarily make sex our objective :)
Ok can you give me reasons why men seduce women?
To get what they want in an enjoyable way, basically. If I go to a restaurant, I will always try to seduce the waitress, so that I will be given a little more attention and friendliness, will be served just a bit faster, and so on.
OH OK I'LL GO WITH THAT.
hummm and I'll have to think "What is ugly...." Ugly to me is ....not well groomed, not charming, not clean, not "tuned in."
The too handsome man is not appealing as most of his thoughts are about him...at least that's been my experience and that could be said about women who are too hot, tho' a man might CHOOSE that anyway...just for fun...and later be sorry as she will most likely break his heart.
in my life I have been more attracted to average to above average...and then, to me they become the most handsome -- as you know them. Personality counts!
o well, Attraction can be a complicated subject - yes?
Yes indeed it can. Thankz for your input on the subject.
marisuewrites says:
2 years ago
I'm trying to remember....hmmm lol
I think a sexy man is one who takes time to be seductive. Otherwise, what's the point. anyone can do it. But a really sexy person gets involved in the seduction.
that's my thought and I'v beeeeeen around a while. well not that long, come to think of it.
thought provoking hub,