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Swingers in the North

Say the word Yorkshire to most and the bulk will probably think of Emmerdale, flat caps & funny speaking locals although as a Yorkshire man I don’t struggle understand these Yorkshire locals although I have long moved away from their

But think of it this way Yorkshire Swingers is now one of the top searched terms within many search engines and is fast becoming the largest swinging community around the UK, true this may have a lot to do with the size of the county after all how many countries stretch from one side of the UK (west – east) to the other

Yorkshire swingers are stretch out over a massive region of the UK and you would think finding these swingers contacts to be difficult, well you couldn’t be further from the true as most decent swingers sites will have split there database into North, East & West Yorkshire and the better ones (like our own) split this down into towns and villages making finding local contacts even easier

With so many swingers it would be obvious that this region would also have the most swingers clubs and in Sheffield you have the club that everyone knows about and most dream of attending a party their that “La Chambre” and if you’ve never watched the film then check out some of the websites that are going around

Something that has always amazed me is the popularity of swingers websites when theirs so many clubs around the North after all in the Yorkshire region I can think of 10 good clubs just off the top of my head, but I suppose to take yourself off into a swingers club does need a lot of confidence, even worse if you’re a single female or a male, this is of course assuming as a single male you’ll even get into a swingers club as most won’t even allow single males!

So if you’re a swinger living in Yorkshire you won’t have problems find local contacts either by using the various clubs or far better in my view from the contacts websites that not only offer a fast way to meet contacts but in a much safer and cheaper meeting place.

Don’t play alone join the thousands of other swingers living in Yorkshire that’s looking for new contacts now

The Condom: A History Of “Material” Changes

Though the condom we have today is basically the same as the condoms we remember throughout our lifetime, there is a rich history of the condom.

The Early Centuries

Throughout the history of the condom , it was used for both birth control and to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. The condom is depicted in some ancient art, as far back as 12,000 – 15,000 years old. It is difficult to know what material those condoms depicted were made of. There is, however, a legend of Minos, which is recorded in 150 AD, that lends credence to the idea that there were condoms in ancient history . In this legend, Minos suffers from a curse that makes his semen have scorpions and serpents. In order to keep his semen from hurting the women, he would use a goat's bladder ( as a female condom) to protect them.

Renaissance Years: 1500 – 1800

By around 1500 AD, there were glans condoms, which only covered the top of the penis. In China, these were made of oiled silk paper or lamb intestine. In Japan, they used animal horn or tortoise shell.

In 1494 there was a major syphilis outbreak, and by 1594, the method of combating it was to use a condom. At this point, a condom was a linen sheath soaked in a chemical solution and dried prior to use. They were just big enough to cover the head of the penis, and were held in place by a ribbon. During the Renaissance time period, condoms were also made out in animal bladders and intestines. By the last 15th century, there were condoms being brought over to Japan by Dutch traders. They were made out of “fine leather,” and – really for the first time – covered the whole of the penis.

During the 18th century, the history of condoms is more documented. Condoms were available in many forms: in various sizes, and from either linen or “skin” (which was intestine or bladder softened by being treated with sulphur and lye). They were also more widely available. They could be found in barbershops, chemist shops, at the theater and in the open-air markets, as well as in pubs.

Rubberization – Thank You, Charles Goodyear!

The first rubber condom was made in 1855, giving the condom's history to have its first drastic change. These could be reused, making them a more economical choice long term, though initially the skin condoms were still cheaper and allowed more sensitivity.

Initially, condoms were made of rubber by wrapping strips of raw rubber around molds shaped like penises. The molds were then dipped in a chemical solution to cure the rubber. Originally, these were made to fit just the glans – or tip – of the penis, and a man would have to have a doctor measure him to get the right size. Unfortunately, they also often fell off during use. Soon, the rubber manufacturers realized they could sell more by making full-length, condoms that were “one size fits all.”

In 1912, a new manufacturing method was developed – they used a raw rubber solution, and dipped glass molds into it. Using this dipping method, the French manufacturers were able to add textures to the condoms they produced – and the history of the condom was influenced again.

Erotica Isn't a Bad Thing (But You Already Knew That)Erotica Isn't a Bad Thing (But You Already Knew That)

Erotica is usually identified in the same school as pornography, though it's unfair.  Sure, they both have naked people.  But erotica is hinting at, teasing, tantalizing- and porn couldn't be more blatant or graphic, though it's not necessarily bad.  The issue comes down to a simple question:  do you think the human body and/or sex is something dirty, nasty and should be hidden?  If so, your mind's already made up about any nude forms, no matter the quality or the beauty, no matter erotica or porn.  Somewhat surprisingly, women have historically been the main supporters of erotica, and are now the growing in numbers in the female porn industry.

A quick run-down of erotica through the ages:

•    40,000 years ago, in a Spanish cave, the first naked images were painted.  Or at least the first that we've found that date that far back.  They show both men and women, and men with women.  Some believe that the men-with-women designates the first pornographic image.

•    Erotic art was extremely commonplace in both Grecian and Roman homes.  The walls were covered with art and tapestries, the topic of physicality was openly discussed and even the ewers and dinnerware were covered in nude images.  Many were based on their mythologies, but doesn't it make you wonder how the human race survived if these images were so detrimental to children?  They saw them every day, and Romans still managed to carve their place in the world.

•    The Kama Sutra might be one of the most misunderstood tomes of all intimacy times. Unlike most people seem to think, it's not a sexual-deviant's instruction book.  It's a spiritual and physical guide to general fulfillment.  Body and soul.  While some of the sketches might seem too-detailed and others far-fetched (can anyone actually do that-?) it is not pornography.  Its purpose is not self-satisfaction, but mutual gratification.  And appreciation of what couples can do to improve their connection.

•    The Buncton/Winston Sheela Na Gig, which was 1,000 years old, upset someone who destroyed it for its eroticism.  You can find 'before' pictures on the net, which are hardly racy.  Naked, yes.  Destructive to the family fabric?  Hardly.

•    Lastly to be mentioned, the daring daguerreotype.  As in:  how dare they!  What is often omitted from mention is the fact that the models from the 1850s onward were keen on being shown.  It was a new medium.  Looking at the postcards, they're tasteful and celebratory of the female figure.  At least half of the postcards sent were from women.  You could even theorize that these postcards were the first erotica/porn (depending on your interpretation) to become trans-global by both genders.

There's a new history being created at the moment.  One-third of all porn site visitors are women, thanks to the stripping of taboos the internet has created.  The hottest market is being created by women directors, actresses and producers that are doing ground-breaking work to literally please women.  Not to be confused with such delicate erotic artists such as Robert Mapplethorpe, who finally gave praise to the male body.  It could mean that through erotica and porn women are rediscovering their sensual identities, which seems to have been stifled for much too long.  Women shouldn't have to feel ashamed to embrace their sexuality visually, graphically or individually.  They should be able to embrace what they like, mimicking their foremothers through the ages.


What attracts swinging couples towards the Lifestyle?

Are you a swinger couple? If yes, then what attracts you towards the swinging lifestyle? The lifestyle has gained huge popularity among people from all age groups. Some people think that the opportunity to indulge into sexual acts with strangers excites them and compels them to venture into the lifestyle.

The given below factors are responsible for large scale popularity of the lifestyle among people.

It gives them the opportunity to make new friends and increase their knowledge about different cultures and lifestyles.

They are highly over-whelmed with the level of excitement and pleasure provided by the swinging lifestyle.

This lifestyle provides the swinging couples with a chance to indulge into sexual acts with others after the consent of their partners. Hence, it is a mutual-consent practice rather than cheating.

Bi-curious individuals get the opportunity to indulge into homosexual activities with other swingers.

People inculcate a habit to accept offers by all individuals irrespective of their cast, color, creed, shape, size or gender.

It gives you an opportunity to learn about the trivial aspects about your sexuality. You can also learn new tricks to woe your partners. Hence, you can experiment with different sexual activities and try them with your partner. This brings all the more love, passion, loyalty and sexual happiness in the marital lives of the swinging couples.

It inculcates a sense of confidence in your body. You'll be approached by several individuals during the swinger party or vacation; hence it boosts your confidence and augments your sexual performance.

The lifestyle gives you the opportunity to enjoy a nudist lifestyle. You can wear a sexy and sensuous dress or just pump up the sexual libido of other swingers by arriving nude at the swinging location.

Thus, the above swinging liberties and pleasures force several swinging couples to join a swinger club or community to meet their sexual desires.

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