How to Stop a Breakup - How Happy is She?

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By terrancesharpe34


Helping around the home (by Oh My Stinkin Heck on flickr)
Helping around the home (by Oh My Stinkin Heck on flickr)

Today we're going to focus in on relationships with a woman, and you're going to learn how to stop a breakup, simply by getting back to the basics.

First off, it may be good to consider how you won her over in the first place. What did she find attractive about you? Surely she told you at some point, what was it? The answer to how to stop a breakup could be as easy as revisit what she found in you in the first place. Alright, let's go on.

Are you the one taking care of the household financially, maybe she takes care of the homestead while you're working outside the home? No doubt she shows here appreciation for what you do - are you showing your appreciation for her efforts? Show your gratitude toward her - this goes a long way toward saving a relationship.

Do you want to know what's next in answering how to stop a breakup? While you no doubt share common hobbies, is there something that she's very passionate about that maybe you've not shown an interest in or even asked her about it lately? You don't have to love everything she's into, but show an interest on her behalf. Maybe she's an aspiring artist and she spends a lot of time working on her next piece - ask her about it, watch her working on it - does she need supplies, maybe buy a tool that she's been lacking, but won't buy for herself. Now you're involved in something even though it may not be your passion - you appreciate that it's hers.

What about the little things? How about a simple card or a tasteful bouquet of flowers? Does her car need simple maintenance, is there work to be done around the home, what about chores - when's the last time you helped her with the laundry? Take a moment out of your day to do something simple for her - don't advertise it, just take care of it. Believe me, she'll notice.

Be sensitive to her needs, it may well be that at times she needs a moment - that's ok, she could just be dealing with something on her own and doesn't have the need yet to involve you. If you want to save your relationship, be patient with her, allow her the space and time she needs.

So, we've discussed just a few ways on how to stop a breakup - the best advice is to get back to the basics - revisit the old times, know what worked and keep doing it - keep her happy and make her feel appreciated and valued by you. If she's happy, you're both happy.


Tune up her car. (Photo by JonDissed on Flickr)
Tune up her car. (Photo by JonDissed on Flickr)

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