take it from a granny who knows
57Trust me, girls know what they want.
So you want to know how to ask a teen age girl out.
First, you better be her age. Anything older is just not right.
Secretly, girls really like poems. No matter how goofy a poem is, we love them.
If you are going to ask her out, build up to it. Make it interesting and exciting. When you see her in the school hall, pass her a little note telling her how nice she looks today or maybe carry her books to the next class. This is really the way to catch her heart. If she really likes you, she will let you carry her books. Plus, it is old fashioned and girls just dig it, know what I mean?
Next you should find out her eating spot. Walk up and ASK if you can sit across from her. This gives you the opportunity to look in her eyes. Talk about things SHE likes. Give her a chance to open up to you first. Trust me, if you bore her with football and other things, your losing her. Then tell her about yourself. Never interrupt her.
Once you have built up the nerve, you can ask her out. For this, you must make a big production of it. Get a gift for sure. A great gift would be a bracelet or a necklace. NEVER give her a ring. That says to much. Wrap it up in pretty paper and add a bow to it. When you have her undivided attention, talk to her, all the while you will have the gift out in full view. Make sure she sees it. Put it in your pocket then pull it out again a time or two. Once she finally asks about the gift, pull it out and hand it to her, then ask her out.
Good luck.
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No one can change my mind. I am right, bigaboo, and you know it. Don't down talk your elders. Shame on you.
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I dunno, a gift? That cost money and giving another person a gift without even knowing them might suggest to some its lame. If I was the girl I would hand it right back cause the gift might create some expectation of a return of some kind.
the books and all that stuff are a waste of money. If a guy doesn't have the instincts and good manners to see who is attracted to him and know how to talk to her, he is missing something. The biggest surprise for her is to take her to a free concert in the park. You don't expect to marry her. You just want to get to know her. A play is good too. You don't need to talk your head off on the first date. Young people who pair off are missing out on meeting and having fun with lots of different kids. I know this isn't real popular right know but it has been my philosophy all my life. Friends first and friends always. Othewise it's just a great meet market to nail down a relatonship.
If you don't have anyone interested in you in high school, that will change soon enough. You are lucky you don't have to deal with all the drama. Hanging out with friends is much more fun and you don't have to grow up so soon. Why not stay out of the yoke of responsibility until after college or at least until you are settled in to a good job. Some probably should never takeup seriously with anyone. Keep it light, keep it fun.
Kids are going to get where they want to be as they decide and on their terms. All the advice in the world isn't going to change that. Somer parents have a hard time accepting their kids as people in their own right. My kids, like most kids have their own agendas and they turn out just fine. t's amazing what they are caable of with some love and care.
bigaboo says:
3 years ago
too bad grannys wrong again