VALENTINES DAY!!!

"Are you with the Right Person"???

I remember asking my mother and my friends, how do I know?

The answers I would get would be, "I don't know" or "you just know" and the best one "do you love each other". I have thought that in the past I have loved many times and yet I am not married to those people. I learned that I needed to put my wants and dreams on the table including future plans that I had for my self.

After scaring off a few would be mates, low and behold there was one that agreed with me, one that was on the same page.

A part of me thought this couldn't be true, but I needed to know. So I pursued the relationship and tested the person's intentions.

You know that you know, you don't need to ask "is this the right one"

TIMMING is everything-meaning

Do you both want the same things now!

Now -meaning now, not in the future, not later now!

Would you and can you see yourselves sharing everything!

You don't need to hide anything, you may not always agree but you are not afraid to express you! Talk about your dreams and hopes see if you match; see if you would be able to support each other. Love is complementing and supportive, it survives and grows through thick and thin.

Many relationships have been good but it just seemed that I wanted something now that wasn't right for the other person at that time, so it didn't work out. You can't try to make it happen and you can't change the other one.

Not to say, we all do grow and change but again for me it was all in the timing.

When my children ask me how to know when they meet the right one, I will give them this advice.

Do you both want the same things NOW!

Married 17 years and still in love...........