Looking to use clever one line messages to flirt shamelessly? Ever wish you could spice up your typical who, why, what, where messages with something original? Have someone read between the lines based on implication and misinterpretation to amp the romance. Need tips for flirting.

Well there are a few core principles to flirting:

Implication - By implying something rather than outright saying it you are flirting. For example if I wanted to tell someone that I wanted to kiss them I might say "I want to kiss you" this is nice but ultimately boring and straightforward. Using implication to flirt I might say "I just licked my lips" or "I'm biting my lip thinking of yours".

Misinterpretation - By saying something leading that could be taken in more than one way you can use misinterpretation to flirt. For example if I wanted to tell someone I wanted to hug them I could use misinterpretation to make it interesting. I could say "Wouldn't it be nice to feel a hot touch across my skin all over my body" than when they respond I can reply with "oh I was talking about a shower ;)" The wink is to let them know you are teasing if over text / IM / email etc..

Using suggestive words - by using words that suggest or have pleasurable connotations for the reader it makes mundane lines become flirty and interesting. For example instead of saying "I was watching xyz program" say "I was enraptured by xyz program". Or another example would be instead of saying "I'm taking a shower" say "I'm going to slowly strip off all my clothing and rub all over my body.....with soap, in the shower" That last example is for messaging and uses suggestive words and misinterpretation. It's the ultimate flirt message and a great tip for flirting.

So as you can see flirting is all about making the boring interesting and hinting at things. It seems really strange at first. I would recommend practicing by not giving a straight answer to people all the time. Keep being evasive until they call you on it and than smile and tell them you are messing with them. This will give you the calibration you need to be able to flirt effectively. If you feel it would be too out of character for you to do this, try practicing on strangers such as service people and waitresses (can't do this yet? Read my article on talking to strangers).

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