Wouldn't it be nice to just post something like this in newspaper ads or wherever the public might take a glance at? Heck, the yellow pages?

Why am I saying this?

It just so happens that a decent relationship is hard to come by these days, with all the hype and the fast paced way of life for some people. By decent relationship, I mean those that really require the commitment and dedication and not just there for convenience. With most of the youth today adapting to the "friends with benefits" trend, I wouldn't be surprised if they don't really appreciate the full meaning of a true relationship, one that would involve love, honesty and everything that goes with it.

Ask yourself: is a relationship out of convenience what I really need or something with more meaning? How can a relationship affect my way of life, my demeanor, everything? Is a serious relationship what I really need at this point in time? There are so many answers with the simple questions that I just asked but the answers you give will definitely reflect on what kind of relationship you want.

Take for example, if a guy comes across a hot lady in a party, gets to know her and finds out she's a single mom. The guy would then ask himself: is she worth the effort? Can I be happy with her? Simple questions with different answers. Relationships that involve serious commitment need more than just convenience but rather honesty, loyalty, sincerity and of course, love.

You definitely have to know what you want in your life: Where you want to go, what you want to achieve and most importantly, if you want someone to be there with you. Remember, nobody deserves to be hurt and nobody deserves the pain of heartbreak.