Ways to spice up your sex life

A healthy sex life is essential to any successful romantic relationship. Unfortunately couples tend to find that their sex life falls into a routine, after the initial passion fizzles out.

In this article we will look at some of the best ways to spice up your sex life, for you and your partner. We will start out with some of the tamer methods and then move into more extreme stuff.

Setting boundaries
Before you try anything new, you should discuss your boundaries. You will probably find, that there are quite a few new and exciting things you can try, within those boundaries.

Share your fantasies with your partner, then act them out
Every human has sexual fantasies, sharing these fantasies, with your partner and then acting them, out can greatly improve your sex life.

Change your location
Going away for a weekend, gets you away from your work, kids and routine. It can be a great opportunity to spice things up.

Some couples also enjoys sex in unusual or public places. They enjoy the risk of being discovered.

Talk dirty
Some enjoy it, others don't, but if you haven't been doing it it's worth a try. Remember that half the fun of sex lies in what happens before the physical part.

Sexy Underwear
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Role-playing
Role-playing is a great way to spice up your sex life. A good one for beginners to try is to pretend that you don't know each other. Go to a bar, then pick each other up. This can bring back all those old feelings.

Other popular role-playing games

• The nurse and the doctor
• The cop and the criminal
• The prison guard and the prisoner
• The superhero and the damsel in distress
• The French maid and the master
  

The experience can be enhanced with the use of costumes or props.

BDSM
It stands for bondage sadism and masochism. Start out with the bondage then, if you like, try some of the more extreme stuff. Stay away from any form of suffocation and have a safe word to tell your partner to stop, if it becomes unpleasant.

The threesome
This is always tricky territory. Maybe you have a friend, who you can approach to lend a helping hand. Just make sure everyone is onboard and try to keep things from getting weird.