ways to win his heart

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Here are some ways you can score points to win a man's heart.


1. Give him freedom

Initially during a relationship a man will want to spend a lot of time with you. As the relationship matures, a man needs time for independence. He needs time to exercise, meet friends and enjoy some time to gather his thoughts together. Although he loves being with you, a little time off will be healthy for both of you.

2. We like you for who you are inside

Although initially men may be attracted by looks, if you want to continue a strong relationship, it is wise to have a warm personality and not be obsessed about looks. Don't feel like you need to panic over an extra 5 pounds that you gained or that a small zit doesn't go away. If he is really serious, he will see your personality as much more valuable than your boobs.

3. Feed him

There is a popular saying that says "the way thorough a man's heart is through his stomach". When you want something, try feeding him first. A delicious home cooked meal is something every guy craves. Even better, try cooking similar recipes that his mom used to cook for him. The familiar home made meals will remind him of family ties, and how you went the extra mile to know what he liked.

4. Attend a sporting event together

For men who are into sports, he gets pretty excited when you watch his favorite team together with him. Men enjoy the thrill of the sport and when you are together with him, he will love you for it. There is a reason why so men propose during sports venues, haven't you noticed? He will also appreciate that you are taking time to take interest in his hobbies.

5. Stroke his ego

Once in a while, you should stroke his ego stating how great he was when he solved a problem. Accept some decisions he makes even though you may not agree with him (It can be simple as Chinese food or Italian food?). This way you will make him feel important and needed.

6. Be good to his family

Remember, these are the folks that he has the tightest bonds with. If you are good to his family, he will score some big points since you are caring for some of the people he loves the most.

7. Don't imply, just say it

"Wouldn't it look nice if there were flowers on the dining table?" you might say to try to get him to give you some roses on valentines. Well, a lot of guys will just say "yes, it sure will" and leave it at that. Men don't want hints, they want you to tell it like it is. If you imply something, men won't understand that you are hinting at something, they will just leave you hanging. Instead, you should take the direct approach. If you want flowers you can just say "Will you get me some roses on Valentines?".

8. Men like women who are active

Play some sports together: maybe tennis or golf. Men like women who are somewhat active. Not only will it be beneficiary for your health, but it will nurture your relationship as well.

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amy jane  says:
4 months ago

Good advice- I think being good to his family is a big one -especially his mother. :)

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