What do girls like in guys

This is an article written by my very good friend Marie. Hope you will find it informative.

Many of my guy-friends ask me this question over and over again. "Marie", they say, "What do girls like in guys?" I think I should answer that in full once and for all, so that next time someone asks me that, I can just say "google it!". So what do we girls like in guys? There are several things we girls judge a guy by.

Apearance. Looks don't matter they say. Well that's half right. Looks do matter but when guys think about looks they think it's all about the face or height. Face and height contribute to appearance, but these aren't the only things that 'appearance' comprises of. Your body tone is another thing that appearance is made of. So if you're fat or if you're skinny - find a gym. The clothes you wear also make up your appearance as well as your hair style, so if you haven't tried dressing stylishly - you should. If you have acne or bad teeth - visit a cosmetic salon or a dentist. These are the things you can change about yourself, so why not? You probably heard some guys say "you have to be rich to get girls". That statement, while not entirely true, does hold some truth to it. Rich people are usually successfull people, and success attracts. Now, I don't mean you have to get rich in order to get a girl. You can be poor, but what's important - you have to strive to be successful. Successful people are also people that are not afraid to take risks. So start working on yourself: if there are things you always wanted to do but were afraid to - go and do these things. Set yourself some goals you would like to reach and start working on reaching them. Another thing that is important is the internal state you're in. You've probably heard that we girls like guys that are self-confident. Here's why. Girls can sense a guy's internal state, so if you have anxiety, then no matter how hard you try hiding it, we will notice. And trust me: if you're anxious around us, it's not appealing at all. The best way to be more appealing is to overcome your fears. One of the fears I come around too much is the fear of talking to a girl. What if she doesn't like me? What if she tells me tu f*** off? What if she calls me an idiot? What will the people around think of me if I fail? All kinds of questions pop to mind when you're afraid of talking to girls. The best thing to do is go there and try to fail deliberately. That makes no sense, I know, but trust me if you fail 10 times with ten girls, then you'll learn that nothing bad is going to happen if you fail. The world won't come crashing down on you. You just move on and go talk to the next one, trying some new way of approaching her. Eventually you'll find what works.

What I'd suggest, that would help alleviate your fear of failing, is going to the gym and taking boxing classes. Like one of my friends says: "There's something about getting hit in the face a couple of times that makes you stop thinking that you can't handle a simple hit, such as failing to pick up some chick". I'd trust him, if I were you - he's seen with a new girl every week. Besides, when it comes to a fight you'll be able to defend yourself as well as your girl. You can also employ psychological techniques such as EFT or BSFF to combat your fears, these techniques have been proven to work on many people I know.

Your internal state also affects what you say and the tone of voice you say it in. What you say and what's more important HOW you say it also can repel or attract us. Nervous, squeaky voice repells, while deep and confident attracts. There's something in a deep voice that shows power, so much power that a girl simply can't defend herself and just falls for such a guy.

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