What women like about men

This is an article written by my very good friend Marie. Hope you will find it informative.

Many of my guy-friends ask me this question over and over again. "Marie" they say, "What do women like in men?" I think I should answer that in full once and for all, so that next time someone asks me that, I can just say "google it!". So what do we women like in men?

We like their appearance. If someone says looks don't matter, they are lying. But you don't have to look like a model in order to date hot women either. Let me clarify that. Appearance is not just in the face. It's in the way you dress, it's in the way your skin looks, it's in your hair too, it's in your body, your posture is also important. When was the last time you shopped for clothes? Were you shoping because you've found some cool outfit that you thought would look good on you, or did you do it because you needed a new shirt because the old one had holes in it? If it's the latter, go to the shopping mall and get yourself some decent outfit, find something that makes you look stylish. While you're at it you may notice something else: your haircut doesn't go with your stylish outfit. It may look like your head is out of place. Go to the barber's shop then. And if you have acne - go to a cosmetic salon and get rid of it - it's not because they make you ugly, it's because your skin shows signs of illness and people like healthy people and not ill. The same goes for your teeth - go to the dentist if you need one, if you're fat - go to the gym, get fit, if you stoop just stop, and start looking after your posture, start taking pilates classes as well. Appearance is also how clean you are. I know men who shower once a week. Their hair is greasy, and frankly they stink. Shower once or twice a day, and you will notice the way people start treating you. Don't forget to shave too or trim your beard - how you want to look is up to you. However appearance is just one of the things women (and other men as well) judge you by, and it isn't the most important one.

Another thing women like in men is their status. The simplest way to measure your status is by how much you earn. Yes some women like just money, but that's not what this is about. The more important you are to your employer the more you earn. That's what this is about. Your importance to the society. The more you earn the more you are important to your employer, and the more you earn the more you are able to spend, which makes you a favorite at places like clubs, restaurants etc. Strive for more. Women like that in men. Yet status still is not the most important thing.

The most important thing is what you feel. What you feel reflects in your posture and in your movements, your internal state reflects in your the tone of your voice, and even in the words you choose. The way you feel also affects the way others feel about you, or about themselves. Think about it: a person behaving aggresively towards others causes fear or nervousness in others, a person that talks to you as if you're their best friend makes you feel a bit like you're buddies. And the words you choose also reflect the way you feel about things. If you're open to new people, if you're chatty, if you feel inner strength within yourself while talking to a woman that woman will sense it, and it will give her a feeling that you can protect her, if you're nervous talking to her she will feel that you are weak and she will definitely not think of you as a strong man who can protect her. If you are have anxiety problems, you can try using techniques such as EFT or BSFF to get rid of your fears, and if that doesn't help i'd suggest you find a hypnotherapist, who can help you find that inner strength.

Women also like men who can stand up for themselves and for others, so if you've never been in a fight - sign up for boxing classes. Your ability to stand up, the absence of fear of fighting also reflects in your attitude towards others, as your self confidence grows. Another thing we women find attractive is social proof - that is if you appear to know everyone - this gives you bonus points, as it sparks interest. So, where ever you are, be open to conversations and don't be afraid to chat to people you don't know - think of what you would have said about things going on around you if you were friends. And if you feel uncomfortable doing that, again try EFT or BSFF or any other techniques.

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