The urge to be involve in sex when instigated by any one is as been a part of human life since the creation of man. So humans have love sex so much that they cannot do without sex. A man who struggled so heard to make ends meet, some times is always fortunate to get some extra cash when during his work hour, money he has planed to use in buying himself some nice T-shirt, shoes and other necessary things he may need.
But on his way home, he saw two females with big bottoms he looked at them without getting off his eye, suddenly the sudden urge for sex came to him, so that he could no longer control himself, he want to the local prostitute venue in his locality and choose
the lady with a big ash the was how the conversations goes (Lady b is the prostitute, john is the guy that visit the prostitute) :
John: Hi baby you have a nice ash
Lady B: yeah thanks, you wanna have a feel of it
John: yeah, how much does it cost to have your back on the bed?
Lady B: It cost $5 , so lets go the first room by the right
John: Okay lets go
Now John had only $3 on is own; money in has struggled all day to have, he
remembered a friend gave him $2 to keep for him, he join the money in paying the prostitute, after the sex he began to regret saying "Why did I have to spend my money sleeping with prostitute, oh shit, I fucked up my self i will never do this again" Now I will not do this again was only a word, John never put to action, so that he repeated committed fornication 20 times in 4 weeks, because he was an addict to sex. This 20 times he spent sleeping with prostitute he has been spending $5 for each, now $20x$5
=$100, and have been embarrassed in the public because he had no money to give to his friend, and John's cloths were nothing to write home about. He regretted spending such amount of money in an irresponsible habit.
So if you are a sex Addict and you are willing to stop the habit the following are the steps you should fellow.
1. Pray to God to forgive your sin, telling him how much you want to stop this habit from the depth of your heart. Don't pray for forgiveness today and commit the same sin again tomorrow.
2. Now if you are kind of person that is so addicted to the level that you cannot avoid sex when ever you have money in your pocket, even the money is yours or not, just have sure you put the money some where or just have sure you don't go out with the money
3.Do not look at a woman compassionately just to have sex with her, because from observations and suggestions, Sex addicts are always urge more when they look at a woman compassionately just to have sex with him or her, they will be urge to have sex the next moment and will be tempted to visit a prostitute house.
4. Avoid associates that will encourage you to have sex, there exist some friends that encourage you to do what is good and they are also some that encourage you to do what is bad, now if you have a kind of friend that will always want to discuss with you about the sex he or she had last and how pleasurable it was to him or her, just try to avoid such an association because they will never lead you to any thing good, but just to commit fornication.
5. If you know a tract or road that lead to a prostitute house or your sex partner house, just try to avoid passing such a road, and even if you should pass such a road, always have in mine that today may be the day you will be become a victim to HIV AIDS and
just always put that at the depth of your heart, you will be able to avoid been a victim of the deadly disease HIV.
Now I want you to know sex was something might to be enjoyed by married couples according to the bible, I will prove to you that the bible saying is true . Now I want you to imagine this situation, think of a moment with your husband or wife in a street and a person you don't know says to your wife, Hi my old sex mate, i really missed you, how will you feel as the husband? you will be very unhappy and will seek for a Divorce. Now if you are a lady and some one maybe a lady like you says to you husband, "Hey John I
really missed the nice sex we use to have together, You will be very unhappy and will want to send your wife away, and even Divorce her.
So applying this proved steps will help you from been a sex addict and if you are already are, it will help you stop the habit.
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