Gay and Same Sex Marriage. Now, What's Wrong?
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You know, our world today have become so judgmental of homosexuals. I am not a homosexual but I have to say something regarding this matter. I have a few gay friends and I've seen them being discriminated by other people just because they act differently. They have that certain spark and bloom in them that some people find unusual and unbearable sometimes. Why? Why are people only seeing the exterior of the gays? We have to realize that they are people too, with feelings, with parents, with culture, with humanly emotions. It's not right for us to judge them just because they're different in that sexuality area.
I have a few pet peeves in life, one is homophobes. Why? So what if they're gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual, and whatnot. They are humans. If you believe in God, do you think that it wasn't His intent to bring these people to life? If God loves all, could He ever hate His own children?
Even the term "gay" have become some sort of an insult. "Hey, gay guy!" That's really immature. It only shows that people who say that in front of a decent person are people who have no class at all. I don't want to sound mean, rude and crude, but I'm sure you'll agree. I don't get homophobes. What is there to hate or fear about homosexuals? Is it just the stereotype that conditioned them to think of these people differently?
Also, I'm sure that homosexuals have been branded with some stereotype of being too sexual, having no control of their lust, being too loud, and etc. Well, not all gays are like that. If ever they are like that, it's not because they're gay. It's because of their attitude. The world have become so judgmental of every kind of person. The rule "why don't you look at yourself in the mirror" really applies when it comes to these kind of issues.
Now let's head to the subject of gay marriage. So much controversy regarding this issue. If a man loves a man just like a man would love a woman, is that bad? Is it bad that a man chose to love the same gender as he? Love is a beautiful thing, they say. But why is a man loving another man (or a woman loving another woman) a bad thing if the case is, the relation is tied by love? I don't get the logic, the judgment and the paradigm of it. If you believe that God gave us the right to love (as it is in our free will) then what is wrong with same genders being tied by love? I think conservative people are just too stubborn to realize that humanity doesn't have to conform to the old ways. The planet evolves, animals evolve, humans evolve, feelings evolve, and cultures evolve. It is the way of life, and I say, accept it.
To base the whole homosexuality issue on the bible is just foolish. Why the bible? There are so many scriptures out there and you and I could write our own scripture and just say it's God inspired. We don't know the people who wrote the bible. We've only been conditioned to believe it. Is that enough of a reason? Got conditioned to believe? So we believe that God loves everyone EXCEPT homosexuals, gays, transvestites, cross-dressers, and lesbians? Wow, so God hates a lot of his children? No, I don't believe that. If you believe that God can hate, then you have to question your faith again. Do not be conditioned and brainwashed by organized religion for the matter of homosexuality does not lie in the hands of rich organized clubs such as the Catholic Church. (I don't want to be mean, crude, and rude again)
If you are against homosexuals, gays, transvestites, cross-dressers, lesbians and what not-Remember this: This world of ours is their world too. No one has any right to condemn them for who they are just because you don't agree with what they do or don't do. Respect is the most important thing in regards of dealing and building a relationship with people.
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@ John B. I understand your side. We all have opinions. I was just sharing mine. That is a Christian perspective. Thank you for taking your time reading his hub.
This is really a great hub on gay marriage and the last lines are the essence of the topic. sure +1
Dear Sweet Ron, WHAT!? Duude! You know dude its the excessive amount sand on the beaches that causes gays to be homosexuals,Oh yea its true! The real question is ,'If you're a gay homosexual are you straight?' my friend Buba says you're a lesbian but I don't think so.
Ok, I'll say this in a way even a California Duuude will understand. Nobody cares what gays do privately but when they throw it in our face they're asking to get an earfull. As far as rights are concerned, no problem, but thats not what they're after. They want a Bible rewrite on marraige and be able to sue churches that don't santify their relationships. If that wasn't the case they would ask for a civil union and shut the hell-up!
God doesn't hate people he hates their sin. They're lifestyle choices are what the Bible is against, not them personally. We ,followers of the Bible, don't want it rewritten to satisfy any group of sexual deviates. Sure gays and the rest of the sexual clowns(that also includes swingers, cheaters, nudists, pedophiles, pornographers, exibitionists, flashers, critter inserters, anal beer drinkers, incesters and any heterolsexuals that really shouldn't breed for the sake of humanity) have feelings but so do we and where is your support for our feelings?
I personally weep at night because liberals and gays only care about themselves! What about us? We play by the rules and all we get is a slap in the face! You call us names like homophobe(no ones affraid of homos), bigot(you say what you think and we do the same and were bigots) and breeders(well some one has to or none of us would be here to argue)Why!? Why do you do this to us? I know women are difficult but what makes them think they're so special they don't have to wonder when they'll get lucky like the rest of us.
Well in closing, Ron, Duuude! Nobody hates gays its all a fantasy world they live in, thats why some people call them fairies, I don't, but some people do. Peace.
Ron, Thanks for the great hub. Well written and well said. I'm a man who has been with the same man in a mongamous relationship for 21 years now and yet I still can't include him on my insurance benefits or enjoy any of the other benefits that marriage supplies straight couples who by law are allowed to enter into a union. Thanks for the support, if only everyone had your perspective!














John B. says:
4 months ago
The true Bible ..King James version says " For a man to lay with a man is an abomination unto God...We can argue and throw our opinions around all we want...but there will be a day of judgement ...( No not today)...The word is the word ...too many people are adding to or taking away from the word of God...that people are conforming the "Word of God" to fit their lifestyles....I stand on the word of Our Lord Jesus Christ ...and if the "Word of God says its wrong then it's wrong...... I am having a hard time being ordained because I won't agree with others opinion...i am NOT going by opinion ...but I am going by the "Word Of God"...and not just homosexuality ...but anything that The KIng James version bible says is wrong ...then it's wrong...and there is no right way to do a wrong thing ...God Bless everyone ...and may God have Mercy on us all ...thank you