why Facebook is bad for relationships
75The social networking site Facebook puts its users abreast of the
activities of their contacts, but also can be a poison for
relationships and, as revealed in a recent study, is increasing
jealousy and tensions between their supporters.
According to the department of psychology at the Canadian
University of Guelph, Facebook may lead to serious situations of
jealousy with his continuous flow of information about what we do, who
are friends and what photos appear.
After all, who would not ever wonder why a former boyfriend or
girlfriend is among contacts of your partner? Or who is that blond or
blond-appearing in a very friendly attitude in the photos of our
husband or our wife?
"Facebook allows access to information that would otherwise not
agree and this information often lacks context," he told Efe Amy Muise,
one of the managers of the study at the University of Guelph.
The social network "is exposing more people to triggers of jealousy," he added.
The study, conducted among several hundred students of which a
third were women, showed that Facebook can lure us into a spiral of
distrust.
Thus, a banal comment on the profile of our partner made by a
contact of the opposite sex can lead to suspicion and closely monitor
their Facebook page ... only to find more information feel even more
suspicious and jealous.
"Feelings of insecurity about your partner may cause behaviors
inquisitive and Facebook is easy access to this information," said
Muise.
In many cases, the "spy" can not even control what appears on their profile or can not quickly enough.
Did you have problems with your couple because of Facebook?
- 87% Yes
- 13% No
If an ex-boyfriend writes a comment on our wall or label us a
photo, it may take some time before we realize it ... enough for your
partner first and see what a fight erupts.
Muise says that psychologists and sociologists are beginning to
understand how social networks affect personal relationships and cites
the case of a woman who discovered that her boyfriend had broken up
with her because she changed her Facebook status to "single."
After all, the Internet social networks are a relatively new phenomenon that still somehow we are adjusting.
Although today is already more than 250 million members, Facebook,
for example, was until just three years ago a business network confined
to the U.S. academic community.
Today, almost everyone we know are members of the network,
including current and past our spouses, our bosses and coworkers and
sometimes even our parents.
And so we continue to belong to the club at all costs, even if
some masochism in seeing how our virtual cake groom sends his ex for
his birthday.
"Facebook has become pervasive, especially among the age group of
our study," said Muise. "Therefore, having a presence on the network
can be an important aspect of our social life"
"The Facebook environment normalizes share information about us
and access information from others, including our partners. And do not
belong to the group may seem socially very risky," he added.
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For many, however, the popular social networking goes too far.
A group of five Facebook users in California this month filed a
lawsuit against the social networking site claiming it violates privacy
laws of this state to disseminate private information about its users
without properly informing them of this.
It is not the first time the company, based in Silicon Valley is
facing complaints or criticism from their users by how it handles
private data, and earlier this year amended its rules of use to give
users more control over their privacy.
The recent lawsuit has, according to experts, unlikely to succeed
with success. Yes, Facebook disseminates information private, they say,
but is not precisely what we wanted when we became members?
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