why do women love married males inspite of being aware of thier marital status?
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I think that there are a lot of reasons why women like married men, and it all depends on both the woman and the man in question. In some cases, a woman might like the challenge of seducing a man away from his wife. Similarly, there's something of the "forbidden fruit" about it; the more wrong it feels, the better.
On the other end of the spectrum, I think that a lot of women who are looking for a commitment and want to settle down might be attracted to married men because if they are married, they are willing to make a commitment. Obviously this becomes very complicated; if he leaves his wife for you, he could leave you too, etc, but the basis of appeal could easily be that a woman looking for a family man might fancy a man who already has a family.
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Men need to be worked upon. Why waste time on a new sample when you have one already worked upon by some other woman?! Moreover there is less hassel of commitments. Does it make sense?
It isn't rocket science. She always knows exactly where he is sleeping. He will always be especially attentive. His time is limited, of course, even though wifey "doesn't love him," she still keeps tabs on him. He won't be under her feet all the time. She can do exactly as she pleases, especially on Friday and Saturday night, the two nights he never calls.
He is a sea change above all the losers she dated in the past, the ones who never called back. And the jerks whose idea of a good time is beer and Monday night football. The ones she loaned money to never seem to pay her back. Then there were the after midnight incoming phone calls he would say was his mother calling. Which loser ran up the phone bill or forgot and let the dog out and cost her $100. to retrieve from the pound? And the boasting about the sex, all three minutes of it-- well, you get the picture.
Now, the married guy runs your errands, walks the dog, takes you to nice places to eat or actually brings food and cooks it for you, insisting you relax while he does the work. He brings gifts that are both thoughtful and expensive that you would never get otherwise. You get to eat and travel to out of the way places. After all, he can't possibly be seen by someone who might tell the wife. Finally, there is the added bonus of living single and avoiding the routine of married life and the hard work of establishing a home, coping with budgets, and even the pressure to have children. What do you think?
Oh yes, she may also want to show she can get any man but she isn't sure she would be satisfied with this one. There's no more challenge now she has him. Besides, he would probably cheat.
It isn't rocket science. She always knows exactly where he is sleeping. He will always be especially attentive. His time is limited, of course, even though wifey "doesn't love him," she still keeps tabs on him. He won't be under her feet all the time. She can do exactly as she pleases, especially on Friday and Saturday night, the two nights he never calls.
He is a sea change above all the losers she dated in the past, the ones who never called back. And the jerks whose idea of a good time is beer and Monday night football. The ones she loaned money to never seem to pay her back. Then there were the after midnight incoming phone calls he would say was his mother calling. Which loser ran up the phone bill or forgot and let the dog out and cost her $100. to retrieve from the pound? And the boasting about the sex, all three minutes of it-- well, you get the picture.
Now, the married guy runs your errands, walks the dog, takes you to nice places to eat or actually brings food and cooks it for you, insisting you relax while he does the work. He brings gifts that are both thoughtful and expensive that you would never get otherwise. You get to eat and travel to out of the way places. After all, he can't possibly be seen by someone who might tell the wife. Finally, there is the added bonus of living single and avoiding the routine of married life and the hard work of establishing a home, coping with budgets, and even the pressure to have children. What do you think?
Oh yes, she may also want to show she can get any man but she isn't sure she would be satisfied with this one. There's no more challenge now she has him, and he would probably cheat.
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tinyteddy says:
8 months ago
seducing a man away from his wife theory was good. i agree but there has to be more