Since about one year my eyes were opened to see all those invisible strings that pull us into emotional reaction, and have searched for answers.

It all started as I was working with clients. I am always trying to be a neutral as possible when consulting with a client but some of them are causing me to be angry, impatient, frustrated and others have a vibration which asks for a hug or encouraging words. Others make me push and motivate and others again cause me to challenge them.

I guess if you work with people you know exactly what I mean. This is not me changing mood all the time but reacting to an invisible request. A request of the other side to be treated in a certain way.

but never the less very intense. For quite some time have I asked the person what kind of treatment they generally attract, and the result was very fascinating. It always corresponded exactly with my own emotional observation.

Every single person is always attracting the exact opposite of what they want.

• A person which wants recognition very much will cause you to do exactly the opposite. Observe yourself. You will have a hard time to give a compliment to them or aknowledge their work. You will realize that this is your natural reaction.
• A person wanting to be the center of attraction will have a hard time to get your attention at all. You will try to engage into anything else.
• A person wanting to pitch and sell will make you retrieve and rather buy somewhere else,
• A person wanting to be with you very much will make you step backwards and seek other company.
• A person who wants to be loved will attract ignorance, cheat and rejection,
• A person wanting a partner will attract none or those who do not like a fixed relationship,
• A person wanting money will attract many unfortunate events costing money......... And on and on and on.
• A person with a great desire for peace and harmony will attract a lot of war and arguments

The key to this opposing attraction is always what a person thinks about themselves. How they feel deep inside about themselves.

AS SOON AS YOU "WANT" YOU DO NOT GET IT.

You even push it away when it is in front of your nose. The other person cannot give, even if it would their normal habit to do so. Your own emotions concerning how you feel about yourself determine how others react around you. It's like invisible strings that pull others to react in a certain way. And if they are not conscious of those triggers they get sucked into an emotional dance.

All this is based on the Law of Attraction.

What you think about is what you bring about. What you think about are the words and images and as soon as you feel them they are converted into motion/EMOTION. These emotions are transmitted by your emotional body into the world just like a radio transmitter sends vibrations into the ether.

You act in a certain way and those vibrations make everyone around you move and react accordingly, as described above. Those emotions are thoughts in motion.

And then we have the Law of attraction work in perfect precision.

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE.

• If I swing with love I will attract love.

• If I swing lack of love I will attract Lack of love.

• If I swing riches I will attract riches
• If I swing poverty I will attract poverty.

I will always attract that which I FEEL about myself. If I feel worthy of love I will attract love if I feel unworthy of love I will attract criticism and denial. And this is why we attract all the time exactly the opposite into our life of what we actually want. A weak person will attract a bully and strong person will attract a suck. We attract what we hate most in ourselves. Or we attract what we feel missing. I hope this clarifies my statement. Resolution: Every single person in our life is merely an image to our own thoughts and feelings about ourselves. I am that, I am. This is why we can regard everyone we feel confronted by as an angel which is kind enough to hold us a mirror in front of our nose. And they only do that because we ask them to do so. They only reflect on what we shine into the world. If you love them you love yourself.