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Why women are attracted to bad boys

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By topstuff

There are ways or dating tips and techniques for dating women where you can create attraction, and certain behaviour that will kill it within an instant.

About 90% of men do not know how to do make a woman feel attracted.

And i will make sure you ain't gonna be oneof them.So first let's talk about what you should - under anycircumstances - NOT do when you're dealing with women because they will reject you cold and run.A woman needs to feel "attraction"towards you if she is going to kiss, date or sleep with you.



Five common dating mistakes men make

1. Asking women out: "Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to have a drink sometime". Ouch! Bad call,you never ASK women out.

2. Being NICE. This has got to be the worst of the worst. Why do guys think that by being nice to a woman, she will be nice to you later? Look,you can suck up to your teacher to get a good grade or to your boss to get promoted but it won't work with women. It just doesn't create any attractionso please quit it, now!

3. Being CLINGY. Don't call women 3 times a day,don't send her 8 text-messages a day and please don't act like you desperately want to hump her brains out ... even if you do. Be cool!

4. Most guys out there try to complement a good-looking woman, BUY her all sorts of gifts on the first dates like flowers,invite her to dinner or take her out to the movies. Women do not feel attracted to men who behave that way! No flowers, no cuddly-toys, no chocolate, no cinema-tickets and no gifts whatsoever until you had sex with her at least once.No, forget all that: No gifts until you had sex with her at least10 times. You gotta create attraction and buying shit kills it within an instant if you do it too early.

5. If you're dating, never ever say "You know, I really like you"... or even worse "I love you". Remember that, or she WILL runand not text/call you back.

About 90% of men do not know how to do make a womanfeel attracted. And I will make sure you ain't gonna be oneof them.

So first let's talk about what you should - under any circumstances - NOT do when you're dealing withwomen because they will reject you cold and run.


Those are the biggest No-No's that you could possibly do to put padlocks on a woman's panties. Now if you keep doing those mistakes above you deserve some of my he-bitch man slap dude.

But you have to realize one thing:

If you do what everyone else does, why the hell would a woman be interested in you in the first place? You'd be just like every other boring loser who's trying the same stuff for the 27th time in the same week.

If you want women feel ATTRACTED to you,you will need to be different.Again, this does NOT matter if you're ugly, short, fat,bald whatever because they don't care if you've got thepersonality going.

I know Hollywood, TV and the rest of the Media havebeen telling you all that nicey-nice stuff like paying for dinner, bringing flowers and chocolate and so on.But this is real life, not a disney-movie or a chick flickwith a happy ending. It's time to wake up man, really.Forget all that junk that people have been trying to drill into your head for years.


You have to be different

Are the wheels slowly turning in your head and you're starting to get what this dating game is all about? Good, because you will get to know one of the most important topics when dating girls in a while:

Think about this: You see a hot woman at a bar and you ask her straight out of the blue "Excuse me ... I'm sorry to bother you but I just wanted to let you know that you have lovely eyes". Do you think you'll get SOMEWHERE? Probably NOT buddy. How come?

First of all it isn't just nicey-nice, insecure and doesn't create any attraction, it is fucking lame! Look, she gets that line (and many other variations of it) like what? 46 times a week? So you come along and think to yourself "Wow dude, check out those legs over there ... I'll go over and complement her on something, maybe she'll like me". All she does though is "Well thank you", smiles and turns around again to talk to her girlfriends.

And you ... you got BUSTED!

You just came off like all these other guys who say the exact same stuff over and over again, such as:

- Hi, can I buy you a drink

- Do you wanna dance?

- Can I get your number?

- Do you wanna have a drink sometime?

- You have pretty eyes *drool over titties*

You have to be DIFFERENT. If you're not, then she'll just say to herself "gosh, another one ..." and thinks

"You know, let's just be friends ok?". Yep that sucks but you deserve no better if you're like every other NICE-guy out there.

Do you know what women want then? C'mon, quick and simple ... what do they want? Yes, they want a "Real Man." The next question you'll ask of course is "so WHAT describes a real man and WHAT makes him so darn different from the bunch?".

There are three basic steps in this game if you start from scratch. Good. Here are the three steps EVERY guy HAS to accomplish to become good at this:

1. First, you will need to FIND OUT what women actually want

2. Second, you will need to BECOME what women want. This is just a process of honing and improving yourself, not a process of complete change.

3. And third, you will need to SHOW and DISPLAY to women that you are what they want. That's what you call "pick-up girls", "macking" and "getting it on baby!"

This is the road of the Playboy, Ladies-man and Real man. If you just want to get a girlfriend or conquer hundreds of women is up to you.

But if you are and do what most guys out there do, then you will get exactly the same: A kiss on the cheek, a hug and a "let's just be FRIENDS instead"

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MOmmagus  says:
2 years ago

Maybe i'm weird, but i like Nice guys who ask me out and call several times a day. Compliments are also good and hearing "i love you" is the best. Sorry to be disagreeable

: )

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topstuff  says:
2 years ago

Sometimes if you start running after some thing,it goes away and away.thanks for having a good thought and being normal.

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Om Paramapoonya  says:
2 years ago

I like bad guys too (lovable bad guys who treat me nicely and treat other people badly). But you know, topstuff, nice guys who try to act like bad guys just to attract girls are pretty lame. Natural born badasses don't have to "act"; they are just being themselves, and that's cool. I think it's smarter to find someone who likes you for who you are.

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topstuff  says:
2 years ago

Om you gave a good definition of bad guys.An act is always an act.

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sandra rinck  says:
2 years ago

Once I had a guy serinade me. OMG! I almost died laughing. I felt horrible, but it was too much. I agree, being different is better, but hey...don't tell guys not to buy flowers and stuff...I am still waiting for my friggin roses. lol. You aint helpin. :)

funny hub.

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topstuff  says:
2 years ago

We donot care often what we get,i listen to those flowers thrown on ways.I must help guys now.Donot favor girls please,why they show toomuch attitude.Girls play more than boys.

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compu-smart  says:
2 years ago

LOL!!

Many a true word here topstuff!

I could have written an article like this but you have explained and detailed tips way better than i could have!!

Good job;)

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topstuff  says:
2 years ago

And one more thing,they say when i was a child i played with toys now im a girl and i play with boys.lol

Captain_Planet  says:
2 years ago

"Second, you will need to BECOME what women want." Screw that, I'm not becoming anything for any woman

Abhinaya  says:
2 years ago

Never came across any guys at all.All I know is my husband...the best person in the world for me.

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
2 years ago

I say be yourself..be kind and friendly and your true self will always win..if it is meant to be, it will be. Why does anyone have to pretend or put on a show of any kind? " Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"? do what comes from your heart and makes you feel proud...We all need Love...G-Ma :o) hugs

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shibashake  says:
16 months ago

Bad boys are loads of fun for the short term but for the long term you really want one of the good guys who will do all the things you said not to do :)

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mlm writer  says:
16 months ago

Good advice - I used to try that stuff on women for years, and confirmed for myself that it doesn't work. Buying women drinks just got me more broke.

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topstuff  says:
16 months ago

Hi Gma you have a great say.Women always need care and hugs.I agree with you Shibashake,bad boys just give short term happiness and then disappear,don't know where they go.Buying women this and that get men often nowhere who take support of this thing.Thanks all

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hot dorkage  says:
16 months ago

You know what would turn me on?  Say I'm at a bar and a guy walks up to me and says, boy you look like you could use a job. Not a secretary at $27K or a personal assistant or anything stereotyped....  I've got a real nice executive level one, starting at $100K a year, plus good health bennies and 30 days paid vacation a year, you'll have six reports, a company car and an expense account, would you like to schedule an interview?  That would get my attention even if he was bullshitting.  And I will tell you exactly what women really want, fellas:  POWER which is highly correlated to MONEY and I don't mean the ability to get money from you, though some women settle for that, I mean CONTROL of our very own money, LOTS OF IT, best if we earned it , and it seems to me to be the one thing guys try to keep away from us. 

For the short term, women want a guy who will be FUN, and if he seems too desparate to buy us nice things before he even knows us, it does not promise much fun.  

 

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Elijah S  says:
16 months ago

I agree that being bad can be helpful when it's natural. Acting is just pathetic.

Johny2x4  says:
15 months ago

dude im fat im nice with girls i take it slow with the flow but the other day they turn the back at me and say "who are you? why you want to talk to me?" girls are very hard.

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izettl  says:
10 months ago

Overall I think being different and confident wins out. Confidence gets you in the door and being different keeps you there. I like the guy who knows what he wants and goes after it, even if he calls or texts or is up front about liking me, that's all ok. I also like a guy who has a specific and unique compliment to give me. Us girls hear I like your hair, your outfit, whatever all the time- we want a compliment unique to us the more detail the better- we want to feel special so show us you are really paying attention.

Jason  says:
10 months ago

Doesnt everyone know by now that the only thing EVERY women wants is money?

Thats why their ALL WHORES.

THIS IS AN EYES ONLY MESSAGE

dasboot66  says:
8 months ago

This is the reason women are unhappy all of the time.  They want things that dont really exist and cant understand what happend when it all goes wrong.  Then they just project all of the blame onto men ala "men are jerks" and "there are no good men".  Enjoy your divorces, enjoy your domestic violence, enjoy your STD's , enjoy your financial dependence on men, your single motherhood, and mostly: enjoy your superficial lives.  There is an expiration date on that gold you think is between your legs.

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