Historically, religious morality fiercely condemn masturbation: waste of a precious seed for human desire which should not even exist in women, sex is a matter of procreation and not pleasure ...

Over time, the medicine gets involved and masturbation becomes a source of the worst evils of the world: mental illness, deafness ... Everything is good to remove the man (and woman!) Of his pleasure.


Masturbation, essential step in the discovery of his body.

From their earliest childhood, girls and boys discover their privacy and combine quickly to a source of pleasure. Without even realizing it, the boys play with their "dick", the girls explore their "flower" ... a passage that almost forced sometimes poses a problem in education: how to react? No way to bully or scold a child, you just need to learn the concept of privacy that not masturbating in public, for example ...

At adolescence, boys are naturally attracted to masturbation, because it allows them to better understand the physical reaction caused by emotions. The girls on they discover, in general, the solitary pleasure after their first sexual experiences.

Today, there's more acceptance of male masturbation, as a necessity, a sexual drive to satisfy. For women, this personal pleasure is still seen by some as shameful.

- Lay on your back, legs more or less tight, a sweet and delicate hand that tickles the organ of pleasure, the clitoris, while your other hand covering her breasts with kisses.

- Lie on your stomach, you rub your genitals against a pillow or sheets together into a ball.

The woman was fortunate to have within reach 2 forms of masturbation:
- Stimulation of external parts: the clitoris and lips.
- Stimulation of the internal parts: the vagina.

The stimulation of the clitoris leads almost every time sought to orgasm. And many women say they have more fun alone with their partner. Indeed, knowledge of their own intimacy soon leads to ecstasy.


Physical reactions

- Pats, pinching, friction ... Gradually, as the excitement mounts, the clitoris enlarges, the vagina lubricates.
- This natural lubricant can make less painful friction and prevent the onset of irritation in this fragile part of the female body.
- Then, when the excitement rises to reach orgasm, the pelvic floor contraction, the pleasure spreads throughout their bodies, before giving way to well-being and total relaxation.


Each rhythm

There is no standard for masturbation:
- Some women feel the need during periods of prolonged celibacy or face the absence or disability of their partner to satisfy them. Masturbation is when a substitute or complement.
- Others do not feel the need and be satisfied pleasure afforded by their partner.
- And a few women - without being provided nymphomaniacs! - Can not do without them ... No shame in that, since this practice is safe, as it is not going to completely replace the pursuit of pleasure to two ...

However, in men as in women, the important thing is not the regularity of these meetings, but not close in on his own pleasure and self. There are so many exciting experiences to live together!


A pleasure as cerebral ...

Female masturbation is not a mechanical technique. She thrives on imagination, memory and emotions of pleasure, fantasy ... It is often not an act purely to satisfy a sexual impulse.

In some women, masturbation is also a source of relaxation, healing, and facilitates sleep. After a long day of work, a warm bath

Practiced alone or not, it is often beneficial to the couple. With a good knowledge of his body and his pleasure, the woman has every chance of achieving it easier to orgasm with her partner.


The sex toys, new partners of fun!

With sexuality more and more respected, women represent a new target in the world of sex. Their pleasure is now better taken into account, particularly in specialty shops and sex shops.

For some they are the subject of taboo pleasure: those who refuse to engage in masturbation with their hands, prefer to keep the vibrator or dildo responsible for their "disgraceful" personal satisfaction. Yet these toys with flashy colors, or rather the stunning landscape, can be very good tools!

But it is often a question of approach assumed or not. For the diversion of objects is an ancient and universal technique! Shower head, corner chair, to each his trick!


A male fantasy

What man has never dreamed to see his girlfriend in masturbating? This may be the ultimate male fantasy! Proof: masturbation, because of its side voyeur exciting part of the recurring scenes of any film erotic self-respect!

Yet female masturbation is not always well tolerated by humans. Sign of dissatisfaction, lack, she met the male dignity and may even be regarded by some as a betrayal! Indeed, if the woman also draws his pleasure in the imagination, who knows who is the actor of his fantasies. Well gentlemen, no jealousy, it has every right to dream!


A preliminary stimulus

Masturbation can become a game between the two partners. Roles can then be exchanged with a greater chance for everyone to reach nirvana!