" Beware Of People With The Dr.Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome"

When life is being good to you and things they are going great, watch out for Dr. Jekyll and Hyde, they will wreck havoc on your relationships.
When life is being good to you and things they are going great, watch out for Dr. Jekyll and Hyde, they will wreak havoc on your relationships.
If you have a person or love one in your life that has these symptoms of Dr. Jekyll and Hyde, seek help for them
If you have a person or love one in your life that has these symptoms of Dr. Jekyll and Hyde, seek help for them

"Beware Of People With The Dr. Jekyll And Hyde Syndrome"

Maybe you have someone in your life that has gone through the Dr. Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome; which means a person's mental attitude does a complete turn around. When you lease expect it too and they don't seem to want to recall the incident. I lived this life with my first husband, it was no fun at all because of trying to constantly figure out who this person is. When he has gone off into left field and left you in a state of fear and confusion. You're in a state of fear and confusion because you aren't understanding exactly what's going on. These people can be really kind and loving until Dr.Jekyll appears. Then you're left wondering what happened to the person that you thought you knew. The Jekyll and Hyde people change on you so much, until you're wondering when their alto-ego will appear again. The Jekyll and Hyde people can be loving, kind and laid back but they can turn into angry, harsh and sometimes violent people, You didn't know existed. This kind of manifestation can put you on guard, especially if you don't know that Dr. Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome exist in this person.

Have you ever been with someone that you love and they made you feel that they are the one just for you and one day out of the blue, they pull a Jekyll and Hyde on you. Then you're wondering what did you do with the person, that I love so dear. You ask them can they bring them back because you don't know this person you're now talking too. I'm sure many of you have gone through the Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome with someone you love. A life with this kind of person is like a ping pong ball that bounces back and forth on the ping pong table. You get to a point, where you ask them to stop changing on you. These people have did this so much,that it has become normal to them, but you know that there is nothing normal about it. If you're going to stay in the relationship for the long haul, then it will be in their and your best interest, to seek out mental counseling to help you understand and try to adopt to their constant changing attitude that emerges so often. The life style with a person with the Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome is like acting out a play on stage, the only differences is your life is a reality play, and you're being an unwilling participant.

Being in this kind of relationship is not a good thing, because you're in constant confusion. Wondering if you did or said anything that sent the person you love, on a tangent. This ordeal doesn't do a lot to help your ego at all. If you are in this kind of relationship and you decide to stay in it, please talk to your loved one to get the necessary help they need to take control of the problem. Without the help they need you will soon tire of the roller coaster ride that you're constantly on with the person that you love and get off.

Benny Faye Douglass

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Billhaley 3 months ago

I think I AM Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

And it's about to ruin my second marriage. I love this woman with all my heart and I sure don't want to lose her. So I don't know what to do. I need help. Please!!


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creativeone59 19 months ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Poetrymann, for stopping by and commenting on my article. I appreciate you. God bless you. creativeone59


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poetryman6969 19 months ago

Most toxic people can be avoided on some level. You can even quit a job with an evil boss. But with relatives, it gets a lot trickier.


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creativeone59 2 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thanks for your visit, I don't know the percentage but I know there are quite a few people that suffer from Bipolar disease or depression. Godspeed, creativeone59


... 2 years ago

what is the percentage of people with this


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jcressler 3 years ago from Orlando, Florida

Well done and thanks for sharing your insight into a real problem. There are many causes of the Jeckle and Hyde syndrom; PTSD, schtzophrenia, and bi-polar, but the most common is end stage alcoholism. It is beyond shocking - more like supernatural - when a few simple drinks that others take recreationally causes a personality shift to the dark side. It's always a worse change and never better. I wager most american prisons are filled with alcoholic men and women who lost control in a black-out, experienced the Jeckle and Hyde syndrom and woke up the next day in pretrial confinement.


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creativeone59 4 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you serenwen for your visit and comment, but there is no help for people that doesn't want help. You're fighting a losing battle. You need to except his situation or move on to something better for yourself. Godspeed. creativeone59


serenwen 4 years ago

sure is like a roller coaster ride living with them, as abonus my partner also has a gambling addiction.So very sad that no matter what help is offered he wont accept it...doesn't seem to want to change.... getting increasingly hard hard to support someone him


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Hey Hello, that might not be a bad idea. thank you for commenting. God bless. creativeone59


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Hello, hello, 5 years ago from London, UK

You and me could write a book of it. Maybe we should. At the time it torn me apart.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Tirzah, for the medical name,because I didn't know it. I appreciate you and your visit. Godspeed. creativeone59


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Tirzah Laughs 5 years ago from USA

BPD. Borderline Personality Disorder, one of the hallmarks is the Jekyl/Hyde personality. Very difficult people to live with.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Raymond, but when they're in denial, they can't be helped and all we can do is to continue to pray for them. Thank you for your visit and comment. I hope God bless your stepdaughter to realize she has a problem, so she can get help. my prayers will be with you all. Godspeed. creativeone59


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Raymond Tremain 5 years ago from Metro Manila Philippines

Great hub creative, well I know of someone who fits in what you've got here, she is one of my step daughters, some times she is so loving then the nxt minute she is the opposite way, but she says there is nothing wrong with her and she wont seek help, but we keep praying for her anyway.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you AE, for your visit and comment, but you know back in a day, you didn't really hear about bipolar or to much about depression, so that could have been the problem but later on after I divorced him, he spent a little time in mental care. I was glad I got out when I did. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you daydreamer, for your visit. My advice to you is, the person with the problem has to want to be helped. You can put all your cards on the table and tell the person your lives would be happier,if they got help. Tell them that you know they have a good heart but this alto-ego is destroying the relationship. also I advise you to call on Jesus and ask him for guidiance in showing you how to help with the problem and I promise he will give you a solution to your prayers and I will say a prayer too. Godspeed. creativeone59


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always exploring 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

I think every one has known someone like that, have you thought that possibly your EX had bipolar? A mental condition where a person is up one day, down the next, just a thought.

Take Care

God Bless


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you ek, I thank God for my freedom too, and thank you for your visit and comment. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Kindly fred for your sweet spirit, if everyone in the word had your spirit, what a wonderful world this would be. God bless you. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Heavenbound, praying for people with bad spirits do help. but when there's two or more gathered in his name it helps more. I appreciate, thanks for sharing. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Lg, for your visit and comment, and I guess it's possible to have a chemical imbalance, all I do know is the person should seek out help for themselves, before they destroy their relationship. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Micky for a mouth full of words, I appreciate you, your comment and feedback. Bless you. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you very much Apostle Jack, for your visit and your comment, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59


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daydreamer13 5 years ago

Excellent hub, but I must ask if you have any suggestions for someone who request counciling but the person with the Jekyll and Hyde syndrom refuses help. Is there another way to help them?


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ek ellis 5 years ago

I think at some point in our lives we run into someone plagued with that malady,I know I sure have and thank God I'm free of it now :)


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fred allen 5 years ago from Myrtle Beach SC

I see you as precious. The thought that someone would abuse you, cuts me like seeing or hearing about the abuse of an innocent. It brings out a righteous fury in me. I agree with heavenbound, but my base instinct is to fight fire with fire, not for myself, but for the one being abused. I still have a long way to go in being Christlike. This is a light shining on my "old" nature.


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heavenbound5511 5 years ago from Under the shadow of the Almighty God!

Hi Creativeone!

About this "Jekyll And Hyde Syndrome"

It sounds like the person needs to take authority over the spiritual darkness in there life.

Also we are called to pray and intercess for these people in the name of Jesus.

We are to test the spirits to see if they're of God.

There's a difference in wolves in sheep's clothing and those that need deliverance.

These people aren't to be given up on or written off.

I'm not saying let them hurt you but what does God say about all this?

Moods swings are rooted in the need of something that only Jesus can free us from.

Anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, generational curses, on and on feeds these unlikable actions.

Remember the maniac that Jesus set free, he was in the caves cutting himself, crazy, he scared people and Jesus set him free and he was in his right mind(Mark 5) also after Jesus healed him! So our real enemy is still satan, even if he works through people.

Thanks for your thoughts and God bless you as you seek God!

http://www.gotquestions.org/bipolar-manic-depressi...

**http://www.wholeperson-counseling.org/ndoc/bipolar...


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lifegate 5 years ago from Pleasant Gap, PA

CO,

I've known some people like that. I wonder if sometimes a chemical imbalance might be the culprit.


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Micky Dee 5 years ago

Well I certainly agree!

No you don't!

Yes I do!

Micky you're a maniac!

Am not!

Are too!

Great hub Faye!!!

No it wasn't!

YES IT WAS!!!


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Apostle Jack 5 years ago from Atlanta Ga

Thanks,it is well said.

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