HE IS HOT - But Some Guys Are Hotter

He looks smart and hot!
He looks smart and hot!
Older and hot!
Older and hot!
Hot, but he better wash his hair! ha
Hot, but he better wash his hair! ha

What Makes Him Hot...

So, what makes him HOT?! Well there are quite a few things that help the "Mr. Great meter." First of all after quite a few experiences in my life, I have to say that many men are not good listeners. It also seems that a lot of young men today are being taught from the "It's all about me" textbook.

Best to find out a few things before you commit to a relationship with "Mr. Hot guy." One thing for sure that is a dead give-a-way is his relationship with his family. This is quite important and you should know how he treats them. Especially when it comes to his mother. We do not need to go on about "momma boys." Is he respectful? This will give you clues on how he treats women in general.

Listening is important. Does he really listen to what you say? Does he change his behavior or adjust it when you bring up things that bother you? This all is part of a meaningful and respectful relationship. Love should not hurt, infact it should make you happier. True love is nurturing for both partners and trust and respect are "key" if you want your relationship to last.

He Does Not Just Wait For Holidays...

Men or boys who truly love and respect you think of you daily and not just on holidays. It does not take much to do little things throughout the year "just because." This can be anything from bringing flowers just because or sending a little something to you in the mail. You do not have to have a lot of money to show love in many different ways.

If he loves you, he will show you in all sorts of ways. These are some ways to show love and they do not cost a lot of money. Picnic at park or beach, chocolate cake, handmade greeting cards or poetry, print things off of the internet, make a "love" collage, make a romantic dinner at home. See? Not that difficult! Capishe?!

Other things he can do to make you feel loved. Help around the house, be sensitive to your needs, tell you that he loves and misses you. Now, that should not be difficult, should it?!

Men who are confident are HOT....

Remember to not always just notice Mr. Hot guy who doesn't deserve his wings. There maybe someone else who is more loving in many ways. Men or boys with confidence are much hotter then the one's who desperately need attention. These are usually the one's that are really insecure and need to be validated 24/7. Boring! Do you really want to cater to a male diva?!

How about a nice boy or man who is fun, loving and treats you nicely. Much better then a hot guy who gives you a headache every day! If you start with a guy and you feel like it is a lot of work, it never changes. Trust me. The work just gets harder and you will end up revolving around his world. What about yours? Why not date someone who helps you reach your dreams and wants to be part of it. How about a loving relationship where you both support each other?

Sounds good to me!

This Is Everything NOT to do...A giggle for you!

Some Guys Are Afraid To Be Too Nice

I put this video on here to give you a giggle, but believe it or not men still do this sort of stuff! I know men in their 40's that still play all sorts of games with women! I say "Grow Up!" Not exactly like in the video, but you get the idea. Trying to act too cool and pretending that they don't care does not help things when it comes to relationships. Childhood fears of being dumped sort of put them in a "distant mode" and they worry if they are too nice, the girl or woman will get bored and move on. Honestly is "key" so if they just act like themselves, things should work out if the woman is mature enough.

Be Honest!

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So Remember That Honesty Is Best

So here you are with Mr. Hot guy and he seems to be treating you right. That is good and everything, but some men are very good at acting one way and then turning into a "psycho!"

Give any new relationship or date a few meetings before you "jump right in." What I have learned is some men play it perfect in the beginning and then after they get what they want, they start changing the rules. Remember, boundaries are really important in a relationship. Especially in the beginning. If he does something you do not like, tell him to stop or tell him to leave. It's up to you.

What I have learned is that a relationship is like building a house. How is the foundation in the beginning? Sturdy? Shaky? About to get destroyed in an earthquake? I hope not! That should be your sign to get the hell out!

Remember, you only live once. Take care of yourself and make sure that whoever you are with does the same.

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cheaptrick 3 years ago from the bridge of sighs

Hi'a G.There's just one thing I'd like to add here for the sake of honest observation...and ladies I'm telling the whole truth...this time.

When you ask a guy what he's thinking about and he says "Nothing" Well,he's really thinking about Nothing!We're simple creatures so we have the ability to do that,we just zone out sometimes...sorry but it's not avoidance or deception,it's simpleton.

On the other side of the coin,most women seem to want a bad boy.Please consider writing a hub about that phenomena cause to a guy the "friend zone" is feared more than anything.

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GPAGE 3 years ago from California Author

Hey Dean! You really made me laugh! I remember those times when my boyfriend would say "nothing" and I wouldn't believe him! Ha ha. I was younger then. Now I'm older and wiser. Ha. Hmmm

The bad boy phenomenon. I think I will write that one next. I never liked "bad boys" but know plenty of women that do. All I can think of is that the women like abuse! If anything having a friend who is also your lover is ideal. That makes a great relationship! But I guess the line "I think we should just be friends" is the tough one. Lovely to always see you here Dean! G

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IslandVoice 3 years ago from Hawaii

I got Mr Hot alright, but only after learning a lot from my own mistakes of not knowing a man well enough. I hope girls will have the smarts to know better, but, these days, i'm not sure. This has forwarned them, i'll make sure our dear Keona reads this!

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Little Diego 3 years ago from California

Thanks, GPAGE! Most guys could use some tips on finding their hotness or finding out what women think is hot! My vote is for brains and beauty! Cheers, Ms Hot One!

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drbj 3 years ago from south Florida

A guy may mean nothing when you say, 'What's wrong?' and he says, 'Nothing.' But I can practically guarantee, G, that if a woman says, 'Nothing,' when you ask, 'What's wrong?' you can be sure it means something! Just sayin'.

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GPAGE 3 years ago from California Author

Thank you Sylvia! And YES....You did find an amazing life partner! Like you I also learned from my mistakes....I only hope that your dear Keona and my Bella pick the one's that truly love and respect them!.....G

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GPAGE 3 years ago from California Author

Marc! So sweet! I'm glad that you found my article useful :)

Have a lovely day and thanks for your comment! G

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GPAGE 3 years ago from California Author

drbj....You made me laugh! So true, women always say "nothing" when they are in ultra "thinking mode!" Yes, we do speak a different language.....

Always great to see you here! G

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jabelufiroz 3 years ago from India

Your article is hot too. Voted up.

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GPAGE 3 years ago from California Author

Thanks! jabelufiroz!

Also for stopping by and leaving your comment! :)


Ausseye 3 years ago

Hi PageTsunami;

So with equality, makes the wold a fairer place. Me being male has the same view on the other party where the same line applies …. Hot women who are the same rule changers …. Equality catches them both out… we the people hold equality to be the right of all human being, to nurture and embrace as living proof that relationships travel better over time if equality has a hand. Love the concept and hope to balance the gender….. To love, care and nurture another is natures top quality.

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GPAGE 3 years ago from California Author

AMEN Ausseye! Almost missed you here and I'm glad I just found your lovely comment! As always, you put everything into poetry and you are right! Always nice to see you here! Sending you a very BIG Tsunami HUG! ha ha GPAGE

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Andrew Meek 2 years ago

I enjoyed the article very much. I have always been in touch with my 'feminine' side of my nature, indeed I was teased about being 'gay' a great deal when I was a young man. That made me angry in lots of ways: 1) The implication that being gay is bad, I grew up around and still know some very unenlightened people. 2) They considered my sensitive, quiet, thoughtful attitude to others to be a sign of weakness, a phrase I often heard was 'man up'. The implication was that I should be colder, harder, more aggressive. I survived it all, but alas it has left many scars, I am not a very confident human being... unless I am using this guy *points to avatar* He IS me, this IS my face, but I alter him to make him seem more attractive, more confident than the man who sits here typing this. That said, I know a few people, and alas, they are few, who actually allow the real me to feel just like him *points again*, cos, well, he is me, the me I hide away.

Most men i grew up with where NOT good role models for how to treat a woman, let alone each other, most were still like cavemen, everything is about winning, and defeating your 'enemy' even when that is someone you call 'friend'. Men make bad friends for other men IMHO.

Okay, venting vented.

Great post GPAGE. I look forward to reading the rest. :)

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GPAGE 2 years ago from California Author

Nice to see you here Andrew!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!! It is interesting to see how people evolve.....LOVE-ly to see you here!! :)

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