My Grandmother's Antique German Prayer Book

My grandmother's little prayer book...now an antique.

Palm-sized prayer book of my grandmother's.
Palm-sized prayer book of my grandmother's. | Source

Antique Prayer Book


Finding my dear grandmother's antique prayer book recently brought back all kinds of warm remembrances of her.


This small little palm sized antique prayer book was safely tucked away in one of my mother's dresser drawers.


Since my mother died earlier this year, I have been working my way through her possessions. This has been a chore that most people in my position have to tackle sooner or later.


Since we (my husband and I) and my mother had both sold our homes and found one that the three of us could comfortably share, we had been happily living together for the past three and a half years.


I had hoped that we could have shared more years together, but alas, it was not to be.

My mother was my best friend and she thought the same of her mother.


I dearly loved them both and almost thought of my grandmother as a second mother.

Antique German prayer book

My grandmother's prayer book.
My grandmother's prayer book. | Source

Antique German prayer book

Small little palm sized prayer book of my grandmother's.
Small little palm sized prayer book of my grandmother's. | Source

Antique Book


Did you note the date in my grandmother's prayer book? The year 1905 is now well past the 100 year mark which is generally the rule of thumb to classify anything as truly being "antique."

Her name in this small book was her maiden name as she was not yet married to my grandfather.

It would be twenty years before she would bring my mother into this world as the youngest of three children that she and my grandfather were to have and love.

Antique German prayer book

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Antique German prayer book

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German Descent

My grandmother's parents were of German descent and her dad was a farmer in a small town in the State of Wisconsin. Losing her mother at an early age changed the course of the lives of all her family members.

Her brother stayed at home with his dad to help work the farm and my grandmother and her two other sisters attended a convent school during the week where they were also boarded. They would be picked up on weekends, holidays and in the summer and driven by horse and buggy back to the farm.

My grandmother enjoyed her convent school experience and as I was growing up and spending time with her, I got to hear many stories.

Antique German prayer book

Beautiful illustrations inside of my grandmother's little prayer book.
Beautiful illustrations inside of my grandmother's little prayer book. | Source

Antique German prayer book

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Antique German prayer book

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Children singing the Lord's prayer in German

Language


Although my grandmother's (and for that matter...her future husband's family) genealogical background was German and she learned that language at home, most immigrant families back then tried to learn English as quickly as possible.


It was a matter of pride!


They carried their memories and traditions from the "old country" and perhaps, if fortunate enough to do so...some possessions as well. But as newly minted Americans, they tried to assimilate into this relatively new country sharing strengths they knew from the past and forging ahead by blending into the melting pot of America.


Most every nationality did that with only a few oldsters who could not easily wrap their minds around learning the new language of English therefore still speaking their former country's tongue.


Subsequently, when my grandparent's got married, they purposely did not teach their children German.


My mother used to tell me that when her parents wanted to speak and not let the "kids" know what they were talking about, they would talk to each other in German. This did not happen frequently.


Of course when getting together with friends of German heritage, most everyone could still sing old German songs.


Thus, with the exception of picking up a few words here and there, my mother and her siblings did not learn the language, nor did we grandchildren.


Charlotte Church - The Lord's Prayer

Antique German (palm sized) prayer book

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Antique German prayer book

Obviously well used prayer book!
Obviously well used prayer book! | Source

While it would have been nice to have learned German while growing up, I truly think that my great grandparents and grandparents had the correct idea. Learning the language of the country in which they chose to live and/or were born into...was important to them.


If my husband and I decided to move to Italy, would we not be expected to learn Italian and wouldn't we wish to do so? If we moved to Portugal would we not want to learn Portuguese?


Not learning those languages in the country in which we would live is a handicap and why would we wish to remain handicapped?


Thus, although this little antique prayer book of my grandmother's is in German, except for a few words of endearment I only heard English coming from her lips when I grew up as her granddaughter.

Antique German prayer book

Nice illustration inside this little German prayer book.
Nice illustration inside this little German prayer book. | Source

Story


One story that I heard from my grandmother when I was a youngster and spending the night with her ( which was always a special treat ) was when she slipped on some ice and the horse drawn buggy ran over her. She was not injured. The buggy was probably light with no riders in it.


None-the-less, this really impressed me!


Not only was I unfamiliar with seeing horse drawn buggies as a mode of regular transportation, automobiles having taken over that prime role of moving people from here to there...but this had happened while she was staying at the convent school.


To my young mind this foreign and exotic idea was firmly planted. Many years later while in a lower grade, I was relating that story to my favorite nun teacher. One day that nun quietly pulled my mother aside and asked her the following question: "If you don't mind my asking, just how old are you?"


Apparently I was relating the story as if it had been my mother instead of my grandmother. My mother and the nun had a good laugh over that mix-up! My mother kidded me about that for many years!

Antique German prayer book

Obviously well worn and well used prayer book of my grandmother's.
Obviously well worn and well used prayer book of my grandmother's. | Source

Heirloom


My parents, brothers and I were so fortunate when growing up that we got to live next to my mother's parents and after we all moved to Texas together, only one block separated our houses.

I loved them dearly.



As I said at the start, finding this little antique prayer book of my grandmother's brought back many happy memories for me. I have now passed it on to family members who will hopefully cherish it always as an heirloom and keep it in the family for generations to come.

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Peggy W 3 years ago from Houston, Texas Author

Hi Suzanne,

Yes...we also have some family Bibles but finding this little prayer book printed in the German language was a special find. Thanks for your comment and votes.


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justmesuzanne 3 years ago from Texas

What a great find! I have my grandfather's small, leather bound bible. These sorts of things are lovely to have. Voted up and awesome! :)


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Peggy W 4 years ago from Houston, Texas Author

Hi AnnaCia,

Since we do not have children, after writing this hub and taking the photos, I passed my grandmother's antique prayer book on to some family members who will cherish it and hopefully always keep it in the family. I loved that grandmother dearly...she was like a second mother to me. Thanks for your nice comment.


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AnnaCia 4 years ago

Beautiful story. Isn't nice to hold something your grandmother held before? Is like trying to fill her feelings at that moment. The photo production with the Ave Maria is amazing and a great background while reading.


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Peggy W 4 years ago from Houston, Texas Author

Hi Kris,

Hope you find those letters. It will be fun having them decifered after all this time. Who knows what you may find out! :)) Enjoy your holiday celebration!


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