Prose - It's Time to be You

It's Time To Be You

Guilt, sorrow or obligation are not love or compatibility
A soul mate isn't just nice or there just to make you happy
These things cannot force the issue of where your true self lies
It is wrong to take the gifts of another under false pretenses
The sooner this is realized the better off all you will be
True understanding of yourself will open the door to your life
Once you can begin to live alone, then you can begin to share your life
The decision to share your life must be made from a position of strength
The decisions of a confused mind can cause endless turmoil
Know who you are so you can know what you can give
Learn to make your decisions based upon your true self
Shed the desires that others have of your life
Their wishes come from their own weaknesses, not your strength
Remember the things you've always wanted and take them to heart
That is who you are
Find that person
It's you...

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Quietest Moments 6 years ago

Very inspirational.. I love it.. thx 4 sharing. :)


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you QM.... many of us try to be what we are not and postpone the day of reckoning because we place importance on companionship over contentment...


light82 6 years ago

This is very wise. I have come to many of those conclusions as well, and you are so right. Good one. :)


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you light... it's easy to say and tough to do I guess...


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e summer 6 years ago

So powerful! Beautifully written!

I agree with: Once you can begin to live alone, then you can begin to share your life


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thougtforce 6 years ago from Sweden

You have succeeded to describe with few words, what I would have needed infinetely many words,(or more) to explain! And you are so right, a healthy relationship is created by people who know their value and respect others! Voted up and awesome!


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you E... I especially believe this is something that many women I know need to understand. The fear of living alone seems to trump all else...


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you Thoughtforce.... sometimes I ramble and somtimes I don't... I think the less words the better... when we find the essence of our message we can then strip away all else...


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Ray Thoughts 6 years ago from The East Coast

Good Job Suburban Poet from a former Texan!


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you Ray... Texas is still here... come back!


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acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

Love yourself and believe in yourself, then you can share love with everyone and of course your Truelove. Great words written here, I am glad I stopped by. Thank you.


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

A simple message delivered with firmness of purpose... thank you acaetnna....


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Moonchild60 6 years ago

These words are so true Poet. Thank you for writing them down.


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Betty Reid 6 years ago from Texas

Well said, Suburban Poet. I feel more introspective and motivated already.


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Micky Dee 6 years ago

Beautiful. alas, my doors are all closed. God bless you Sir!


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Jeremey 6 years ago from Arizona

Everyone should read this one! Very well said, brilliant and beautiful!


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@Moonchild - thank you for responding. It's another pep talk I guess but sometimes we need to hear it.


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@Betty Reid - thank you. Sounds like my work is done! Go for it!


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@Micky - thank you for responding again my friend. I appreciate your loyalty! I hope you don't say your doors are closed in sorrow... maybe you've made your choice and did it wisely....


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@Jeremey - thank you man.. that is very kind... I was just feeling motivated and wanted to pass it on...


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b. Malin 6 years ago

Simply beautiful and straight to the heart...Great Hub!


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you b.... .it's an encouragement to find yourself... do yourself a favor and find your strength. It's there but you must recognize that fact and take the time to get there.... it's worth it.


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Nayothara 6 years ago

OH, Grate Hub Suburban Poet!

It is true that people forgetting to be them selves and they seems to busy and weak for it too. I personally believe it is difficult to be them selves when they don't know who really they are... And shame many of them don't make time to understand them selves!

Once you can begin to live alone, then you can begin to share your life...

This is so true... And I am glad I stop by to read your poem, and I will continue this!

Cheers to you Suburban Poet


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you Nayothara... it should be a matter of free choice in life... you shouldn't remain with an abuser or someone who props you up because you come from a position of weakness. It is not a matter of personal arrogance but a matter of personal dignity... then you can exist with or without... because you are always your own companion....


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carrie450 6 years ago from Winnipeg, Canada

Beautiful! Truer words were never spoken.


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

carrie450 - thank you for reading and commenting.


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acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

Beautiful and totally inspirational - I loved it.


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

acaetnna... you're too good to me man... thank you again for reading and commenting...


NikiiLeeReyes 6 years ago

Very simple yet so true; love your writing,always intriguing.... Nika


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you NikiiLee.... it seems too many people try to be what someone else wants them to be... that's a mistake... I'm not talking about right and wrong or ethics or whatever... I'm talking about WHO you are and how that impacts your decisions in life...


pastella13 6 years ago

You have a talent for poetry, and touch on things that are so true. So many people find it hard to be themselves because they go through life doing whatever it is that other people want them to be, and when they look back on their lives, they wish they had been more true to themselves.


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The Suburban Poet 6 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

Thank you pastella,

It's somewhat easy to way these things to someone but self-esteem and self-confidence apparently are elusive. I have been blessed with a stable upbringing and I am very happy with who I am. I have many issues such as selfishness but I'm am going to be myself. I think it's a tough thing to articulate but this does not mean you are going to be stubborn, arrogant, unrepentant, mean, rude etc... it just means you don't have to accept less in life or endure abuse. It means stand up and be confident that you are worthy.


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iamalegend 5 years ago from EARTH

yes it's time to be you. I looking forward to write poems just like you. Rated up and Enjoyed


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The Suburban Poet 5 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@iamalegend - thank you for commenting. I thought this one had seen it's day but there is a new years type resolution quality to it... go for it!


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Suprabha Raorane 5 years ago from mumbai,india

Inspiring!!!!!


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The Suburban Poet 5 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@Suprabha - thank you!


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Fossillady 5 years ago from Saugatuck Michigan

Suburban Poet, first of all, I like, like your hub ID!

Suburban Poet, Suburban Poet, Suburban Poet!

See, I can't get it out of my head!

I think I'll by myself instead!

Suburban Poet has reminded me again,

without beholding true self, life never begins!


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The Suburban Poet 5 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@Fossillady - thank you! I live in a Suburb and I thought of my yuppie-type image and how it might clash with the idea of a bohemian poet so I merged the two in order to acknowledge the duality in my life... I'm trying to shave the yuppie part out....


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amybradley77 5 years ago

This is just wonderful work here, and couldn't be more true, I couldn't agree with the words of your poem here more. Love it! Love forward to reading more. A.B.


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The Suburban Poet 5 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@amybradley - thank you! I have a big problem with people who try to control others and this poem is intended to remind us that we control our inner self...


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drdspervez 5 years ago from Pakistan

The Suburban Poet, It's a nice poem I voted you up.

DR. DURRESHAHWAR PERVEZ


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The Suburban Poet 5 years ago from Austin, Texas Author

@drdspervez - thank you for that!

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