Trouble In Paradise
Constantly Complaining
We do it because...
That is the way we were taught
That is the way we think
That is the best way to a solution
That is the only way we know
That is as ridiculous as writing that every time
We are the highest form of intelligence in the world
Why can't we stop from complaining that leads to arguing ?
Why do we find something trival so important ?
Lets leave this situation and think
How did this whole problem come about ?
I know when I don't have the right answer I ask for help
So here is my delema
It was early morning and my wife and I got up from a great night sleep
Wonderful love making
We both jumped in the shower seperately so we wouldn't go back to more incredible love making
My wife thinks enough one for one day
I think differently but then that is a thought for another day
So both up and getting on with our day
I am positively flying sharing every incredible emotion known to man
My wife on the other hand
Instantly starts complaining about plastic containers that she has that don't fit
The covers don't fit
I know she bought them everyone worked
She had old containers in the past when she had this problem before
We have since thrown them out and bought all new ones
My solution was that maybe after use they get warped from the microwave and they don't fit properly
Instead of hearing me out she continued to shout
How can they not fit
Are they like when you put socks in the dryer and you end up losing one
It doesn't make sense to me?
Leave all the containers together for next time
With an impatient loud voice
We don't have the room
Rationally they have to fit
Mark each container like 1a with a cover 1a
Next time you will be sure they go together
Soon after she found the covers to match the containers and her lunch was made
I came out to see if she marked any of the containers
Nope
Right now tension is high and I am going to let it slip by
I will maybe mark each container tonight while she sleeps
Wait till next time and she repeats the same senerio again
She just finished cooking lunch
I am going to eat
I think I will show her my writing after lunch
Good idea what do you think ?
Keep an open mind ?
Try not to judge who is right or wrong
Just looking for a solution and then we can move along