"We Have To Get Over The Pains Of Headache And Heart Breaks and Start Living Again

How To Get over The Pain Of Headache And Heart Breaks And Start Living Again"

We have all suffered some type of heartaches or heart break in our lives, but we have to summon up enough strength with Gods help to overcome our obstacles and move ahead.
We have all suffered some type of heartaches or heart break in our lives, but we have to summon up enough strength with Gods help to overcome our obstacles and move ahead.

"We have to Get Over The Pains Of Heartache And Heart Breaks And Start To live Again"

Everyone of us has suffered some type of heartache or heart break in our lives at one time or another. When we suffer pains of the heart,the pain is unbearable and almost to much to handle but by Gods grace, we muddle through it. There are many different kinds heartaches and heart breaks in our lives, and these are distressing pains of the heart that seems to hurt forever, or until we are finally healed of the pain. It doesn't matter, whether it's an unresolved love affair that went bad or the lost of a loved one, or a friend, or a pet, our heart suffers excruciating and intolerable pain. Women are more emotional than a man, so, I think maybe women go through more emotional pains than men. I'm not saying that man don't have love or care pain, I just think the women's pain goes much deeper; because we're such emotional human beings. When we're in a very loving and committed relationship, we're very happy, but the break- up of that relationship will cause a women so much heartache and pain that it will take prayers and a lot of other things before she can come to the realization that it's over and done and she needs to get her self together and move on.

It might be a while, before she love that hard again, if ever, because there's a trust issue now, because of the pain she suffered from giving herself and her heart to that particular man. I know about that kind of pain, because I lived it myself and I know it's not a pain that anyone in their right mind would want to endure. When you love someone so hard and so deeply and you realize that person doesn't share your feelings, you're disappointed and terribly hurt. I'm a women that shows true emotions, I can't hide my feelings, if I care for someone, it shows; and this is where most women get hurt. The reason we get hurt so badlyy is because we normally put our heart and soul into the relationship, so, if the relationship gets shattered into a million pieces, so does the women's heart in the process. I have heard many people say, don't fall in love, or don't care to much or don't put your whole heart into it, but my question is, How do you tell your heart not to care for someone, this is an act that I couldn't have ever controlled and still can't. So, those of you that can master your heart, I applaud your efforts and I guess it's a good thing if you can truly tell your heart who to love and who not to love, that's a way of keeping your heart from being broken over and over again.

I'm just the type of women where, what you see is exactly what you get; I'm me, from the heart: so if you aren't real, you need to keep going..I have been hurt many times by heartless men, that I thought genuinely cared for me as a person, but I later found out they had another agenda. I do sympathize for women that's like me, that believe in and trust people to soon. Heartaches and heart breaks can also come from physical loses as well, like losing a limb, a breast or eye sight anything of physical nature. I can't even imagine the heart break and heartaches of those that have physical loses, all I do know is my brother lost his leg and he was pretty messed up; and then he lost his life, I guess some people never get over the lost. I can and do sympathise with all heartaches and heart breaks in my life because I suffered many. I have been blessed that I haven't lost a child or grand child and I haven't lost a pet, because we don't own any. I have notice that the people that own pets and lose them, it's seems it's like losing a child or a member of their immediately family and it's a very heart breaking thing to get over.

All I do know is that after all this headaches and hear break pains that we endure; that we have to eventually start to live again and the only way we can achieve this goal is to contact God and ask him to help us get over come this pain . The good thing about it is, our God already knows us and all about the undo pain we all suffer. God know us better than our birth parent, so if we depend on him and he will see us through all the hurt and pains of this world. So, if we depend on God our headaches and the heartbreaks will pass and we 'll realize that we will be alright after all. We can accept the fact that we went through it, and that our experiences only succeeded in making us stronger, better, and more loving individuals.

Benny Faye Douglass

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creativeone59 4 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Bernadette, for your visit, comment and interest. I appreciate you. God bless you. creativeone59


Bernadette 4 years ago

Very enlighting :-)


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Bees for visitng my hub and I am so sorry for your pain, but is exactly what women feel or sometimes more and I don't think the men really understand the pain that we women suffer until they go through it themselves. I don't wish that kind of pain on anyone but at least now you can relate to what women feel.Bees, I truly hope and pray that God take away your pain and send you exactly what you need to put the pieces back together again. Please pray about it, because prayer will help you get through what you're feeling and there will brighter and better days so don't give up because who ever hurt you just lost a treasure and I know that by what you feeling. Don't you ever give up because your blessing is on the way, but you must believe it for it to materialize. God bless you and I will keep you in my prayers. Godspeed. creativeone59


Bees 5 years ago

Hi there, thank you very much for the article.

i just wanna add that i am a male and my heart feels like it was ripped out. i am really hurting and my heart is broken in so many pieces that it is gonna take forever to pick up all the pieces. i do understand the women are much more emotional than men and give much more of themselves in a relationship. if the pain that woman suffers after heartache are more than what i am suffering now. i applaud u for i would not know how to get through the pain. i don't even know at this point where to start picking up the pieces.

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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank so much puzzledbylife, for your visit and comment. I know you're hurting but stay focus on a new beginning for yourself and look forward to it. There has got be something better for you. Godspeed. creativeone59


puzzledbylife 5 years ago

thank you creativeone for this hub. I just broke up with my boyfriend and it really hurts. I am in the process of healing myself. I've never experienced this kind of pain before, and I just don't understand why do I have to suffer like this from loving someone. May God give me enough strength to face this kind of trial.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

love is hurt, thank you for your visit and comment, I'm not brilliant, I just try to write the truth as I know it. I have been in the storm like your friend and I understand the pain. God bless you. creativeone59


love is hurt 5 years ago

I am immediately going to email this hub to my friend who is going through a bad break up. The advice is brilliant!


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tim-tim 6 years ago from Normal, Illinois

Thank you for the great hub. I think everyone can relate to the heart break and the pain and sorrow that we go through. Everyone has a story to tell. Thank you so much for sharing.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Eiddwen, for visiting my hubs, I appreciate you. I am so very sorry for your lost, I Never lost a child, but I'm almost did, and I know how bad I was hurting at the time, but God bless us to have my 23 month old son back. I can't say I really know exactly how you felt, but I know it's very, very painful and I would wish that kind of pain even on my worst enemy. May God continue to strengthen you,keep you and yours in his care. may he cover you all with his blood. Much love. creativeone59


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Eiddwen 6 years ago from Wales

This was brilliant! I lost my youngest 17 year old daughter last year and I know how hard it is. Again I think going through this would tell me whether your hub was good or bad and I can assure you it was good. 'My Beautiful little G irl'is a hub in memory of my beautiful daughter Erin maybe if you have time you would like to read it . Well done


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Mckenzie, it's indeed a blessing seeing you here, thank you also for your comment and your feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thanks Micky Dee, we all go through pain in our life but by the grace of God we get through them. Thank you for your comment and feedback. Blessings to you . creativeone59


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you ivori for your comments and feedback, I appreciate you. Have as blessed day. creativeone59


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Telynisblessed, you are a blessing to me. thank you for your comnment and feedback . I appreciate you. Blessings to you. creativeone59


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Hello, for your comments and feeback, it's always appreciated. God bless you. creativeone59


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Bail Up, for stpping by my hubs, I reall appreciate you, your comments and feedback.Godspeed. creativeone59


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Mekenzie 6 years ago from Michigan

Good thoughts - Good God who holds our hearts in His hands. When we seek for wisdom He will give it - that's a promise. Bless you dear CreativeOne - you are a blessing


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Micky Dee 6 years ago

Thank you Creativeone. We all hod too much pain at times.


ivori 6 years ago

God is there and will help when asked, although, at the moment it might seem impossible to us. Thank you for an inspiring hub, Creativeone.


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Telynisblessed 6 years ago from Honolulu, Hawaii

Thank you Creativeone...I needed to hear that today. Your Hubs are always an encouragement to me. Have a blessed week!


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Hello, hello, 6 years ago from London, UK

Thank you for this encouraging hub and these encouraging words.


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Bail Up ! 6 years ago

Heartaches and Heart Breaks are slow to heal but not impossible to overcome especially when he is always looking after us.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

We're thankful that God knows our needs and take care of us. Thank you for your comment and feedback. Blessings to you. creativeone59


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Veronica Allen 6 years ago from Georgia

God knows what we need, he desires to give us what we need, as well as he has the power to fulfill those needs for us. I agree, God knows us much better than our own birth parents, and even when we don't have a physical friend or family to lean on, God will be right there to pick us up.

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