"When You Have Been Burned By The Fire - You're Shy Of The Flames"

"When You Have Been Burned By The Fire - You're Shy Of The Flames"

When you Have been hurt in relationships most of your life, you tend not to trust so easily anymore.
When you Have been hurt in relationships most of your life, you tend not to trust so easily anymore.

"When You Hve Been Burned BY The Fire - You're Shy Of The Flames"

This is a true saying; especially if your heart broken, many time and you are afraid to try it again because you're fearful of the pain. Once this happens we are afraid to trust anyone ever again because we think it's going to happen again and in reality;most times it does.

we're in and out of broken relationships because we haven't learned to properly protect ourselves from falling into the clutches of another user. I think we need to get real serious about not falling into another trap with someone new. The way to do that is pray about it first and ask God to send you an honest and caring person your way, but make sure you're an honest and caring person also and not a user yourself. Now, make yourself two list, one with the things you don't want in your life and another with the things that you do want in your life and along with the things you desire in a relationship. You have two list to choose from to make decision about what you want going on in your life with your relationships. You also have to remember the certain traits and characteristics of the person you don't want in you life, so you don't settle for the same old games again. No matter how good looking or how hot you think they are. If you want a for real ,serious relationship; you have to put childish habits of only looking on the outer exterior of a person, because what's inside is counts more.

A person's heart tells you the story of who they are and what they're all about. So again I tell you to look in the heart of the matter and not at a good looking face or a hot body; they come a dime a dozen, but look for a caring heart and you want go wrong in your quest for love. Please also use the two list you have prepared to help you with the do's and don't's, when finding an truly awesome Friend out there. I really believe a friend first and someone special later is then way to finding good match for yourself and maybe even happiness in the end, especially if you don't just settle just anything, remember to not to accept less than what you want in a relationship.

Benny Faye Douglass (C) Copyright 2011 

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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Hello, for your visit and continual support and comment. I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59


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Hello, hello, 5 years ago from London, UK

A wonderfully written hut with genuine, full of heart, advice. Thank you.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you dear Raymond, for your true words of wisdom. I appreciate you. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Micky, I agree, withthe unique ability to be telepathically incline. Thank for your visit and comment. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Phoebe, for your visit and comment, I appreciate you. God bless you. creativeone59


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Raymond Tremain 5 years ago from Metro Manila Philippines

Well you have some very good advice here Benny, yes we humans are a funny mob, we seem to go out and hurt another, then they shy away from everybody not knowing who they can trust.

As you say they may be just users or we may be users,but when we pray about it then we have a blessed friend that comes to us.

I wonder really how Jesus must feel when we let Him down so many times, and He is always there still waiting for us to come back to Him.

He is the most true friend anybody can have.

God loves all


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Micky Dee 5 years ago

It's so odd Faye. The broken heart can be telepathic. God bless you dear Faye!


Phoebe Pike 5 years ago

This is a very interesting hub. Good job.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Marcoujor, for the visit and comment, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59o


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Ruby, for your visit and comment. Godspeed, creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Eiddwen, for your visit it's always a pleasure to see you at my hubs, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59


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marcoujor 5 years ago from Jeffersonville PA

So true & so BEAUTIFUL~~ thank you!


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always exploring 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

Great advice Benny Faye.


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Eiddwen 5 years ago from Wales

Another vote up from me for this great hub . Thank you for sharing.

Take care

Eiddwen.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much Tipoauge, form your continual supoort, and comments. Godspeed. creativeone59


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tlpoague 5 years ago from USA

Great advice! I gave it a vote up!

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