For me it easy to keep love alive. I am honest with my husband and we tell each other everything. My husband and I have been friends since I was 10 yrs old. We grew up together. We try to keep things fresh. Since we have 3 kids, 2 of which are 2 and 1 yrs old. We have to make time to spend together with out the children. Which for means staying up late after the kids go to bed just to talk or watch a movie. Just hang out the 2 of us. Thats how we keep our love alive.