"Money Talks And BS. Walks"

"Money Talks And BS.Walks"

Sending money on a man is a touchy subject, that should be scrunized by the spender.
Sending money on a man is a touchy subject, that should be scrunized by the spender.

"Money Talks And BS.Walks"

Sometimes in relationships we get taken in by con - artist that us use our money to front everything and keep their money in their pockets, We're also naive about such things because when we love someone or thing we love someone, we do everything to make to make that person happy even paying for things we shouldn't be paying for, for them. I think this is a total mistake on behalf of women because this is how we're taken advantaged of and misused and abused. Ladies, keep your purse closed and be very apprehensive about spending your money on a man or even when they ask you for money.

You should make sure that you're not doing all the giving or spending or you will be left holding the proverbial bag. Some of us women are so loving and giving that we over do it by doing much so we should back up or step aside and see what the man is going to do. We should also stop always offering up our help and support to do things for our man and let him do some things for themselves. If we keep doing everything and paying his way, he will never stand up and be a real man. I do know that being misused and abused and taken advantaged of is not a good feeling at all, in fact it hurts badly. So, try to find a man that is willing to give back to you as much or more back to you.

I do have one little bit of advice, if you find this special man of generosity, never try to use him up because he's good to you. Always remember how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot. Love your man, take care of him, just make sure you don't over do it with the spending. Sometimes we get into a habit of doing nice things for the men in out life and end up going over aboard. Just remember if we have to buy him or his affections we don't need him. If you have found someone to love you and spend on you, that is a great blessing,so enjoy it but make sure you give back to him as well and never take advantage of his kindness, because you wouldn't want taking advantage of your kindness.

Benny Faye Douglass (C) Copyright 2011

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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you PerfectJumpOff, for your visit,comment and candor. I think you're correct in not giving men money. God bless you. creativeone59


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PerfectJumpOff 5 years ago from Worlwide

I feel sorry for anyone that falls prey to a user. It's not a nice thing to be used by people.

I'm not at a point in my life where I feel the need to settle down,so I'm having fun.

I was raised that a man's suppose to provide for his woman,so I've never given a man money for any reason,not even a loan.

Some call me a gold digger,but I'm on platinum now!

Peace


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Hello, my friend it is indeed a blessing just to hear from you. Thank you for your visit, comment and compliment. God bless you. creativeone59


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Hello, hello, 5 years ago from London, UK

My ex wouldn't asked but stole and I was so blind and trusting that I never realized it. Hello, my friend, it is so good to hear from hyou again. I like your new hairstyle and colour. It really suits you. Take car and my best wishes.


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Ruby, I appreciate you, your visit and comment. GFodspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Dexter, for your visit and comment. I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you dahoglund,for your visit and comment but it does happen, you just have to know what to say when it happens. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Will, for your visit and timely adice and comment. I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59


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always exploring 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

I agree. Good advice.

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Dexter Yarbrough 5 years ago from United States

Great advice! Voted up, up and away!!


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dahoglund 5 years ago from Wisconsin Rapids

I agree with WillStarr. Neither party should be asking money from the other.


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WillStarr 5 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

If a man asks you for money ladies, turn and walk away.

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