Trash Your Budget and Become Financially Independent

Painful Budgeting


Annoyed with Budgeting?

How much money do I have left in my wallet? What about my bank account? Should I use my card or cash? since I don't want my wife to know what I am buying? Why can't I even allow myself to enjoy a Latte just because it's not on the budget. This whole budget thing is a bunch of rubbish. From today, I resolve, I am trashing it. No More Budget!

If you feel like that sometimes, you are not alone. There are millions of us out here that want this anti-budget revolution. Besides, even governments all over the globe grapple with the same budget issue. Churches have been known to close - "no more mission trips pastor, no more evangelism, no more baptism, no more church choir, you have exceeded the budget allocation." I am sure some parents can think of times they entertained the thought of postponing the kids' birthdays - "sorry David, you are not turning ten this year."

Budgets Don't Work! An illusion preached in Business Bchools?

I think so many of us have been taught to believe and think that we need a budget to manage our finances. That we need a budget to manage our lives. We need one to prosper and become financially independent. How come we breath without a budget on the air supply, or is there one? or budget how many times in a day your eyes must blink, failure to which, you'll run out of blinking for the next two weeks, until the next budget. And, I am not saying this just to be comical. Many people struggle with budgeting and yet we insist it must be used.Personally, I have struggled to come up with an elaborate budget, later on religiously follow it.

If budgeting comes naturally to you, God bless your soul. But for most people, it's a constant struggle that continues to bring disastrous results. People are living under stress because of being too hard on themselves for not sticking to their budgets. Marriages and partnerships have ended because of budgeting. I know, you will be tempted to say, maybe they broke up because they didn't stick to a budget. Off course they didn't, and that's my point. Why insist on something that isn't working for you. Why not find something workable instead. Something that will inspire you to follow unconsciously.

Budgets are meant for people, not people for the budgets. You have to control the budget, not the budget controlling you. You have gotten it all twisted and that's why you continue to be under stress. It's a guide. So, if it doesn't lead you where you want to go, toss it. The idea of a budget is meant to protect you against yourself. Anything that is made to protect you against yourself is unsustainable. True growth, has to come from within. You have to grow your capacity for control and a budget wont change your personality.

If you love shopping, a budget will be your stumbling block, and whether you choose to shop or stick to your budget, either way, you'll still be frustrated. Budgets don't generally work because they are not fun. Anything that takes away your happiness cannot truly help you. And, don't get me wrong, I am not advocating for recklessness with your money. I am of the view that a budget is not what you need to take control of your finances or to put your life on track. Soon, I'll explain what I have discovered works for me. This isn't my original idea, but It was made clearer to me when I read a little book by David Bach called the "The Automatic Millionaire."

There is a better way to putting your life on track towards financial independence.

It's called a system. Put a system in place that will do things on your behalf and you are on your way to true freedom.

1 - "Pay yourself first." and this can take many forms. Paying yourself first entails taking a percentage of your income and invest it before you even pay taxes and bills. Chances are, you already know how much you require to make a living from your income. Make sure you have it done on your behalf before you even see the money. In short, let your employer or bank do the job for you. With the Internet bringing so much convenience, you don't need to worry about forgetting to pay your bills, credits, rentals, etc. Instruct the bank to do it automatically.

2 - Have some fun. Once you have cleared this huddle of handling money using an automatic system that does consistently what you desire, it's time for some fun. All work without fun, made Joe a dull boy. Take yourself and some friends once in a while to some nice restaurant. Buy yourself the toy you desire. After all you deserve it. Surprise your loved ones. Enjoy life with less stress, while having a goal big enough to inspire you.

3 -Stop buying things on credit. If you can't pay for something with cash, you can't afford it. Period. For heavens sake don't even think of getting more credit cards. If you bought your Flat screen TV using your credit card, let it be the last time you did such a silly thing.

4 - Watch the little things. You can save a lot of money baking your own bread. You don't need a muffin or marble pound cake every morning from Starbucks. My wife and I started baking our own healthy bread and buns and we have saved substantially ever since. This may not appear to be a lot when you are looking at your receipt, but over time these small expenses compound.You'll beat yourself once you discover they are equivalent to your month's rentals after half a year.

5 - Cancel some of those unnecessary cable channels, next generation phone plans which you don't even know what they mean (what's 4G?), or gym memberships that you never use. Stop buying bottled water, diet this-diet that - stop obsessing over counting calories and start running or walking, join some sport, dancing club or whatever. Do something physically active. No one loses weight counting calories. You have to be active and actually do something. Learn to cook your own meals and only go out when you have to.

6 - Throw away all your old budgets that will remind you of your prison days. Unless budgets work for you, don't impose them on others. Stick to your plan and let the automatic system do the work for you.

If you are serious about investment advice, I recommend that you buy the little copy "the Automatic Millionaire - A powerful One-Step plan to Live and Finish Rich." by David Back. I am not in any way affiliated to David or his company in case you think I am advertising for him. I bought the book, read and applied some principles from it. They worked and continue to work for me.

For now, don't beat yourself if you are failing to stick to your budget. Trash it and get on the automatic anti-budget system. Welcome to true freedom!

What is your experience? Do you think budgets work? leave your comment below.



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zanin 5 years ago from London, England

Hi Kelvin - "sorry David, you are not turning ten this year." I love that. I must try it with my son. he turns nine this year. Joking aside, I am a great believer in pay-yourself-first. This is what I do and as a result we have some savings. Overtime it builds up. I think it is not about denying yourself something. Once you start to save and see your money growing steadily, you are more likely not to stress about not sticking to a budget. Good Hub - voted up. Welcome to hubpages, you are a newbie like me. Nice to meet you - Nina (aka zanin)

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

Thanks Nina (Zanin). I am glad to meet you and join the hubpages community. It's so much fun. I absolutely agree with you on the issue of stress. Many people make bad decisions when under pressure.

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ripplemaker 5 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

I believe number 3 is very important. I know of so many people who spend way beyond their budget because of this. They borrow money to spend on something they can't afford. I love this perspective of managing your finance. It empowers you to work on the concept of abundance!

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

That's right. Learning to pay as you go is the surest way of attaining financial freedom. And especially these days, you should never use your job as equity or security. You'd be in deep trouble should you lose your job.

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Ruby H Rose 5 years ago from Northwest Washington on an Island

Great article

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

Thanks Ruby H Rose. Nice name and great to meet you on hubpages. Feel free to share the article with others.

juliana 5 years ago

Sound advice on all six suggestion and a well written hub.

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chspublish 5 years ago from Ireland

Sound and sensible advice and somehting I strive to follow, generally. Good hub.

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

Thanks Juliana and CHSpublish. That's the most vital step - to strive. Of course there is always a desire for instant gratification which leads most people in trouble. Happy reading!

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PWalker281 5 years ago

What an intriguing concept! People think that if they're not budgeting, it means they're spending recklessly. This "system" makes it clear that this isn't the case. I've put the book on my wish list and will probably purchase it soon. Great hub! Welcome to Hubpages and congrats on your nomination! Rated up and useful.

OMG! I just noticed on your profile that you are from DC. So am I!!

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EuroCafeAuLait 5 years ago from Croatia, Europe

Dear Fuller-Life, you brought back memories when you mentioned the Latte. I started making my own coffee at the office and going out for Latte only once a week, on Fridays, as a special way to kick off the weekend. Nice hub, voted it up.

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

Thanks PWalker281 You should certainly buy the book. Very valuable and simple strategies. EuroCafeAuLait Thanks and I can attest to Latte memory. It's worse when you pass by a starbucks or cafe. Friday/weekend Kick

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maggs224 5 years ago from Sunny Spain

I really enjoyed reading this :)

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

Thanks Maggs. I'm glad you found it enjoyable. Happy reading!

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DuchessDuCaffeine 5 years ago from United States of America

I'm with you -- toss the old budgets. They are like diets that never worked except to remind you of your failure! And I loved the analogy of a 'blinking budget'! This article made me feel better :)

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

DuchessDuCaffeine Thanks. You are very true. Sign posts don't always lead you in the right direction. You need an added intuition and knowledge of your destination. How many of us have been lost on a highway/freeway?

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DuchessDuCaffeine 5 years ago from United States of America

Hahahah! Too many times...but have you noticed that on subsequent travels, you'll find the exit you wanted with no trouble at all...naturally, it won't be the exit you want at that exact moment.It's so Zen you have to laugh. Anything else is wasted energy ;D

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Guanta 5 years ago from New York City

Thank you very much for your Hub Fuller-Life. I recently retired with no regrets. Undoubtedly, being cautious of spending made it possible for me to retire early. For the second part of my life though, I am moving towards the 'system' you mentioned. Tks for the J. Rohn videos.

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Fuller-Life 5 years ago from Washington, DC Author

Hey Guanta. Thanks for showing us it can be done. Wish you a blessed retirement. Have fun!

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