How HubPages Helped Me Leave My Job

A True Story

Glass Ceiling

At the beginning of 2011, I was stuck in a dead-end job. The hours were opposite the school schedule, meaning I was always gone when I would have been better off at home. Not only that, I was doing something physically stupid for me. I had to lift heavy item with a chronically bad back. I knew I needed to get out before I became an invalid - but how?

Like most middle aged moms, the job market was looking a little flat. But there were the same old familiar issues - paying bills, paying rent, and children who needed new clothes, shoes, and sports equipment / fun things just like their friends did. What's a mother to do?

Seems there is nothing worse than the hopeless feeling that there is No Way Out.

Happy but not satisfied

Oh, days at the supermarket!  It wasn't all bad, but more minuses than pluses for me.
Oh, days at the supermarket! It wasn't all bad, but more minuses than pluses for me. | Source

Moonlighting, or Plan B

Ways I could make money included -

  • Baking Croatian cookies, a dying art. They take time and effort, but I would be working from home.
  • Cleaning House for foreigners who had summer homes on the island. This too was well paid for the amount of time required.
  • Recycling bottles. Not a lot of money at .50 / bottle, but it does add up.

Last but not least, WRITING ONLINE on HubPages and other Sites!


Plan of Attack

This Hub is the continuation of an earlier Hub written last Spring called "Do I Stay or Do I Go?"

The answer is - I went, and I will tell you how you can "GO" too!

After deciding that financial independence was the only way, there were obvious steps that needed taking.

P L A N of A T T A C K

1. Analyze Expenses - Get out of debt. Time to get a pencil and paper out and see how much in debt I really am. There is the one big credit card, some unwritten bills that are to be paid off "when I get a chance", and so on. I got it all down on paper without fear or pressure - the truth will set you free.

I had a look to determine which were the nastiest bills of the bunch, the highest fees, interest, and so on. I did a semi-snowball approach. Some of the baby bills got wiped out in the beginning, others got saved til later because nobody was worrying about them and I was feeling more pressure about the credit card lenders. I determined to take a step forward every day and keep going, no matter what. Wasn't nearly as bad as I expected it to be!

2. Analyze how much I really earn - and where does the money go? Some things are just too obvious. There are the basic monthly bills which don't change too much. There were some questionable items - but in fact, I wasn't blowing it that much. Perhaps 200 in discretionary income could have been eliminated. I needed to gear up, mow down the bills and start a cushion fund to tide me over.

In order to really SEE with open eyes (no more sleepwalking) an Excel spreadsheet works wonders. The columns go as wide as you like and the rows are from 1 to 31, so each day's expense gets plugged into the appropriate column. I use a percentage of total to see what percentage I paid on groceries, transport, etc. It's actually FUN!!!

3. Identify Alternative Sources of Income. I wrote down what I could actually make money at.

Big Oaks from little Acorns Grow

With concentrated effort on paying things off, concentrated effort on bringing extra money in, the scales were starting to tip in my favor. Things were changing for the better.

New Years' Resolution for 2011 - Become Financially Independent

At New Year 2011 I spruced up my resume and started sending it out for online jobs, especially for writing and editing. At first it seemed I would never ever get a job. There were plenty of other writers, plenty of other editors. I signed up for every job board I could find, because I am bilingual, and that was a big plus. Not that many people are looking for Croatian translators, but there are a few - and I decided I might as well market whatever skills I have! It took a few months to get the ball rolling, but when it started, it really went. Hardly a day went by that I didn't have a side job to do.

Pay Pal is great - they do take a little piece, but this was how I could supplement my income. In only ten months I was completely DEBT FREE!

Prioritization and Time Management

As a freelancer, I found I could earn the same amount of money as before while staying home with my dearest ones.  Kiss!
As a freelancer, I found I could earn the same amount of money as before while staying home with my dearest ones. Kiss! | Source

Start - then Continue

Did you know that a giant, sturdy oak tree grows from a single acorn, not unlike the giant redwood's tiny seeds?
Did you know that a giant, sturdy oak tree grows from a single acorn, not unlike the giant redwood's tiny seeds? | Source

Financial Blogs

These are some of my favorites:

  • Money Crush
  • Budgeting in the Fun Stuff
  • Free Money Finance
  • Financial Samurai


A Huge Mental Shift

BEFORE

I had already been employed five years. The pay was stable, even let's say, a tidbit better than average. But other things were obnoxious. I wasn't allowed to carry my cell phone on the job - what if someone needed me? The kids' father was usually not available, so who would attend to their needs? This was a real concern. Second, The store was way out in the boondocks - I was far away from my family. One autumnal afternoon my daughter walked in the dark to come find me! That was very upsetting. She did just fine, but it was very unsettling.

Our work schedule was a complete mystery from one day to the next. Rewards, like getting days off were bon bons that the boss would deal out in exhange for spying. The reality was that no one knew what the schedule was for even the next day or when they would be given vacation time. This type of scenario is particularly nerve wracking when trying to combine family activities like PTA meetings, birthday parties and other obligations with a "put up and shut up" work culture.I knew I would be leaving my job at the store (where I felt a prisoner)

DURING

As my side income increased and my debt and expenses were minimizing, I felt a change. I knew that I was going to get out of this mess! I dind't know how eactly,

only that It sucked eight hours of time from my day, time that I could be using more wisely. I had already seen that I could make double the income and knew that I would be better off home when my kids got in.

As the side jobs enabled me to leverage up my spending and debt resolution, something wonderful happened! I started to gain personal power. As distasteful as the job was, I felt that I was gaining leverage. People asked what was new. If they only knew! I was on a quest, and just this small level activity made my daily routine less gruesome because it was a Temporary n Situation, not being doomed Permanently to Hell!

I saw the same look of resolute resignation in the other worker's faces. Their expressions like "What can you do" "Another day another dollar" "Nothing better out there" and so on showed me how trapped they felt, too. What a life!

At the same time, I began to speak up for my rights without demanding. Words emerged, like, "I can't lift that" or "We can do it together, but I can't alone, it is too hard for me". Changes began. I began exercising, going to the physical therapist for treatments and cherishing myself. If I was on my break, no one could harass me to come back early - 15 minutes a day was Mine. I was no longer willing to allowing myself to be beaten to the ground as a tired old woman on the verge of collapse. A big but subtle change was emerging. No longer did I feel stuck at the store. I was making my way out! Step by step, inch by inch! Not unlike someone digging a tunnel under the Berlin wall, I knew I was getting closer everyday to seeing broad daylight! I was getting closer everyday and I felt it! In my heart and soul, I had already won!

Online resources

I signed up at Odesk, Freelancer, Elance, and more. Being on gmail, which is an intuitive email system, I would get new links on the side for new job boards. I would nicely send off my CV (curriculum vitae) with photograph, job experience and bla bla bla.

In April I got my first job! Editing a Russian website written in English. In all fairness, they did an OK job, but there were corrections to be made. I did the job and GULP - earned 1/4 of my monthly pay! It was a large job, but took me 3 days - again, I was making the same amount of money at the store in half the time! Woo Hoo!

In the Summer, after SIX MONTHS OF APPLYING FOR ODESK JOBS, I finally got two or three jobs all at once. At this point, I have more jobs that I can handle. It really works, just keep going.

Ground Zero in September

In September I went on my much deserved vacation, having already paid off all of my debts - it was the most wonderfully satisfying feeling that anyone can describe. No money owed whatsoever! What more could any consumer want?

At the end of September I lost my job - YAHOO! Because I was let go as an "excess employee" (due to my chronic back, I believe) I was granted unemployment, which I am nicely saving in the bank. My online income continues to grow and now I am looking to increase my passive income to free up more of my time with family, friends and loved ones....

Another big point. Staying at home saves you money. I work from a room in my house, and I don't buy coffee or snacks outside. I have some nice clothes, but I generally hang out in my jeans and homemade sweaters which suits me just fine.

New Years - a Time of Resolutions

If you want to change your life, just find a way to do it, and do it.

Find a way to be happy and follow your heart. I hope my story helped you. This is only the beginning. And my husband? He is happier than ever that I am home to help the kids with their homework so he can concentrate on his career, I can juggle my five hours of work around their school schedules. They also respect and appreciate me more and more because I told them what I was intending to do and were happy when I did the deed - make the break and never look back!

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Comments 12 comments

theking2020 4 years ago

Excellent Hub, family is a priority, and to be able to make a better life for them is a plus. Great hub.


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EuroCafeAuLait 4 years ago from Croatia, Europe Author

I appreciate the thumbs up - it's not always easy to balance everything. I finally figured it out - so I hope someone else can reap the benefit of my experience. Thanks for stopping by!


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EuroCafeAuLait 4 years ago from Croatia, Europe Author

Any other ideas on how to switch over to being your own boss? Maybe I forgot something! Ciao!


theking2020 4 years ago

Have you research monthly dividend stocks, they're a great way to make a stable income, is just like if you had 7000 sitting there and every month you never touch it but yet you made money every month from it, year after year your portfolio will increase in value.


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EuroCafeAuLait 4 years ago from Croatia, Europe Author

Thanks for the great idea, theking2020. I noticed you have written hubs on similar topics. Which do you suggest?

I forgot to mention in my Hub that I also started E-book writing, which can be great in two ways - getting paid once and then getting residual earnings based on sales. There are plenty of jobs out there.


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prairieprincess 4 years ago from Canada

Great hub! I enjoyed reading about your journey to self-employment. You show that it was not an easy road and you took it step by step. Good for you! That takes courage and persistence.


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EuroCafeAuLait 4 years ago from Croatia, Europe Author

Thanks for your comment, prarieprincess (cute name!). I also knew I was drowning there, and had to find a way (ANY way) out. I hope I encouraged others who are looking to get out of classic work models. Best, ECAL


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LauraGSpeaks 4 years ago from Raleigh, NC

This is an excellent hub for anyone (like me) trying to take the plunge into freelance work. Thanks for the inspirational hub and the useful links too.


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EuroCafeAuLait 4 years ago from Croatia, Europe Author

Cool, Laura! Always glad to help a fellow Hubber out! Keep striving, you will find your path, sometimes when you least expect it. Best, Anastasia


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carozy 4 years ago from San Francisco

I'm very happy for you! What an interesting and inspiring read. Voted up and interesting.


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Randall Guinn 2 years ago from Pinellas Park, Florida

An encouraging article. I'm glad that everything worked out for you. I have a bad back as well, as does my wife. Employers have little understanding when it comes to health problems. Best wishes,

Randall


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EuroCafeAuLait 2 years ago from Croatia, Europe Author

The great thing about HubPages is that you can do it in your spare time. I liked that flexibility. I am still using Hubs for promoting places that I tour and plan to write some more articles soon. As it turned out for me, my back got better (due to less lifting, less stress, etc) when I got away from my bad job. As it turned out, although I am 50 with technically less job prospects than before, I make more money than before with the spare time to take better care of my health (good simple food, exercise and daily massages). Basically it comes down to making a decision and a determination - and you will see that doors will open. I wish you a lot of luck. You are on the right track.

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