What you see is an outcome to social paradigms that were put in place by the Rockefeller family. The Women's Liberation Movement was a fine thing in a number of ways - but the Rockefeller's intentions for such things were not that they provide social equality to women, their goal was to destabilize the American Family structure, and it worked. Of course no one family could do such a thing alone - all the wealthiest families in the world have been working together for more than five hundred years to achieve the social, political, and economic situations that we see globally right here and now.
Our wealth overlords, those who will not pass through "the eye of the needle" prefer that you not use your grandparents. Our global elites prefer that you use daycare centers - so as indoctrination can come to greater fruition, and family loyalties will become about as thick as is water. Your children belong to the state, and serve the purpose that the state is so benevolent to, possibly, provide for them. This is why your children are assigned a number at birth, a number that implies something that a state can not provide for anyone.