Pet Peeves of an Older American White Heterosexual Male

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This picture was taken in November of 2015. | Source

An American Older White Heterosexual Male

I am a Caucasian male who was born in 1944. Since I have been married most of my life to females, you can't help but call me an older white heterosexual male.

Frankly speaking, I am proud to be an older white heterosexual male. Since the founding of the United States in 1776, white heterosexual males spearheaded the western expansion of America and were chiefly responsible for its military and economic progress.

As rugged individualists in the 1800s, white heterosexual males were also responsible for helping the United States acquire and settle Alaska, Hawaii, South Pacific islands, and the Philippines outside of the continental U.S.

During my lifetime beginning in the 1970s, however, there has been a backlash by leftist liberal elements to demonize and denigrate all of the white heterosexual male accomplishments. These leftist liberal elements are made up of radical feminists, activist racial minorities, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenderl activists, and socialists with a communist bent.

In this hub, I lay out eleven pet peeves which have annoyed me for some time.


Political Correctness

A politically correct sign on a fence.
A politically correct sign on a fence. | Source

1. Political Correctness

Political correctness may be thought of as language, policies, or measures which don't want to offend or disadvantage any certain group of people in society. In essence it is upholding a social taboo against language and attitudes that one could call bigoted. For example, when Donald Trump calls some women fat and homely, he is considered being bigoted. Because the President of the United States doesn't want to offend Muslims, he will not say that ISIS has engaged in genocide. I hated political correctness when I was teaching in Thailand. Instead of writing that a student was failing in his course work, I had to say that he so she needed improvement. Political correctness has definitely gone too far in dictating what we can say and not say.

Affirmative Action

Protests in Brazil against university quotas for minorities
Protests in Brazil against university quotas for minorities | Source

2. Affirmative Action

Affirmative action which was advocated as early as the 1960s is the policy of favoring disadvantaged groups such as women, racial minorities, and the handicapped who are now or have been the victims of discrimination within a culture. As an older white man in his fifties and sixties, affirmative action in the form of reverse discrimination affected me greatly when I worked for the federal government. Although I consistently received excellent work performances, I wasn't promoted from GS-13 to GS-14 during the last twenty years of federal service! Many women, members of racial minorities, and handicapped people were promoted over me during that period.

Rewriting of History

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3. Rewriting of History

I am very upset that history books have been rewritten to marginalize the achievements of white heterosexual males and promote a politically correct liberal socialist and communist agenda which declares war on any conservative white heterosexual male thought.

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007 Pride Parade in Buenos Aires organized by the Argentine Federation of LGBT
2007 Pride Parade in Buenos Aires organized by the Argentine Federation of LGBT | Source

4. Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Lifestyle Demands

When growing up in the 1950s, there was no public discussion about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) lifestyles because this topic was taboo. In 2015, however, the U.S. Supreme Court legalized same sex marriages and has also given equal rights to the LGBT. Just the same, I view same sex marriage as immoral and also can not condone any law which states that the transgender and bisexual can use any public restroom of gender they choose.

A Mother with Children

A mother with children in Berlin, Germany, 1962
A mother with children in Berlin, Germany, 1962 | Source

5. Women Who Value Ambition and Career More Than Family Life

I am not opposed to a woman working to help a husband support a family. I draw the line, however, when women view their job or career as more important than marriage or family life. If women took more responsibility in taking care of their families, there would be less problems in society.

6. Illegal Immigration

I think it is appalling that the United States has eleven million illegal immigrants. When my ex-wife immigrated to the U.S. in the late 1970s, it took her five years to get legal immigration citizenship.

7. Disrespect for Police and Law and Order

General disrespect for police and law and order started in the 1960s with the anti-war and civil rights movement protests. It has been especially bad since 2000 with numerous mass shootings and criticism and dislike for police officers who work mostly in big cities.

Miley Cyrus Worst Moments

8. Loss of Moral Values in Society

Since the 1960s, there has been a gradual loss of moral values in society which has accelerated in recent years. With the breakdown of the family, there has been an increase in crime and drug use. A liberal media has also contributed negative role models like Justine Beiber, Miley Cyrus, and Rihanna who are setting bad examples for youth with sexually suggestive songs, dances like twerking, and advocating violence and disrespect for women in rap songs.

CNN

The CNN Center in Atlanta
The CNN Center in Atlanta | Source

9. Predominantly Liberal Politically Correct Media

I am sick and tired of being exposed to a media which is very unfair in the reporting of the news. Anyone who doesn't toe the line on liberal and politically correct dogma is called a bigot, racist, and a fascist. After watching the media's coverage of Donald Trump and his political rallies, is it any wonder that Trump has a dislike for the media?

10. Pro-Choice Advocates

All lives matter and life begins with conception in the womb. Anyone who is a pro-choice advocate is killing life through abortion under the guise of playing God as to who lives and who dies.

11. White Heterosexual Males Are Privileged

As a white heterosexual male, I don't consider myself having had special rights and advantages during my life. If I had been privileged, why was I denied admission to medical school? Why was I drafted into the Army in 1966 before I enlisted in the Navy? Finally, why was I denied a job promotion during the last twenty years of my federal government service?

Summary

There has been a great change in the world and society since the 1940s when I was born. Everything in society is upside down now and the differences are as great as between day and night. With the pet peeves I have now as an older white heterosexual male, perhaps it would have been better if I had been born and lived in the late-nineteenth and early twentieth centuries.

© 2016 Paul Richard Kuehn

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fpherj48 8 months ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

Paul.....KUDOS!! BRAVO!! I respect and appreciate that you speak for "Older-American-White-Heterosexual-Male." This might just be the easiest, quickest reply I've ever posted.

From an "Older-American-White-Heterosexual-Female"~~DITTO.

Peace, Paula


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Kim Bryan 8 months ago

All I can say is, "Wow, you took the words right out of my mouth."


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RJ Schwartz 8 months ago from Idaho Falls, Idaho

This is one of the best Hubs I have read in some time. You are speaking the words so many of us are feeling. Being demonized for being who you are and carrying strong values is simply amazing. Keep fighting the good fight!


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Jodah 8 months ago from Queensland Australia

Good work, Paul. I am a white heterosexual Australian male born in the 50s, but I can still relate to many of your concerns and peeves. Well written.


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greenmind 8 months ago

I am an older white heterosexual male, an American history teacher, and I could not disagree with you more.


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RJ Schwartz 8 months ago from Idaho Falls, Idaho

Greenmind - I'd enjoy, as I think everyone else would, if you might share some of your rationale on why you so vehemently disagree.


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Au fait 8 months ago from North Texas

An interesting point of view and well written as always. Sharing with followers and pinned to Awesome HubPages.


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Paula, Thank you very much for the great positive review of this hub. By the way, are you voting in the New York State primary on April 19?


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Kim, thank you very much for your great comments. I'm extremely happy that you liked this hub.


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

@RJ Schwartz , I really appreciate your comments and they will give me more inspiration in my future articles!


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

@Jodah, I am very pleased that you find this hub well written, It's obvious that the concerns and peeves I have are not limited to life in the United States. Thank you very much for the comments!


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

@Au fait, I really appreciate your comments and must give you special thanks for sharing and pinning this hub.


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

@greenmind , I sincerely appreciate your comment and thank you for reading and commenting on this hub.


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

&Rj Schwartz , I'm sure that @Greenmind agrees with my pet peeves because "could not disagree" means "agree."


Bill Kasman 8 months ago

Homosexuality isn't a new thing so it would be interesting to find out how many of those ''older, white heterosexual males'' were in fact closet gays. Unfortunately any answer can only be speculation - we shall never know.


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Thank you very much for your comment, Bill. Yes, it is possible that some of those "older, white heterosexual males" were closet gays.


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CatherineGiordano 8 months ago from Orlando Florida

Hip Hip Hurrah for the older white hetero-sexual says an older white heterosexual female. Please don't feel put-upon. Older white heterosexual people still have plenty of privileges.


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Paul Kuehn 8 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Thanks for your comments. I certainly will find out about any privileges I have when I travel to the States in May of 2016.


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rajan jolly 7 months ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

I can certainly relate to many of these pet peeves as an older male in another generation. Times have changed and many of the things along with, not to our liking though!

Great hub. Shared on facebook and Pinterest.


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Paul Kuehn 7 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Thank you greatly for your comments, Rajan! Yes, the times have certainly changed a lot with many things not to our liking. I appreciate you sharing this hub.


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Shyron E Shenko 7 months ago

Hello Paul, I don't think Miley Cyrus was advocating disrespect for females in general, but she was advocating disrespect for herself.

This is very interesting and well written.

Blessings

Shyron


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Paul Kuehn 7 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Hi Shyron, The way I look at it, everyone has their price. Miley quickly found out that she could make mega bucks by advocating disrespect for herself. I'm happy you found this hub interesting and well written.


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ladyguitarpicker 7 months ago from 3460NW 50 St Bell, Fl32619

I must agree with some of your thoughts and the disrespect for others. Miley is a poor excuse for kids. The media seems to be against parents who are trying to raise kids.I was born in 1950, and it appears that everything I was taught no longer exist anymore.


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Paul Kuehn 7 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Thank you very much for your comments! I was born a few years before you and also strongly feel that everything I was taught no longer exists anymore. Everything is upside down from when we were young and I really am upset with the liberal lifestyle today which is debunking all of the morals we learned as kids.


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Perspycacious 6 months ago from Today's America and The World Beyond

I don't know where the "pet peeves" leave your voting instincts in 2016, but I can guess.

Isn't it great that we can live in a free country where we can express ourselves freely and even receive comments from our peers!


Wild Bill 6 months ago

Paul,

Thank you for saying this! I am a younger whiter heterosexual white male and I deal with that backlash on an almost daily basis, whether at work, on the street, or in the news (for the generalized white male).

The funny thing is that I have always pointed my same traits to others except with a few tags added: White, Heterosexual, Christian, Southern, Conservative, Male.

Despite the fact that I have a race, ethnicity, gender, sexuality, and creed; I can still have bias against me because my labels are not protected by political correctness. Racism, sexism, heterophobia, and anti-theism don't apply to me because I am considered 'the oppressor' in the public eye. Forget the fact that I am just a guy trying to make my way in the world and do the best for my family.


big E 6 months ago

You know my solution. Figure out a way to change appearance to black. Black skin will give the white man more power and flexibility.


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Paul Kuehn 5 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Yes, freedom of expression is one of the great things about life in the States. Thanks for the comments!


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Paul Kuehn 5 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Thank you very much for your comments, Wild Bill. I really appreciate them.


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Paul Kuehn 5 months ago from Udorn City, Thailand Author

Thank you for your comments, big E.

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