Stop and Look Through the Roses

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People often ask me how I can be so positive despite what I’ve been through. The answer is simple: I look at life through rose-colored glasses. I always have and I always will. I see the good in people and even in hurtful or traumatic circumstances. There is always something to be learned from our actions and demeanor. There is always a way up. There is always beauty, joy and awe to be found in life. Life is a precious gift and I embrace it every day.

Looking at life through rose-colored glasses doesn’t mean you don’t see what’s going on in the world, nor does it negate reality; it offers another dimension to reality. It offers hope, love and reminds you of the beauty that abounds despite what Mankind is doing to make the world ugly – and extinct.

Rose-colored glasses allow you to see the glass as half full. They are full of dreams that are achievable if you are willing to see and take the leap. Rose-colored glasses see the homeless as people who have fallen on hard times – not sap-suckers of society. They allow you to view the hungry as your opportunity to offer much-needed nourishment. The lonely become targets of your friendship and spirited soul.

They help you to see solutions to the problems in this world by recognizing all the beauty it contains, compelling you to share what you see and bringing that beauty forth into the eyes of others. Rose-colored glasses filter out the bad and allow the good to come to the forefront where it can shine and prosper. Laugh; smile at a stranger, share your brightness. Be a force of Nature.

Wearing rose-colored glasses means not living in fear. It means shining your light in order to guide the path of others. It means offering help to the downtrodden so they can get back on the road to self-respect and self-worth. It means embracing each new day as the beautiful gift it is. Feel good about yourself and others will follow. See through the clouds and rainbows will form. Become a magnet for the lighter, brighter side of life.

Atrocities have a way of kicking us in the ass and giving us the chance to re-build, re-think and do better in life. You’ve heard the phrase “behind every dark cloud there is a silver lining”. I say, “look through the clouds for rays of sunshine and rosy skies”. Be the silver lining and life will shine.

Rose-colored glasses have the power to make life beautiful again. Won’t you join me? I have enough of a supply to wrap around the world allowing all of us to leave a legacy to newcomers just beginning life on this Earth. Join me and hundreds of others in Humanity One World (H.O.W.). You’ll receive no decoder ring, but you will receive a pair of rose-colored glasses through which the world can see. They are indestructible and last a lifetime.

Life isn’t about things and possessions. It’s about sharing, communication and love. It’s about nurturing and spreading joy. It’s about growing, not destroying. Rose-colored glasses allow you to see life as it should and can be.

Strap on a pair of rose-colored glasses and never take them off. One size fits all and is the perfect accessory to your well-being and that of the world.

Life is good! Spread the word.


Peace,

Bravewarrior



Shauna L Bowling

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marcoujor 3 years ago from Jeffersonville PA

Your voice is loud and clear with this, Sha...I imagine this was an easy write as you practice what you preach in a beautiful way.

Voted UP and UABI and rosy! Love, Maria


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billybuc 3 years ago from Olympia, WA

I miss writing like this. Time is so damn short these days, and it takes me twice as long to write meaningful hubs like this one, and this is meaningful. Great message, Sha, and of course thanks for mentioning H.O.W.

You're the best!

love,

bill


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Maria, you're the first to comment! Yay! I am practicing my voice for the niche I've decided I need to pursue. The lighter/brighter side of life and looking thru rose-colored glasses is who I am. That's what I know best, so I'm working on perfecting my art so I can reach out to newspapers and magazines. Thanx for the votes!

Bill, my 'voice' ties in with H.O.W.'s message; why not combine the two? That's how I can make my mark. At least, that's what I hope for. It's just the beginning. Gotta work on my voice (doe, re, me, fa, so, la, ti, doe) so it's heard!

I'm still slow in the SEO crap and don't really want to look for more, so I'm taking advantage of this time to work on the 'me' I want to sell in the not-to-distant future. I've found my niche. Now I need to feed it before throwing it out to the literary lions!


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Bill, I meant to add a link to one of your first H.O.W. articles. I just did. Sorry about the omission!


DJ Anderson 3 years ago

Great write, Shauna.

You are becoming a more confident writer and it shows.

A confident woman becomes a powerful woman. Just ask 'Sheila'.

It made me feel good just to read your hub.

It does not matter that the dog yacked up on our bedspread, or that

my son has his laundry in my washer for the second day. And, I cannot wash my bedspread. Still, all is well in my world. And, I

feel grateful for my HP friends.

Great job, Shauna!!

DJ.


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

DJ, I appreciate your words, but I must ask, who is Sheila? You're right. It doesnt' matter that the dog has messed up your bedspread or that your son is using your washer for the second day. You will one day need your son's washer and, if he has learned anything from you, it will be yours as long as you need it.

As far as the bedspread, there's either the laundry mat or spot cleaning it. Hell, take it outside, hose it down and hang it up to dry. There's always a solution. There is nothing we can't overcome.

Again, who is Sheila?


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FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

Beautiful, hopeful, positive message. Peace to you.


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Faith Reaper 3 years ago from southern USA

Very beautiful message here! I do not live in fear, but place my trust and faith my Him, as He is always so faithful. Yes, I have had to live through many trials and tribulations in this lifetime too, and so it is a choice.

Voted up ++++ and sharing

God bless you dearest Sha! In His Love Always, Faith Reaper


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Vellur 3 years ago from Dubai

A great write and yes life is all about sharing, communication and love.


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CrisSp 3 years ago from Sky Is The Limit Adventure

Great, meaningful hub. Very inspirational. Certainly worth sharing and will absolutely do. Bookmarking it as well.

Voting up and across the board.

Love from the sky~


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Anna Haven 3 years ago from Scotland

An awesome hub! Although you have written this hub specifically on a positive can-do attitude, I think this empowering feeling is actually present in all your past writing.

You are an inspiring and feisty lady. You frequently reach out with your writing to try to help others and I think this niche suits you really well.


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Mhatter99 3 years ago from San Francisco

Your words ring loud and true. It took arlene and I almost 18 years to live beyond money. The masons, public schools, and various youth organizations received most of the benefits of our freedom.


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whonunuwho 3 years ago from United States

I agree my friend..those who criticize folks for looking at life through"rose colored glasses" don't realize that if those of us who did this visioning were not around anymore. life would indeed be an empty place. It takes the positive thinkers to keep this society going forward. Thanks for sharing this. whonu


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James-wolve 3 years ago from Morocco

Thanks so much for this lesson.It really soars my spirit and gives me hope and strength to carry one.From now and on,I will abandon the grey glasses and wear the rose-colored ones.

This hub is wonderfully flow and wellpenned .I voted up


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Flourish, peace to you!

Faith, having faith in God helps us in good times and bad. Thanx for the share!

Vellur, I'm so glad you share my vision.

Cris, awesome words. Thank you so much!

Anna, I'm tickled you've validated this 'feisty' lady's choice in niche writing. You had me chuckling over 'feisty'. Love it!

Martin, what an awesome thing to do for your community. You are a true treasure.

Whonu, I'm so glad you are already the proud bearer of rose-colored glasses. That makes you a kindred spirit in my book!

James, I'm so happy you grabbed your free pair of rose-colored glasses. Life is much more beautiful when you stop to look through the roses!


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Eiddwen 3 years ago from Wales

What a wonderful read Shauna and this is so you !!A wonderful caring friend with a heart as big as houses.

Here's to a long time to come of hub sharing for you.

Have a wonderful day and lots of love.

Eddy.


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Lots of love to you too, Eddy. Read my comment on your latest hub. It came from my heart and I hope you take it to heart and reconsider.


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Sheri Faye 3 years ago from Chemainus. BC, Canada

What a beautiful message. I have a pair of those cool glasses, although once in a while I misplace them...pieces like this remind me to find them and put those suckers on. Great hub!


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WillStarr 3 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

I agree. Give me an optimist any time, as long as we don't self-deceive.

Very good Hub!


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Sheri, if you have them, never take them off!

I hear ya, Will. Gotta be a tad bit realistic inside the idealism.


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Suzie HQ 3 years ago from Dublin, Ireland

Hi Sha,

What wonderful words you write, i never tire of reading these from you! You have a wonderful view on life and this hit many chords with me, thank you so much for this rose tinted specs hub, it is so darn true of us all. Votes across shared! great writing once again!!!


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livingsta 3 years ago from United Kingdom

Wow, great one! Life can be so beautiful when we look at everything the way you have mentioned here. Thank you for this beautiful hub. Voted up and sharing!


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Suzie, did you grab your pair of rose-colored glasses? Thank you so much for your kind words. It's support like yours that keeps me motivated.

Livingsta, I'm tickled my rosy look at life is reaching across the pond! Thanx for sharing - spread the word! There are enough glasses to go around!


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always exploring 3 years ago from Southern Illinois

I hear you loud and clear! I've been told by many skeptics that i must be wearing rose-colored glasses. It's so much easier to look on the bright side of life. I love this piece..Thank you for adding to the H.O.W. movement. Thoroughly enjoyed...


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Ruby, in order to love life we must look through rose-colored glasses. Life has so much to offer. Unfortunately, the news doesn't show us where to find or see it. I'm going to change that!


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ImKarn23 3 years ago

Shauna...i adore your exuberant outlook on life - your spirit and your attitude are so admirable - many would benefit from your words!

I hope you never take off those rose colored glass - may you only see opportunity through them - no matter how atrocious the circumstances!

your kind, sweet aura is so strong here, my friend!

I am with you all the way! Send my shades! lol

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fpherj48 3 years ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

Sha.....A huge THANK YOU! You have spoken for me....beautifully .....perfectly! My beliefs are so in tune with yours, Sha....and I could not have written them as eloquently as you have just done.

My mother and sister would literally use that quote regarding my "Rose-colored glasses..." Of course I knew they said this out of love, believing they should protect me or keep me on my toes. That's fine....but the reality is, I am who I am and my basic nature directs me, just as yours does, in your own life.

Yes, Sha, you and I and others who share our outlook and attitude, DO actually SEE what happens around us....especially the ugly and the evil, but we seem to be able to use our personal powers, to carry the bad away from the GOOD, so as not to "contaminate."

A little not-so-secret thought of mine, Sha, is that this positive attitude is not amazing "DESPITE" all we have been through....but, surely, BECAUSE of it.

Bless you...AND your glasses....Absolutely Wonderful HUB!! ..UP++


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Leslie, they're on the way! :-)

Paula, you're so right. Rose-colored glasses give us the power to see beyond the ugly and makes us who we are BECAUSE of it! Glad to have you aboard!


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LaThing 3 years ago from From a World Within, USA

I read it before, and had to come back and read it few more times! It's so inspiring, such a wonderful lesson.... and so touching! If we can always remember this at time of trials.... Thanks for sharing, Sha.

Voting up and everything :)


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Lizzie, I'm thrilled you were compelled to come back. What a huge compliment! Thank you so much!


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grandmapearl 3 years ago from Southern Tier New York State

bravewarrior, what an amazingly uplifting piece this is! I thoroughly enjoyed your positive message. Especially when you said to look for the beauty in every situation. And you're right, it is always there if you poke around and really look hard for it. Your message is inspiring. Voted Up ++++

Thank you so much for your generous and giving spirit my friend ;) Pearl


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Hey, Pearl! I'm so glad to see you here. You bring me so much joy with your hubs, I'm glad I am able to offer you a bit of the same. Your comment means so much to me!


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Gypsy Rose Lee 3 years ago from Riga, Latvia

Voted up and awesome. I sure love looking through rose colored glasses because they make the world seem wonderful if just for a moment and clouds really do have silver linings. No reason not too otherwise we wouldn't make it very far in this life. Enjoyed this and the pics. Passing this on. Hugs to you and let's keep sharing those rose colored glasses.


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Rasma, it's a deal. I'll keep sharing rose-colored glasses as long as I breathe on this Earth!


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sunkentreasure 3 years ago

SECRETS OF LIFE By BERNARD LEVINE

Look for the beauty

in everything you see.

Walk in peace

showing kindness

everywhere.

The secrets of success

are motivation

and dedication

Happiness is

what you make happen

for yourself.

Caring is

going to the ends of the world

for a stranger.

Be useful with your life.

Whatever you are doing

put your whole

being into it 100%

Loving is

pleasing your loved one everyday

in a 1000 different ways.

Control your mind

you are its master

Be in control.

Live your life

without hurting or

destroying.

Believe in yourself.

Have respect for yourself.

Walk through life

always with a song.

© Bernard Levine


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Thank you for the beautiful poem, Sunkentreasure. This is right up my alley.


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epigramman 3 years ago

Dear Shauna - Sometimes I let my depression and anxiety get in the way of life and just want to give up and go to sleep and never wake up again and then such is life - that is the yin and yang THAT WE ALL have to face and deal with on a daily basis.

I love your writing because it is heartfelt and personal and draws your readers in and yes life is good and often because of the people we choose to have around us - I always say - you are only as good as the people around you and that people can make it or break it.

I have a lot of things to feel a blessing for - my relative good health, my creative mind, my two cats and to be able to look at this lake everyday although that is coming to an end as I am running out of time and money and must sell this place by the end of the summer.

I must try to stay positive and think about what the next chapter in my life has to offer to me.

On a positive note , you ask where do my creative ideas come from?

Well I love challenges so if you can -please send me a suggestion/subject that you would like me to write about and I will have it done by this evening or perhaps earlier.

Always so nice to hang out with you and sending 3 high fives to you from two human hands and four furried paws at lake erie time 12:19pm canada with first cup of coffee and a Mozart horn concerto and both cats outside


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

Epi, I'm sorry you have to sell your house. Maybe you can still find something on the water - I know how much you love it!

As for an idea - I think you found one in your comment to me. How about "the next chapter"?

7 high fives back atcha, my friend!


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epbooks 3 years ago from Las Vegas, NV

I like the message you are portraying with rose colored glasses. It's a good idea to keep a pair of these on hand-especially for days when the sky overhead is a bit cloudy. Thanks for posting!


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bravewarrior 3 years ago from Central Florida Author

You're so right, epbooks! Sometimes those gray clouds want to creep in and sometimes they even succeed. Not for long, tho! Rose-colored glasses help to keep a positive perspective.


Ben Blackwell 2 years ago

This is a very cool way of thinking of it. Rose colored glasses...


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bravewarrior 2 years ago from Central Florida Author

Ben, rose-colored glasses are a survival factor for me. As long as I keep them on (psychologically), I move forward and maintain a positive attitude.


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Margaret Schindel 16 months ago from Massachusetts

Shauna, about five years ago, after having suffered two traumatic losses that had "darkened my glasses" for several years, I decided to try living according to a philosophy that had always made sense to me intellectually: "We create what we focus on." Instead of mourning my losses, I chose to start focusing on appreciation and gratitude for the many blessings that I still had, and on discovering the beauty in "ordinary" things and people I encountered. The way I experience life has been transformed by that choice in ways I could never have imagined. I love wearing my rose colored glasses, just as I love the beautiful way in which you described them. May we never take them off!


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bravewarrior 16 months ago from Central Florida Author

Margaret, I love that philosophy. It makes perfect sense. It reminds me of the story "Two Wolves Inside". It goes like this:

An elder Cherokee was teaching his grandchildren about life. He said to them, "A fight is going on inside me... it is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One wolf represents fear, anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

"The other stands for joy, peace, love, hope, sharing, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, friendship, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith.

"This same fight is going on inside you, and inside every other person, too."

They thought about it for a minute and then one child asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"

The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

Keep those rose-colored glasses on, Margaret. As I say, one size fits all. I'm with you. I'll never take them off!


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Margaret Schindel 16 months ago from Massachusetts

Shauna, I've always loved that story! Thank you for reminding me of it.


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bravewarrior 16 months ago from Central Florida Author

I love it too. I have it printed and tacked to my bulletin board.

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