What matters most to men

What matters most to men are some material things (cars, jobs, sports), their women (mother and partner) and his children.

Cars -- men love cars, because they love the drive, it is their possession and speaks well of their financial capability. For men, when they are driving it gives them fulfillment, it is like they are the ones who are in control of the direction where they are going. It gives them power to get to a place, and it give them satisfaction when they are driving the car which they like to drive. It is their wish to drive their dream car, and they are what they drive. Some men prefer old vintage car, sports car or luxury cars. To many men, car is a good way to invite women into their lives. Almost all women want to ride in a nice car. I want that too, but that is not the only thing that makes me love them, the way they sit in the car and how they control the wheel is a nice way of showing they can protect you. It is true that some women are attracted to men with expensive and nice cars. Men likes to drive fast too and they are more careless in driving than women. Men doesn’t want to ask directions too because they don’t want others see to see them as incapable of directions. But I like that because it means they wont bother me either while taking a nap while they drive.See I always find something nice about what they do.

Jobs -- men make their job their priority, why? Because until now men is ascribed by the society to take care of their family, their women and children financially. They are still considered the primary breadwinner and main financial supporter of the family. That’s why many men are devastated more than women when they lose their job. I love them in spite of the times that they are not talking or silence when they have a problem. It means they are worried, they cant provide for their loved ones. And they are expected by the society to protect their family no matter what.

Women --They love women of course, now it will be useless to ask why men loves women. For security reasons and emotional fulfillment of course. They need women to support them and love them the way they should be love. Men like women who supports them and at the same time let them the best that they can be. Loyalty is what they expect to their women even if sometimes they cant be loyal to one. Men are attracted to sexy images, and women are like that too. It has been said that until now, they like big bosom and big behind because it is related to fertility and most men want younger women because of this too. They want women so that they can bear their children and continue their manhood and offspring. I will not say that I like men who loves many women, but I like my men to catch the attention of other women while I am with them. It is a plus on me, it means my men is still a prize possession.

Children -- children are the extension of their love for women, they want to procreate so that they can extend their surname. Children give them pride too and in agricultural setting, sons are somebody who will continue their work. Women like their men to want to have a child with them, not only because we want to hold them down, but we want a son or a daughter that looks like our men.

Sports -- Men loves to win, that’s why they love sports, suffice it to say that they don’t like losing, as they are crushed when their team lost. Why? because they think that they too lost. But women are also the same, nobody want to lose.

Let me tell you something about men, they are emotional too, they just don’t want you to see it. They are expected by society to be strong and not to cry. But they can be loving and sweet and they can be moved easily. Of course they are human too, they also cry.

They can be humorous too, they can smile, they come in different sizes, small, large, well built, lanky, funny, jerk but they all love their mother, and that is important to me. I have three sons who adore me endlessly. And my brother who taught me how to play guitar and  loves me to death, but he died last year. And my father is the only person who love me unconditionally.He taught me how to read and showed me a good example of a man which I can pass on to my sons.

I don’t know what will happen to civilization if there are no men. Surely they are the other half of women. They gave me children and they show me how to love, romantic love too.

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wolfpack5 6 years ago from Alberta Canada

Nice hub pdh, you hit the nail on the head


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Midasfx 6 years ago

You sure know men pretty well!


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dohn121 6 years ago from Hudson Valley, New York

You sure know a lot about men, Maita! I wish I knew just about as much about women, but I don't! Every woman in my life are nuts in some way, shape, or form! ;) But of course I loved them all in different ways. Thanks for a great hub about one half of the human population! You really did an excellent job on this one!


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tony0724 6 years ago from san diego calif

Maita you really do have excellent insight into us guys .And yes in spite of what many women do write about us , we do love our women ! My Pop and other male figures in my life taught me what it means to be a man . And first and foremost a man is responsible ! Good read Maita . I hope I hear ya play the guitar sometime .


lyricsingray 6 years ago

great job girl - well written too, thanks, Kimberly


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Truth From Truth 6 years ago from Michigan

Very well done, you covered all the bases. You don't always get both sides, but you did it .Great hub. Thanks.


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carolina muscle 6 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

Great post, Maita!!


poetlorraine 6 years ago

glad to see the men agree with you also nice hub


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resspenser 6 years ago from South Carolina

Good hub. You nailed us and often what matters most is in that order!LOL!

You left out guns!


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Juicy Ones 6 years ago

Not sure I'm in total accord with ALL your conclusions, PDH. My priority list would read - wife, kids, dogs, sport and TV!

I think my dad has been the bigger influence on me as opposed to my mother. Cars are money down the drain. I only ever worked to provide for my family so jobs don't ring my bell either. Sport has played a big part in my life that is true, so have to admit maybe 20 years ago, you would have been spot on for me too!


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

Hi wolfpack, thnaks for the read, maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

Hi Midas, thnaks for dropping by, maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

Hi Dohnm I will try to write about what women really wants to aside form what Ms Useful knowledge shared already, I am sorry all your women are like that, I am sure they love you though,women are just unpredictable too, I may blame the hormones LOL< thanks again, maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

hi tony, yes sometime, I am a novice in guitar, hmmm shy shy shy, Maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

Hi lyrics, thanks for the read, Maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

Hi truth, thanks for your comment! Maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

To Chris, thanks, Maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

@poet, thanks, i read about your hub, (mom) and I like it, Maita


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

Hi juicyones, yes I understand your situation and your comment, thnaks for the read, Maita

@respenser, thanks for the read too, how are you? NMaita


"Quill" 6 years ago

Great hub and yup, you have us all pegged, but Quill likes to have his favorite girl right beside him when he's out hot rodding, his squeese Mrs. Quill and him both grinning as they cruise off into the sunset...smiles.

Be Blessed


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resspenser 6 years ago from South Carolina

I'm good, prettydarkhorse. I have been reading Under the Dome by Stephen King and it is L O N G!

Hope to write a new hub soon!


oldenuf2nobetter 6 years ago

All depends on the man.


Denno66 6 years ago

Nice hub, Maita. We're that transparent, huh? ;) Great read and an accurate look into the makeup many of us men share. :-)


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

hi Denno, thanks for the read here, you are back Denno, I still love those sheeps, maita


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ehern33 6 years ago

We sometimes think we are in control, but by reading this article, I think you burst my bubble. LOL You are spot on but as I grow older, material things have become less important. Us men need to re-arrange our ways, you women are getting to good at this.


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

oh ehern, yes as we grow older we prioritize what is called love and not material things...Maita


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Coolmon2009 6 years ago from Texas, USA

good hub


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

thanks coolmon for the read, Maita


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festersporling1 6 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

Haha. Not bad.


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

thanks, Maita


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adrienne2 6 years ago from Atlanta

Hi prettydarkhorse,

I love your hub, and like it even better near the end where you state men are emotional to. They sure are, and you did a great job writing about what matters to men.


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

thanks so much for your nice comments, and yes men are also emotional, most men dont just showit, but they are the most emotional creatures, Maita


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aware 6 years ago from West Palm Beach Florida.

interesting .not all men are most men. as for kids that's what's most important to me but for none of the reasons you listed. thought provoking hub . well done. ray


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US Author

you're nice aware as kids are the most important thing for you, Thank you, Maita


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LeanMan 6 years ago from At the Gemba

Very intruiging... I think I am a strange man, I don't like sports or fast cars (I would kill myself as I always drive with my foot right down).. Do love my kids and family though..

All I want is nice, small house with nice plot of land for flowers, enjoying, and vegetables...

Too laid back and lazy I guess...

Oh, and nightly discos and karaoke... hehehehehe


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epigramman 6 years ago

..I basically ignore what all other men seek - and prefer the warm company of your hubs .......


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Pcunix 6 years ago from SE MA

No. Not all men love sports, cars or think their job is more important than their family. As my wife regularly says, if you raise idiot boys, you get idiot men, and the proof of that is everywhere.


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MysteryPlanet 5 years ago

You hit on quite a few words of wisdom here Just remember that not all men are the same :o)

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