I wish I could pin the exact state, however, in my opinion it will most likely be a state northeast. I am from New Orleans and as welcomed as the gay community is in nola it's a red, southern state. I now live in northwest GA (culture shock). I am a lesbian mixed white/hispanic with an 12 year old daughter and in a relationship with a black women. It's 2011 and we still fighting the fight. Check out my hub Beyound History.