I don't think that patriotism is the word. Chauvinism, maybe, which is patriotism on steroids: my country right or not so right.
Patriotism is good, but I think the problem is expecting other countries, other people, to submit to us or to mimic our culture.
I am patriotic without reservation, but if every country were a clone of the United States, it would certainly take the joy--and incentive--out of travel.
While loyalty is to be valued, I hope that we can appreciate that other countries, other people, are justly proud of their respective cultures and loyal to their respective countries.