pisean282311, what you said is also what I learned!! I like how you think.
Also, life taught me that every little or big challenge we face isn't personal. They are meant for us to learn lessons. Those challenge teach us stuff and we have to learn to evolve.
For example: You couple is broken, you need to separate. Yes this is sad. But you need to detach and learn to love yourself so it doesn't hurt when you need to separate like that. You also learned a lot in this relation and will use it in the future. Maybe you just learned what you had to teach each other, now it's time to go on and learn from someone else.