Of course every one always notices what color some one else is, and in the vast majority of cases, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
For example, when I walk into a roomful of white people, there is never any doubt in my mind that what they see is a real hip, very handsome black dude.
I mean, like, I and a very large number of other blacks are so cool and so good looking that even a great many white supremacists are attracted to us.
In fact, when I was in the U.S. Army and stationed in Germany in the 1960's, quite a number of black-and-Jew-hating German chicks could not restrain themselves from getting cozy with me.
Now, I am not boasting. I am just pointing out that in a great many cases, people actually do judge others by the content of their character rather than by the color of their skin.