Gay people are people like the rest of us. I think the question was meant to be 'should openly gay people serve in the military?' Dr. Martin Luther King had a dream about the little boy and the little white girl, that was Mr. and Mrs. O. J. Simpson. Dr. King's dream of a little black boy allowed us to have an African American president.
Just because somebody was born different does not mean they are must be hated and discriminated against. To ask, 'should open gay people serve in the military is like saying should blacks and women vote?' We cannot afford to discriminate against anyone anymore based on race, color, religion, creed, gender, political affiliation or whatever but why sexual orientation?
We have openly gay people around the world as much as we have open straight people. Sex is fun and it must be enjoyed by all consenting partners regardless of the sexual form, namely, heterosexual or homosexual. Physiologically speaking, both the heterosexual or the homosexual, are just the same at that level.
Let us see what is it in the military that makes openly gay people unsuitable to serve in the military. Let us see what is it in the White House that makes black people unsuitable for that office. And if there exists such a thing in the military, then what are doing to accommodate them? We killed apartheid in South Africa and racism in the US, what other form of discrimination are we looking for?