Yeppers ... I know I'd be pretty miffed if I moved onto the afterlife and looked down to see someone digging me up and givin me a ripe spankin. I'd be asking ... where were ya when I was bed ridden and in need of a good whallop?
Tantrum needs firm boundaries and consistancy in approach. A warning, followed by time out, should the behaviour persist, left for 5 mins.. return... has it stopped? No... another warning... leave another 5 mins and repeat.
Tantrum will become more conformist under this behaviour modification technique.
Ok, here's a sensitive topic I know. However, as someone who has endured several memorable spankings i.e belts, extension chords, and any other hard, sturdy pain inducing make-shift whip...yes Therapy is on the "to...
If your child does something wrong like hit you because you have not given in to his tantrum, what would you do? I have sometimes given a smack on his back for misbehavior.. is it fine or am i being a bad parent?