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If I be waspish, beware my sting.
Katherine in Taming of The Shrew

I'm a writer dedicating myself to how to breakup well. 

I’ve been through a lot of breakups in my life.  Settling down with my man in my late 30s meant that I had 25 years of endings and new beginnings again.  At each end I felt like Katherine in Shakespeare's quote above, like a wasp ready to sting over and over again. And y'know - that's a pretty typical story. 

Check out my blog www.thebreakupbitch.com - a place you can read the breakup diary, breakup tips and other information to help you through and it's a great place to bitch! 

I have just written a FREE eBook 3 Simple Steps to Getting Over a Breakup Faster, perfect if you feel like you are stuck in your breakup.  You may be thinking about your ex too often and wonder if you will ever get over him.

And what you want is: to move on faster - to get over him for once and for all and to do more than the no-contact rule.

Then download my eBook! I can help you.

About me: At 38 I found myself unexpectedly single again.  I had bought a house with my partner, expected to start trying for a baby when I discovered he was cheating on me.  I spent a week deciding what to do.  Could I get over this and forgive him?  He hadn't met someone on a business trip, he hadn't fallen for someone he met while out,  Instead he trolled the internet, searching for women to connect with.  I knew he was involved with at least three different women. 

'I haven't had sex with them,' he said. He also told me: 'I met them all on Match.  That's the only place I had a profile.'

I doubted him as the messages I found between them were pornographic and Match seemed a site set up people looking for long-term relationships not quick sexual flings.  I searched and found him on other dating sites aimed at people looking just to hook up.  He was lying to me.  It was enough for me to decide.  And I started my life all over again.