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First thing you will do when you see your ex-bf dating with someone?

asked by chaixkee 7 months ago

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Anamika S says

This has happened to me. If I dumped someone i would not allow him to be in my life other than as a just a friend. So I would be happy that he finally moved on.

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shirleybill says

You would do nothing. After all, he is an ex boyfriend, so get a life, and move on.

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advisor4qb says

THROW A PARTY?!!!! No, seriously, I would be happy for the person. Obviously, you didn't want him anymore. It's obviously best to let go of all that negative energy, and allow yourself to be happy. Try to ignore the pain for now, and it will eventually fade. Trust me.

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daniel dalton says

Personally, it would be best to just shrug it off. You don't want your ex-bf to think that you are so effected. Most guys just feel bad for the girl if things are dragged out. Or drama unfolds. To make him feel bad, you need to just go out and meet new people. Rebounding is an option, but not sure if that's what you want.

Having a life without him would just eat him up inside. Moving on would be the best bet. No guy likes to feel replaced no matter who broke up with who.

Also, start getting healthier and I suggest working out. Guys will be guys. If you are looking mighty fine and sexy, then he might second guess his new date.

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Queen_Kevyn95 says

honestly, never act jealous. never beg for his forgiveness, never show any sign of weakness. it will be hard, i promise, but you will be able to do this if you try. play it cool, act like you want to be friends and always be nice to the girlfriend. even behind his back, because if she feels that you are a threat, she's likely to whine to your ex about you being bitchy to her and if you were hoping to get back together with him, you're chances just got nixed.

the truth about most guys is, they like to pursue women, and it's much more fun than if you pursue them.

if he wants you back he wants you back, and it's your job from there to keep up the good work. :)

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Sarah Horth says

Sometimes I have felt bad, and other times I have felt relieved depending on the breakup.

Breaking up happens in stages. You breakup and get used to being alone again, not part of a relationship. Then you see your ex with someone else and it is another stage, the final one. It can be hard to see them move on (especially if you aren't ready to do this yourself) and even if you don't want to be with them, you can feel sad all over again and maybe a bit jealous (more about him moving on than over him being with someone else).

Other times I have thought: 'Yay, please take him!' as I think I have felt a bit guilty about leaving him. It is a relief to see him moving on.

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Get My Ex Back says

It really depends on how you feel about your ex. If you are still in love with him, your reaction will certainly be different than if you have moved on. If you have moved on the answer is simple, wish them both the best of luck and continue on with your life. If you haven't moved on that will present a whole different set of issues and prompt a lot of questions that you will need to ask yourself.

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takeyou says

he maybe doing it just to make you jealous because he want you back.

you can go and tell him you still care and you want him back

or you start dating your too and maybe he is the one who is going to be jealous

this hub explain a lot about the topic

http://hubpages.com/hub/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfri

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JoChris26 says

As hard as it will be, you have to play it cool and always be friendly. This is assuming that you want to get back with your ex. The way that you handle that situation could make or break your chances at getting back together.

I have a newsletter you can sign up on my blog that talks about this. Or, check out my hub page.

Anyway, the key is to remember to stay confident, courteous, and friendly. Your goal is to make him think twice about leaving...not be grateful thatat he did. Good luck!

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OhKathryn says

My ex was already dating someone else a week after we had broken up, nice right? And I didn't care, I just felt bad for the next girl who had to deal with his bs.

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Miss Match says

Finally realise that it's time for you too, to move on with your life.

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charlettevidal says

If I am still single and we parted ways as friends I'll just give him a quick smile and go on to where I should be going. If he'll introduce me to his date then that would be fine as I will not feel awkward since we parted in good terms and the relationship was over.Like we already have move on with our own lives. But if we parted not on friendly terms then I'll just ignore the both of them as if I didn't knew him at all and nothing happened between us.

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Clelia says

Depends on your situation. From your application you try to understand that even interest in your ex-bf. I have three tips for you: first if you are aware that your ex is no longer interested in you the only solution is resignation. If it is otherwise you just be patient, try to talk to him and slowly closer. But the most important advice is NOT BECOME A FRIEND OF HIS NEW GIRL, I say this from personal experience. If you're interested in my stories cercami in my profile. Baci, Clelia.

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