What Are The Sure Signs From A Girl To Know That She Is Interested In You?
asked by ngureco 7 months ago
flagsbeakr says
there is absolutely no way to tell. just kidding. well, kind of.
humans are consummate actors, very simple and yet also highly obscure. we like to think we're complex and perhaps thus are.
we are fickle, as well. we smile and laugh and cooperate for reasons not always apparent; however, i find contact, whether bodily or energetic, a very real, telling sign. wait and see if she touches you, and in what way. even girls who are shy find a way to project what they truly desire, particularly if what they want is to be touched in return. if someone doesn't want to be touched, or shrinks in any subtle way, they may not be as interested...uncomfortable, but polite.
if you are anything but a total boor, you will sense the difference between a girl's curious nervousness and, alternatively, her frantic will to escape.
marisuewrites says
Well, nowdays, she probably trips you and then beats you to the floor, ok TEASING....
However, I do think that women are much more assertive with expressing themselves, so pay attention to body language: standing close to you, looking into your eyes, exchanging glances, smiling more than usual, or even asking for your number.
Hardly any one seems to play hard to get anymore, which frankly used to be a lot of fun...
If you're interested back...why not make the first move? If she doesn't respond, that's a sure sign to move on. I think honest expression of "I like you" behavior is appealing, as long as it doesn't come on too strong.
good luck...but be yourself and let her know you're interested...
Paul Marshall says
Are you all nuts. I say this with humour & tongue firmly in cheek.
I have not yet meet a lady that I could predict or understand, let alone read their body language.
I prefer the old fashioned way.
Y'know, Hi, I like you & would like to learn more about you.
I figure that there is no point in dragging out the pain... LOL
matryx says
Go with the feeling you have inside you right now. I don't know why but our body seems to know these things before our brains do.
Good advice though is to test the water and don't come on to strong.
Good Luck and I wish you all the happiness
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evemurphy says
It really is very simple.
Women are always doing the very opposite of what they are thinking. If they are interested in a guy they will most certainly look UN-interested in him. The more un-interested the better...up to a point.
If you say something funny, they will make a point NOT to laugh, even if it was truly funny.
If you smile at them, they will turn away and look around the room to put you off.
You see, women WANT to be chased, and if you are not up to the chase you are not up to them.
The fact is that women love to be chased and at some point, caught. It proves you are a real man and you have the balls to put up with surface rejection.
You must learn that if you like a woman, she wants to be special enough to be the subject of your efforts, the goal of your desires and the target of your affections.
Don't worry if she puts you off.
It is often a sign of affection.
Drew Breezzy says
if you get the look if ya know what I mean
if shes wanting to talk to you, misses you etc
celistina says
I think girls can be quite hard to read, and I'm a girl, so that's saying something ;)
There's a few signs:
1) If she agrees to go out together with you (alone) after one date (and it should be clear that it's a date)
2) She dresses up especially for the date
3) She smiles and keeps looking at you for eye contact
4) She pays full attention to what you are saying
Great Aunt Rose says
When a girl is interested in you, these are the sure signs:
1. She will always take your call.
2. She will answer all your text messages.
3. She will re-arrange her schedule to be with you.
4. She will urge you to meet her friends and family.
5. She will kiss you alot.
6. She will stare at you when you talk to her.
7. She will laugh at your dumb jokes.
8. She will ask when will she see you again.
9. She will flirt and touch you alot.
10. If she's not in to you, she will let you know!!
gemzz says
ummmm well depends how well u know the person... but if they always look really happy to see you, bother txtn u first, get close to you, look for an excuse to play with your hair or touch you thats always a good sign. and if they're talking to you and they look away and then look bak at u kinda like they're shy thats good too.
sunime09 says
I think that if a girl or woman goes out of her way to be in your presents then that is a sure sign. If she trys talking to you about things that might be of your interest then she might be trying to start a conversation in hopes of it going further. If you see her eyes always on you, thats a sure sign. If she shows up at special events that you might be at thats a sure sign also.
tae7m says
us as girls are mostly shy around the guys we like. see women are more conservative when we like a guy. guy are out there with the teasing and hitting. for some girls its obviously when you talk to her she giggles or start to get quiet. some girl they are very protected of you. some girls like to be around you. some girls are like guys and they hit you and tease you. its mostly on the girl.
PensAndPipettes says
If a girl's interested in you but isn't sure you're interested in her, it can be less clear cut and she might seem to contradict herself. But over all...
1. She makes an effort to spend time with you. Alone.
She's interested in what you have to say and takes the initiative to ask you questions about yourself, about what you're interested in, etc. She likes how you act in groups but she would rather find out who you really are.
2. Body language: brief invasions of the personal "bubble", touching you on the arm, messing with your hair, etc. When you sit together, do you sit close enough so that you could touch? Knees? Shoulders? And does she move away when you're this close? Because "just friends" usually try to maintain a "no misunderstanding" distance. If not, that's a good sign, unless you're trying to fit 10 people in a car or she's super laidback about personal space.
3. Reading between the lines
Watch for her reaction when you say something that COULD somehow imply that you're interested too. Abnormal reactions include going completely still, suddenly taking interest in some object, suddenly playing with her hair or fixing her clothes, etc.
Everyone else has good answers too that could help a lot. Getting a second or third opinion really helps too. I just tried to give you the "shy girl" clues. =D
seo_kid says
It's the eyes! When the two of you look at each other don't turn away. If she looked down, wait till she looks at you again. That's the sign.
mushy_mai says
How I view it, there are no signs guys could determine whether the girl is interested in them or not. Actions can often be misinterpreted especially when not accompanied by words or any explanation why they are doing it, it is when miscommunication occur. It is best to ask them directly, "Do you like me or not?" Simple as that. If she said NO. Move on, life doesn't end there. Be specific of what you ask, if you want to get the specific answer. If you get the answer you would like to hear, good for you.
Same thing when we ask God in prayer what exactly we want. If He says No, He certainly knows what is best for us.
Stuart Mathewson says
A surefire way to know that a girl is interested in you is the way she holds your gaze when you are talking to her.
tanay253 says
She will prefer to be with you and feeling a pleasure in your company.She will give you enough signs that you are for him.

shreekrishna says
she will try to keep ignore you ,
but she wanted that you talk first ,
or
she will try to spend more time with you without get known to you ,
when you go infront of them , she had a something different behaviour than a normal.
Dede Oppong says
Well she will always try to be around u, and when u are not around she doesnt feel comfortable
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