Define the line between close friendship and an affair. At what point is this line crossed?

The two of you taking a trip to the bedroom would be the wake up call.

I think its when the mind, body or heart wants more than friendship and one begins to act accordingly.

It may seem innocent: a lunch meeting here, a friendly gift there; but it can easily grow to cross the line. If you are engaging in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex while you are already... keep reading →

It's natural to start having feelings for your friends; they may say the right thing at the right time and we feel giddy when we see them even though at first we don't have feelings. But it's when we act out desires and fantasies that it begins to border on an affair.

If you feel happy to hear from them or see them, it's a friendship. If you begin to have a longing for this person and desire them sexually, it's more than a friendship. And when you begin to act out those feelings (and so does the other person as well) it is an affair.

When you begin to talk about meeting them in secret, secretly emailing or texting, and talking in a way that is suggestive, it is an affair.

Know the boundaries you have with yourself and your spouse or significant other and don't cross them. This will safeguard all friendships and relationships.