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Does it matter to you what people think of you?

Life is strange. If you are good looking people will talk about you, if you are not they will, if you are good to them, they’ll talk about you, if you ae not they will. Does it matter to you?

asked by Lady_E 6 months ago

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lindagoffigan says

The only people who you should be concerned about is family and true friends. Of course you should care what people think of you, however, the relationship with the person is what really matters. Adults should not be looking left to right to see what others are thinking unless a relationship exists. Some people never grow out of their teen years and stay focused on what others think. It does not matter what others think because you can not control their thoughts. The only thing that you can control is your reaction on what is said about you. Remember to be self-controlled and only think about what people think who you truly care about.

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Anamika S says

Yes, It matters to me what people think of me if they are people who are close to me. Otherwise I don't care.But I try living the type of life where nobody points a finger at me in anyway.

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kblover says

Not really, especially if this is just random people that obviously have no interest in getting to know me.

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fortunerep says

Absolutley not, as a matter of fact I live by the phrase "I have been called worse by better people"

dori

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aikidk01 says

Most people will say "no". In reality, most of us crave acceptance from others. While we protest otherwise, many of us long to be looked at positively by others. If we acknowledge that these feelings are real, then we can consciously let go of them.

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marriedwoman says

in a way, i think yes it does matter. but whether you'll let it affect you, that's another story. whatever people think about you, there is always a choice... you have a choice...

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adam-12 says

Ultimately, no. I think we can use other people's opinions to gauge our actions at times, but really that's all they're useful for. If I'm happy with myself, that's all that matters.

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Darry says

no, they wont be there when you die. Only you will.

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emily3579 says

no because if they think of u in a bad way and they don't know u then they need 2 get 2 get 2 know u 2 determen weathr u are a bad or good person.

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guidebaba says

No, it doesn't matters what people think of me. I just do whatever I feel like. I live my life !

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