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Twilight Lawns says
Every one of these answers, although they differed in some ways, were absolutely right.
Love and sex are two amazing things, and when they come together, that increases the effect more than twofold.
dinkan53 says
Sex is a part of love which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship. Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.
dashingscorpio says
No, Love is not measured through sex. You can have sex with someone and never fall in love with them and you can fall in love with someone you never had sex with. It's also possible to have a "casual relationship" involving sex that evolves into a "serious relationship". Every serious relationship I've ever been in began casually and grew into something special. When it comes to love there are no rules except for the ones we set for ourselves!
nightwork4 says
sex is a huge part of it but there is so much more. trust, dependability, caring, honesty etc, all make love what it is.
Bella Nina says
Love then sex, sex then love . . . the order does not matter. Love can certainly grow either way it happens. Sex is a barometer for a relationship though. If the sex isn't there, something is missing, or lacking in the relationship. Sex is a physical expression of love in a relationship. That doesn't mean if there is no sex, then there is no love. But I believe if there is no sex, the love is probably in trouble. People love to live in denial about that. But, I think it is undeniably true.
romari says
If you are really in love with that person, you would somehow give yourself to him/her. But if sex happened first, i think, love won't follow. it's lust.
Libra Rajani says
I think dinkan53 is right. I think men show their love through sex and women need to be in love for just about anything dealing with sex. Women are emotional and all the pieces have to fit together in order for sex to be a pleasurable experience. This is especially true for married women. Husbands have to begin the foreplay as early as possible, not ten minutes before. Men feel if the sex is great, all is right with the world.
1kmjs says
False. Passion is measured through sex. Love is measured through sacrifice and compromise.
plussize-lingerie says
A lot of truth in these answers, so for my part I'd sum it up by "in part". I don't think you can just say true or false.
Oh, and I'm not sure about the "men fall in love through sex". Some do, some don't. Is sex more important to men than to women?
Ask the man, and ask the woman. Completely different for every person as to how important it is, and indeed how important it is to everyone changes every day depending on how they are feeling, what they are doing, whether they are stressed, etc.
juiwei2000 says
Sex is a part of love, but it takes more then that, otherwise, girls in the sex industry would not have so much problem finding a man, they are hot and they are good at having sex. But when it comes down to it, nobody wants to date them :)
ashleemacbeth says
Well..not really! Sex is definitely an integral part but love can be measured more by understanding, commitment & loyalty than just sex.
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