What do you think sexs toy are healthy for a relationship?

I think that if you and your partner are open to it, sex toys can be a fantastic augment to your sex life. Some toys are just silly, but a good ol' fashioned dildo can add some spice and make the sex fun. Toys, in and of themselves, are created for fun. Sex should be a fun, exciting, experience, no matter how long you have been with your partner. Believe it or not, sex can become monotonous. I definately think that sex toys can brighten up the experience. As far as being healthy for a relationship, I think that whatever makes you both happy can't be all bad, right?

Using sex toys opens up the communication in a relationship and enhances intimacy. Sometimes it's fun even if you've picked the wrong sex toy that neither of you like, then laugh about it later. But when you pick a good one, sparks can fly like nothing else before.

Sex toys have their time and place though and shouldn't be used as a replacement to intimacy, but an enhancement of it. Use the sex toys often, but have sex without them often too. It's not true that you get addicted or don't like sex without them after using one, if anything you like sex without them even more and enjoy using them occasionally just as something fun and out of the same routine.

At HappyHer.com we have many men and women who buy sex toys for themselves to use alone and as gifts to surprise their partners with. No one has ever complained about the enjoyment they've gotten out of them and many of them have been so delighted that they've come back for more.

I think sex toys are often healthy. It also opens up a whole new world. If you think about it, what would be the alternative not enjoying sex?